The author saw such a girl when I was swiping Douyin, she spoke very bluntly: I am a second marriage, there is nothing to hide, I don't believe in love, I only choose what suits me!
Mia, a 32-year-old girl from the Northeast, ended her first marriage, and her 9-year-old daughter became her only weakness. In the United States, she met the lover who lived with her for the rest of her life, even though this lover has three sons and is 20 years older than her. Some people wish her a happy life, while others call her stupid.
Mia was born in 1983 in rural Northeast China. But her family is not like others, because her mother has no milk to drink, Mia has been ** powder since she was a child, plus she and her brother ate fine bran at that time.
Mia was born in the so-called "official family", her grandfather was a leader in the village, and her grandfather was a veteran of the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea.
With such a grandfather and grandfather, Mia's family is naturally not bad for money, so she has not suffered since she was a child, she does not have much desire for money, she never lacks food and clothing, and she was still a 10,000 yuan household at that time.
But the superior life came to an end after the death of my grandfather and grandfather. At this time, Mia's life was not as good as before, but it was not much worse, and her parents wanted her to find a day when she was right, did not seek much understanding, and did not feel pain.
But Mia can't listen to it anymore, she thinks that no matter how bad life is, it can be bad to **, and having love can defeat everything.
In this view of love, Mia develops a crush on a young man who is not wealthy. She firmly believes that as long as the two get along well, life will be better.
In marriage, each other promised that they would work hard to make Mia not worry about food and clothing, and they would never ask Mia's family for help, who would have thought that time was the best test for scumbags.
At first, the newlyweds were sweet. The guy was very kind to Mia, and he didn't let go of anything, and if there was anything good, he would make Mia tight first.
With her husband's intimate care, Mia was relieved to conceive a baby at the age of 23. At that time, she never thought that having a child would change everything, and the trivial life made the relationship between the two fall into the ice cave.
Firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea can't live anymore every day, Mia quarrels with her husband all day long, the two no longer have the sweet feeling of being in love, and Mia also finds that her husband is accompanied by other women outside.
It is said: marriage, the tomb of love. The young Mia didn't believe it, but when she really entered the marriage, she found that everything was illusory, how could there be "love and water" and "love, eating bread with taste".
But her daughter is the most tender part of Mia's heart, she has lived in a warm home since she was a child, how can she bear to let her daughter have a broken home, so she began to endure the days.
The marriage lasted until Mia was 32 years old, when her daughter was nine years old, and she understood her mother's grievances. Mia had a long and frank conversation with her daughter, asking her if her parents would agree to live separately
The daughter can see that her mother is unhappy, and she can see her father's true face, she is not noisy about her parents' divorce, and she shows that she has been with her mother.
Mia looked at her sensible daughter upset. As a result of a mistake at a young age, the children did not have a complete home, and she was determined to try to raise them well.
Considering the failure of her first marriage, Mia no longer trusts love, believing that material things are still the first priority, and if you want to re-enter the marriage, financial situation is the most important first factor.
Mia, who was divorced, took her daughter to Yantai, Shandong, and at that time she also found a part-time job to earn money to support her family.
One day, the boss arranged a plan for Mia to contact a foreigner from the United States. In Mia's opinion, it doesn't matter who she contacts with, it's good to have a salary.
But this docking allowed Mia to find the end of the second half of her life while changing the fate of herself and her daughter in the second half of her life.
Mia is a very serious woman who doesn't care how tedious her work is, doesn't care who she is associated with, and just wants to do a good job of what she is in charge of.
The foreigner is an American, with great wealth, and after his divorce, he brought three sons, two of whom are married, and the younger son is still studying. After the divorce, he was no longer married, and he raised his three sons alone, and because he was often busy with work, he had no intention of looking for it anymore.
When the foreigner first saw Mia, the long-sealed love heart came again, looking at the thunderous woman in front of him, the foreigner couldn't help but fall in love with Mia.
It was even more heartbreaking to know that Mia was still taking care of her daughter alone after her divorce. The middle-aged man expressed his love very bluntly, and the foreigner bluntly asked Mia about whether to marry or not, hoping that Mia could take care of herself and let them have a home.
Mia was very moved when she heard this, it is really not easy to live her life well after being single for so many years. At a glance, she knew that the foreigner was very serious, and she also had the strength to take care of the life of the mother and daughter.
Although Mia said that she agreed, she also investigated the foreigner for a while, after all, once she was bitten by a snake, she was afraid of the well rope for ten years. She thinks that foreigners are kind-hearted, often contribute free money to children in need, and are very attentive in life.
My daughter is 12 years old in 2018 and just graduated from primary school. At this time, the foreigner also took the initiative to ask not to go back to the United States with him to live, take his daughter, and settle in the United States in the future.
Mia thought for a long time after hearing this, and the foreigner was 20 years older than him. When she said it to give it to her family, people didn't approve of it and even thought it was a bit ridiculous.
But for Mia, it is not easy to find a man who takes care of her mother and mother, and how difficult it is if she is in China. Foreigners have that power, and these two people like each other very much, and living together is nothing.
After careful consideration, Mia applied for a visa to the United States and brought her daughter to live in the United States with a foreigner. When she arrives in the United States, Mia doesn't need to go to work, she can stay at home and take her daughter to school all day.
Since Mia began to share her life of "marrying an American who is 20 years older" on the Internet, she has been criticized by many netizens, who think that Mia is for money, and some people say that Mia is a U.S. green card.
