Recently, the stalk of "Teacher, my family Zihan" has become all the rage on the Internet, making many netizens laugh. However, the cause of this stalk was that a child named Zihan was bitten by a mosquito, which caused a series of controversies in the parent group. The meme quickly spread widely on the Internet, but unlike the previous popularity of "All Staff Zihan", a new batch of mediocre names are now in vogue, which is embarrassing to the students. This article will explain the reasons for the popularity of popular and mediocre names in Zihan, as well as the perception of this phenomenon.
Zihan's name has been popular all over the country, and many parents think that this name is fashionable and have named their children "Zihan". However, as time went on, the popularity of the name faded, and a new batch of banal names became popular. Many of these names are rare characters, and post-90s parents especially like to use maverick names to give their children words that are more difficult to write. In addition, some parents tend to give their children pseudo-compound four-character names, and some even use game names or special titles. These names may seem special to parents, but for students, they are embarrassing.
Some parents think that the use of rare words can highlight their children's uniqueness, but these words are used less frequently and have more strokes, which causes confusion for students. In the early days of learning Xi writing, students are exposed to simpler characters, but they have to master their own names. Students often find it difficult to write some complex names, and even cry while writing, complaining about why their parents have given them such complicated names. This may sound humorous, but for students, the difficulty they encountered at the beginning of their Xi learning can be devastating and may even affect their motivation to learn Xi and write.
Some parents like to give their children some homophonic memes, but such names can easily make children the object of ridicule from their classmates. Although sometimes classmates are not malicious, such nicknames can undoubtedly make students feel uncomfortable and may have an impact on their character formation.
Some parents choose a name for their child entirely on their own volition, regardless of other factors. However, these special names may cause problems for your child's future development. For example, there is a female classmate whose name is "Whampoa Military Academy", and she has been reluctant to introduce her name so as not to be ridiculed. These examples are a reminder to parents to be careful not to be too special when naming their children, and to consider their children's future development.
We should be respectful and tolerant of the tendency of parents to use mediocre names, because it is a parent's personal choice to choose a name. However, we should also take into account the child's feelings and future development. The idea of coming up with a unique name or having a family name incorporated into it can sometimes cause unnecessary distress for children. When choosing a name for your child, we can consider the following aspects:
1. Pay attention to the difficulty of writing the name. Try to avoid overly complex glyphs and over-drawn characters to make it easier for children to learn Xi and write.
2. Avoid names that are too special. Taking into account the social and school environment, we can give children a name that is both personal and easily accepted.
3. Respect children's opinions. When choosing a name, you can communicate with your child to understand their thoughts and feelings, and give them a chance to participate in decision-making.
Overall, naming is a personal thing, and each family has its own philosophy and preferences. But when choosing a name, we should also take into account the child's future development and our own feelings. Choosing a name that is both distinctive and not too exaggerated can better allow children to maintain confidence and dignity in the process of growing up.