Life is not planned at all, life is like driving in a foggy day, you can only see 150m, if the home configuration is a little better, the headlights are better, you can see 200m, this is already the limit.
If you want to see things after 600, you can only go 200, look at 200, and then go and look again, you can't see 600m at the moment, and the same is true for planning, you can plan for two or three years today, but you can't plan for five years and ten years, because the variables are too great.
Many times we plan our lives, but we are immediately upended by a small event, it can be said that a butterfly flapped its wings in Inner Mongolia, and then soon the cold snap in Western Siberia came earlier.
For example, if you are a wooden life, Xishui went to a city that you like and prospered you, planned to buy a house and work in this city, get married and have children, and arrange a school district, and suddenly one day, a city next door sent you an offer, with the same benefits, double the salary, overtime compensation, three salaries and one month of annual leave a year for holidays, will you pass?
You have already bought a house here or a school district, but you haven't lived in it yet, and after you arrive in a new city, your income is quite high, and then you start planning in the local area, buy a new school district house to live and take a new path, who did you listen to?No, just because of an offer with good pay.
The plan that you have been planning for a long time will be immediately overturned by a small thing, and all the plans will change, as the so-called plan cannot catch up with the change.
So life is actually not planned, life is at every node, take a small step forward, and then see the current scene, and then take a small step, see a small step away, just like driving in fog, you only have to walk these 200m.
Your fog lights illuminate the area, and you find a crater there, and as you go, plan to make a slight turn to get around it. Because it's something you're looking at as you go.
But if you just follow the plan, is there a pit in front of you, and you can drive straight through it?Life can only see the present, and if you want to see things in 5 or 10 years, you can only take a small step forward and take another small step through today's current state.
Since I was a child, I have been entangled and hesitant to take the Tsinghua University and Peking University entrance examinations, but it does not prevent me from eating roasted sweet potatoes now. While watching other people's parents plan for their children, they will be admitted to Tsinghua University or Peking University in the future.
There is a state that many people should have, that is, when thinking about a thing very badly, this thing will develop in a good direction, if you think about this thing for good, there will be a not so good development, in fact, it is unintentionally inserted into the willows, and it backfires.
Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, there is no need to plan too far, planning in the near future is still very necessary, taking one step and thinking ten steps is useless, planning too much will add greater anxiety to yourself, if you make a plan and don't do it, you will be anxious.
Even if people have troughs and ups and downs, the overall trend is upward, you can't predict what kind of people you will meet, how life will change, and cognition is constantly changing, so it is enough to have a general direction, knowing the current left and right, which is much more important than the future in the future.
Be friends with time" is also mentioned in the book, long-term planning is the ability that needs to be constantly practiced to Xi, we are all ordinary people, there is no excellent what it looks like, and the indicators have not reached any high ground, and this goal cannot be achieved temporarily.
Life changes at any time, there is really no way to plan, the future of each point is different, every step of the present is good, the world is very big, change quickly, pay attention to the present.