The Prescription of the World Life doesn t have to look around, you are your own answer

I remember when I was a child, whenever I had a headache and brain fever, my mother would take me to the clinic to see a doctor.

After the old Chinese medicine doctor heard about it, he wrote and crossed out on the "prescription note" and prescribed the right prescription for the symptoms.

Three or five days later, when the medicine was gone, I began to be alive again.

A few years later, I read a new collection of essays compiled by the famous writer Liang Xiaosheng"The Prescription of the World"., the image of the old Chinese medicine doctor resurfaced in front of me.

In the book, Liang Xiaosheng is like an old Chinese medicine doctor, talking about ideals, life, life, and life, and checking the pulse, giving advice, and pointing out the maze for young people who are in confusion and anxiety.

In his objective and warm experience sharing, countless people have reshaped their hearts, walked out of spiritual difficulties, and regained a sober life.

The road in the world is long and obstructive, and there are many prescriptions.

No matter what you are experiencing, you can find the right prescription for the symptoms, find the antidote from the "Human Prescription", ** troubles and pains, and reap unique curative effects.

Liang Xiaosheng once did a very "unwise" thing.

One year, on the National Day, he invited his classmates from Harbin to come to Beijing to play, and used the ID number provided by his classmates to buy return tickets for his classmates.

But the classmate went to another place for a temporary reason and couldn't come to Beijing, so Liang Xiaosheng had to go to the station to refund the ticket.

Knowing that the refund procedures are strict and the ticket buyer's ID card is required, Liang Xiaosheng didn't want to trouble his classmates to express his ID card, so he decided to try his luck.

If you meet a reasonable waiter, won't you get things done?

Liang Xiaosheng took his ID card, work permit, household registration book and other documents to the train station, wanting to try his luck.

But the waiter at the refund window told him that without the ID card of the ticket buyer, any documents would be useless and he would not have the right to do it conveniently.

The manager on duty also did not look at any of his documents, and even interrupted his statement, saying that he could not do anything.

Liang Xiaosheng was out of options, and finally lowered his old face: "Please make it convenient, you see my age, on a hot day, my clothes are wet, be sympathetic." ”

Still no one paid attention to him, it was really in vain that he ran to the station once, and he was angry in vain.

In the end, the matter was resolved: the old classmate sent the ID card by courier, and Liang Xiaosheng went to the station for the second time, and after queuing for a while, he refunded the ticket.

This "unwise" thing made Liang Xiaosheng reflect for a while, and he advised people:

Don't learn from me. If you want to do something, you know that the other party has some kind of rule, so don't leave it to chance.

It is better to keep the trouble to yourself than to leave the result to chance.

In real life, there are not a few people who have had Liang Xiaosheng's experience:

Drinking, not driving? Let's go, this little wine can still cause a traffic accident?

This preparatory work can be dealt with, and it is impossible for the leaders to check it in detail.

The high-speed train at ten o'clock, as long as there is no traffic jam, I will go out at half past nine, and the time is more than enough.

I only think about the good and don't want the bad, and I always feel lucky enough to avoid risks and get good luck.

But the result is often regretted after being hit by reality.

Luck is the greatest misfortune.

When you're lucky, you're stuck in blind and wrong decisions.

Pinning hope on the uncertain unknown, the greatest probability is that the bamboo basket will be empty, and even accumulate fatal damage for yourself.

Munger once said, "If I knew I was going to die in **, I would never go there." ”

A truly smart person will never be lucky when encountering problems, but stay sober, down-to-earth, and act steadily.

Have you ever met such a person in your life:

They talk to you, although they are very principled and do not use dirty words, but they sound rigid and cold, sometimes with a sense of provocation, which makes people feel very angry and angry.

It is conceivable that such a person who speaks excessively is very unpopular, and may even intensify the contradictions, and the gains outweigh the losses.

In the process of refunding a friend's ticket, Liang Xiaosheng "enjoyed" such treatment once.

He knew that it would be difficult to refund the ticket without bringing his classmate's ID card, but he still wanted the manager on duty to make it convenient for him to refund the ticket.

But the manager on duty acted according to the rules, unmoved, and even more reluctant to explain too much to the old man.

