Recently, the director of the Social Security Research Center, a well-known expert, spoke.
He gave his own advice on the current low fertility rate, that is, young people should still seize the effective childbearing period when they are young and healthy, otherwise there will be no store in this village. As for finding it difficult to raise a child, you can turn to relatives appropriately.
As soon as the suggestion came out, it instantly ignited the Internet.
Some netizens wittily said, what are you waiting for, people in difficulty go to this expert to recognize a relative, and they don't have to work hard in the future;Some netizens were not lightly thundered, they used to say that they had emptied six wallets, but now it's good, and they don't even let go of their relatives;Some netizens feel that this expert not only talks similarly, but also looks exactly the same as the expert who said that he could rent out the extra house.
Really, sometimes Happy Dad himself feels a little trance, this is the so-called expert who takes taxpayers' money, and when these words come out, he doesn't feel like laughing?
Take, for example, the advice to ask relatives for help.
First, do other relatives have their own children to raise, and they responded to the call of experts to help relatives raise children, but what about their own children?And who will help raise it?
Everyone's energy is limited, especially in taking care of children, it is even more limited and pitiful, putting their children aside, and devoting themselves to helping relatives raise children
Clause. Second, the main reason why many young people do not have children is the high housing prices and the high cost of children's education.
Looking at the meaning of experts, can turning to relatives solve the problem of not having a house, and can turning to relatives solve the problem of the cost of their children's education?
There are too many complaints about this suggestion, why is the fertility rate low, this doctoral supervisor, enjoys ** special allowance, can adjunct professors of many universities not know?Instead of solving the problem from the root, it is a headache and a doctor's foot, which is really incompatible with the word expert.
In fact, experts in China have almost become the role of "everyone shouting and fighting", whether it is an expert who advises farmers to buy a house in the city and drive back to the village to farm, or an expert who advises young people to drive out to make Didi to earn money, it has attracted merciless ridicule.
Yes, now that young people are living hard enough, they don't need experts who point fingers, enjoy the dividends of reform themselves, but condescendingly accuse young people of not wanting to struggle;They don't need experts who are old or whose minds are still alive in the last century, who don't eat the fireworks of the world and don't know the sufferings of the world;They don't need the so-called experts who impose the blame on them even though it's not their fault.
In fact, as a creator in the field of parenting, Happy Dad knows what these experts mean when they say these words.
It's nothing more than that the country's fertility rate is too low now, and young people's willingness to marry is too weak, so it's natural to have children if they don't even get married. Over time, China's population structure will be unbalanced, and problems will occur on the production side and the supply side, affecting the long-term development of the country.
Similar questions about the social impact of declining birth rates and the dangers of aging populations in neighboring South Korea and Japan can be said casually.
But then again, is the impact of the declining birth rate really that serious?Do you need these experts to come out and give life advice to young people?
Not really.
On the one hand, in any case, China is still a world power with a population of 1.4 billion, and even if the fertility rate decreases in a few years, the huge population base will not have an obvious aging trend, and it will not make our society lose its vitality all of a sudden.
In the time we were caught in the low fertility trap, we had enough time to respond in a variety of ways, so it was not that urgent at all.
On the other hand, whether a matter is important or not depends on the attitude of the country.
For example, new energy vehicles are definitely a national policy and are vigorously promoted by the state. The country has given a large amount of subsidies to new energy vehicles, and the production enterprises have given subsidies, and the customers who have purchased them have given subsidies.
This is the right and influential decision-making, and the country's attitude towards matters that have serious implications.
In contrast, when it comes to encouraging young people to have children, we really don't see any substantive and targeted measures from the state. Even the rumors that there are every year, such as subsidies for giving births, are only implemented in a few places at most, and they still look like there are policies that have not been realized.
Therefore, the matter of having a child must come from the love for the child, hoping to experience the meaning of life in the child, feel the growth of life, and find the direction of his future, etc., rather than being kidnapped by the so-called expert morality.
But then again, some of the expert's words are still right, such as having a baby as soon as possible.
Some time ago, after the news of Xu Ruoxuan's divorce came out, some people recalled her experience of being pregnant and giving birth at the age of 40, taking more than 300 injections to protect the fetus, and staying in bed for more than 5 months in order to fix the fetal position.
This is still a rich female star, if ordinary people do not have the economic conditions of others, and they give birth at an advanced age, it will have a certain impact on the mother and the child, although it is not absolute, but compared with having a child at a young age, there is still a greater probability.
And the physical fitness of elderly mothers is not as good as that of young mothers, if they give birth too late, the physical recovery will not be very good, and there will be no more adequate experience in taking care of children, and even after the children grow up, they will age early, etc.
So, if you really want to have a baby, you might as well listen to this expert's advice and try to do it as early as possible.
It is understandable that social experts should pay attention to the fertility problem of young people, but we still ask these experts to come out and look at the current situation of society, find the root cause of the problem, and listen to the voices of young people, instead of putting forward some suggestions that are out of identity as they are now.
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