However, Mia also sent ** in response to netizens, saying: I only understood what I wanted to have most after the failure of my first marriage, and money was one of the elements, but it was not the only element.
And Mia believes that what kind of life to live is decided by one person, and others don't understand the joys and pains in it, don't comment on it.
After Mia arrived in the United States, life seemed to be a little too easy, she didn't need to do anything every day, not even going out, because she didn't drive without an American driver's license, and she needed to be accompanied by a foreigner as long as she went out.
Therefore, Mia's only outdoor activity is to visit nearby supermarkets and shopping malls, so naturally she does whatever she wants. She has no friends or acquaintances in the United States, and a foreigner with her daughter is her only love.
Mia, who stays at home, does not need to be a stepmother, her two sons have married and given birth to children, and her young sons do not need her to take care of them. She just needs to take care of her daughter's growth and accompany her to adapt to various environments.
Mia's daughter also learned to play golf and is the type to go playing. Foreigners will take their daughters to the golf shop to pick their favorite golf clubs, and they will also enroll in some professional courses and ask some professional teachers to teach.
At home, the eldest son of a foreigner can find time to tutor his daughter in golf skills. These are the things that Mia thinks are satisfying, that her daughter can pursue what she loves, that she can enjoy life to the fullest, and that is enough.
And foreigners' poetry intimates prepare gifts for Mia every holiday, such as sending Mia a big bouquet of flowers and small ** on Valentine's Day.
I have to say that adult love is so simple and practical. In the eyes of foreigners, no matter how much you give gifts, there will be no ** value retention, and Mia must like it very much!
During her time in the United States, Mia had nowhere to go, often went back to China, and when she talked to her mother, she was always chased by her mother and persuaded her to take good care of her, and if her life was not rich, she would return to China immediately.
Whenever she hears her mother's instructions, Mia is very sad, and at the age of nearly 40, her parents have to worry about her, and it is impossible for her to be with her parents often.
All of these issues will take time to be resolved, and Mia has been applying for a green card in the United States since she came to the United States. As long as you have Green Kamia, you can regain your freedom.
On September 13, 2022, the foreigner had a big party behind Mia's back and invited a lot of friends and family, because he would make Mia have a big surprise.
At the party, the foreigner presented Mia's exclusive 10-year U.S. green card. Mia looked at the green card she had been waiting for for 3 years and finally got her hands, and she burst into tears with excitement, which happened to be her birthday.
Mia gets the perfect birthday present. Mia took a group photo with all the relatives and friends at the scene, because it was too hard to wait for a day, during this time, Mia had to give up several times.
For Mia, the U.S. green card is a proof that she and foreigners are moving forward smoothly, and she hopes to be happy with foreigners for life, and the key is to make Mia's daughter more assured to study in the United States!
And Mia, who has a green card, can also return to China to visit her lover. At that time, Mia's mother said that she was dreaming, and in the dream, Mia went back to the United States, but did not go home to live, so she hurried back to the United States.
In the video, Mia looks at her elderly mother and cries bitterly, hoping to return to her home country to live with her mother, tell interesting stories that happened in the United States, and hope to take her mother to the place where she lives to see what is going on.
Seeing that Mia was so excited, the foreigners couldn't hold it back, hugged Mia vigorously to comfort her, and wiped away her tears while crying!
Today, Mia's daughter is 16 years old and has reached the age of taking a driver's license. It is said that it is not easy to get a driver's license in the United States, but children Xi can learn everything quickly, easily get a good driver's license, and can also drive and practice golf by themselves.
Looking at her daughter's getting better day by day, Mia is also very happy. During the four years she lived in the United States, she rarely socialized and entertained herself or signed up for Xi every day.
But now she has found a more interesting thing - taking her grandson out to play during the holidays. You must not think that Mia was originally a grandmother, and she has two grandchildren and two granddaughters, which is particularly likable.
In July, Mia and her foreigner drove their four grandsons and daughters out for a self-drive, and they also prepared a trunk of luggage and a lot of fruits on the road.
On the way, we met giraffes, elk, and other animals, and groups of children happily fed the animals, and the car was full of laughter. For Mia, it's also a family fun.
After a short trip, Mia returned to Texas. Mia is still only a full-time housewife, but she goes out shopping on weekends and occasionally goes for a run near her home, and foreigners are responsible for earning money to support her family.
When Mia was in the United States for 4 years, she was almost closed, with no friends and no social activities, which led to her now liking to stay at home alone and not going out.
With the green card, Mia immediately put the matter of returning to China on the agenda, and after preparing everything, she found that her daughter's visa had expired, and she would have to wait a little longer for the review. However, the green card has already arrived, and the waiting time is not so urgent.
Mia has known foreigners for 7 years and been married for 5 years. Their combination may not be acceptable to many people, but for Mia, it is the life that she longs for in the second half of her life, and people should choose the right one.
For 40-year-old Mia, there is nothing wrong with living with a 60-year-old foreigner every day, the foreigner understands life, has a good temper, is still kind, and treats his daughter like a parent, all of which is enough in Mia's opinion.
And Mia is 40 years old this year, has children and grandchildren around her knees, and has neither the pain of bringing a baby, nor the worry of the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, in this regard, Mia is much better than her peers.
But Mia herself said in ** that transnational marriage is not suitable for everyone, it can only be said that everyone's choice is different, and there are some things that must be paid if you want to get it, and I hope everyone can make a rational choice.
Let's pray together for Mia and the happiness of foreigners!What do you think, please leave a message in the comment area**Oh!
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