There are always people in our social circle who we used to be close friends with, but as time goes on, they gradually become silent in our lives and stop speaking even in the group of classmates. We may wonder why they don't communicate with us anymore, why don't they attend the meetings we organize, why don't they quit the groupThis article will ** the causes of these problems.
First of all, we need to recognize that social and real-life relationships are different. On social**, people can hide their true feelings and emotions and only show the side they want others to see. As a result, some people may choose to remain silent in their group of classmates because they don't want to expose their true emotions and thoughts on social **.
In addition, some people may not be able to attend parties or withdraw from the group due to their busy lives and work. As we get older, our work and family responsibilities become heavier and our time becomes more and more stressful. As a result, some people may feel embarrassed or embarrassed because they can't attend a party or leave a group.
Others may choose to remain silent or leave the group because they have had a conflict or argument with certain people. In our social circles, it is inevitable that there will be some conflicts and quarrels, which can cause some people to feel unpleasant and uncomfortable. As a result, they may choose to remain silent or leave the group to avoid conflict with certain people.
Finally, some people may choose to remain silent or withdraw from the group because of low self-esteem or lack of self-confidence. Over time, our life experiences and the circumstances in which we grew up change, which can lead to changes in our values and lifestyle. As a result, some people may choose to remain silent or withdraw from the group because of low self-esteem or lack of self-confidence because they fear that their thoughts and opinions will no longer match those of others.
To sum up, there may be many reasons why some people do not speak, do not attend parties, and do not leave the group in the group of classmates. They may choose to remain silent or withdraw from the group because of their busy life and work, conflicts or arguments with certain people, low self-esteem, or lack of self-confidence.
As their friends, we need to understand their situation and feelings, and respect their choices. If they no longer attend meetings or leave the group, we can try to reach out to them to find out how they are doing and how they are living, and let them know that we still care about them. At the same time, we can also try to invite them to the party so that they can feel our care and warmth.
In addition, we need to recognize that social** is not our only way of communicating. We can contact others through **, text messages, emails, etc., to understand their recent situation and living conditions. At the same time, we can also try to organize some small gatherings or activities to make it more convenient for our friends to communicate and interact with us.
Finally, we need to respect everyone's choices and decisions. Everyone has their own way of life and values, and we can't force others to change their thoughts and behaviors. If they choose to remain silent or leave the group, we need to respect their decision and not make them feel uncomfortable or embarrassed.
In conclusion, there are various reasons why some people do not speak, do not attend parties, and do not leave the group in the group of classmates. We need to understand their situation and feelings, and respect their choices. At the same time, we also need to connect and interact with others in a variety of ways to enrich our social circles.