Everyone often says that "men are afraid of entering the wrong industry, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", and what women are most afraid of is choosing the wrong husband. No wonder the elders are always nagging, don't look for that kind of incompetent guy to be a husband.
For men, they have the ability to go out, but they also have to be responsible at home, and they can make their families live well. Don't just think you're doing well outside, but when you come home and make a mess at home, it's ugly!
Speaking of which, it is necessary to mention the following four mistakes that incompetent men often make:
01, disrespecting his wife.
In married life, the most important thing between husband and wife is mutual respect. But some men just don't understand this truth, and when they get angry outside, they start to play music when they come home, and they casually find their wives or children to be angry. The more capable a man is, the more cultivated he is, and the better his temper is. No matter how many grievances you have suffered outside, you can always hide your emotions when you come back and give your family a warm smile.
02. The eye is high and the hand is low.
It doesn't matter how big or small a man is, after all, there are still a lot of little people like us in this world, and there is nothing to be ashamed of. But he always dreams of being a big man all day long, picking and choosing, can't do anything, and always wants to get rich overnight, this attitude of not wanting to start with small things makes people look down on him.
03, blind bragging.
A man who is really capable rarely talks about it before his career turns over, let alone shows off. They just keep their heads down and keep a low profile. It's the opposite of those who pretend to be better than others all day long. People who don't have the ability to brag all day long, saying that I can handle that thing if I change it, but in fact it's just bragging.
04. If something goes wrong, you will only complain.
I can't stand a little difficulty at work, I only complain about others, find various reasons to shirk responsibility, and never think about finding my own faults.
If a woman marries such a man, I am afraid that she will have to endure hardships in the future. So women have to think about whether there are such men around themDon't waste your true heart. Gay men also have to reflect on whether they are like this, and try to correct themselves to make their family life better.