Liang Xiaosheng pleaded in every way: "You are just afraid that I am a **, but the ID card and household registration book prove that I will not be a **, so you can take a look at these documents." ”

The manager on duty didn't even raise his eyelids: "There's no need to look at it, the household registration book and ID card are also fake." ”

Liang Xiaosheng was stunned: "Then do you think my old man will be **?" ”

The manager pouted: "* Regardless of age." ”

Liang Xiaosheng was angry: "Why do you have such an attitude? So what's the point of you sitting here? ”

The manager on duty blurted out: "Is your business related to human life?" When the Minister of Railways came, I had this attitude. ”

Liang Xiaosheng was suddenly furious, and in front of the public, she was directly angry, and she was embarrassed.

Of course, in the end, Liang Xiaosheng solved the matter through other means.

But the manager on duty said that "the Minister of Railways is here and I have this attitude", which made Liang Xiaosheng think of some commonplace phenomena in work and life:

In the early days of their work, some young people were afraid of making mistakes, being criticized, and taking responsibility, and generally "admitted death".

They hold a certain amount of authority, but they are unreasonable in doing things, especially when they say it, they don't think about it, they don't take into account the feelings of others, they have no warmth at all, and they are like swearing, which makes people feel cold.

How can we do a good job of serving the people? For this reason, Liang Xiaosheng preached:

China is a society of personal feelings, so you can ask your old colleagues for advice on how to deal with the world, and it is convenient to walk within the scope of your authority, and it is not a mistake to make mistakes;

Communicate with others, put yourself in their shoes, express opinions gently, and win the understanding and sympathy of the other party;

If it goes against the common sense of the Chinese, if you pull the banner of the tiger skin, don't say it.

Liang Xiaosheng's "life experience" can be said to be the key to the communication of modern young people.

A good word, three winters are warm.

Straight words, to turn a corner, cold words, to heat up to say, principled words, to be flexible, so as to icing on the cake, people like a spring breeze.

Democritus said, "Words are the shadow of action." ”

What you say represents the level of your emotional intelligence and what kind of person you are.

Therefore, no matter what you say, you must think twice before you say anything, and don't say anything that is not warm, which is respect for others and a manifestation of your own self-cultivation.

Truly mature people know how to swallow the words that should not be said in time, and spit out roses when they must say the words they must say.

Have you ever regretted anything?

Everyone can answer in the affirmative.

Eat, drink, sleep and make a number of big and small decisions, who can not make mistakes and not regret it?

The key is that once you regret it, it will affect your mood that day, and if you feel guilty, it will affect your future life, and the gains outweigh the losses.

But Liang Xiaosheng is not like this:What has been done, no regrets.

Once, when Liang Xiaosheng came home from a massage parlor for the blind, it was already past 9 o'clock in the evening, and there were few pedestrians around.

While crossing the overpass, he was stopped by two women. One in his forties; One was twenty-six or seventeen years old, holding a child.

The older woman said that she and her brother-in-law were going back to their hometown, and they didn't have any money with them, and they were afraid that the child would wake up and be thirsty in a while...Liang Xiaosheng understood what she meant and gave her twenty yuan.

Whether you buy water or milk, 20 yuan should be more than enough.

However, the woman continued to beg: "Give us more, we two adults and one child, we can find a small hotel to stay in tonight..."”

Liang Xiaosheng hesitated slightly, and then gave her all the more than 200 yuan in the wallet.

Watching TV at home the next day, the TV happened to talk about all kinds of begging and even fraud tricks, Liang Xiaosheng couldn't help but think:

Did you get scammed last night? How much money can they cheat in one night?

He discussed this with a few friends, and everyone without exception said that the two women were **, and he was deceived.

Liang Xiaosheng said calmly

I've been scammed, so what? Is it worth lingering on? My experience with begging hands is-

The word "deception" flashed through my mind, and I believed in my intuition, and I was indifferent, and there was no need to have any anxiety in my heart.

If my intuition makes me believe and give, even if everyone ridicules me as mentally retarded, I should not regret it.

Doing something like that at that time is one of the least regrettable things you have done in life.

Liang Xiaosheng didn't come to the void, so he took it, still frank and open.

The reason why this venerable old man lives a free and easy life is that his happiness is in three words, and he has no regrets.

Rabindranath Tagore wrote in The Birds:

If you cry for missing the sun, then you will miss the stars too. ”

The so-called life is full of choices in every moment, no matter how you choose, there will be regrets, and no matter how much regrets you have, it will not help.

The past cannot be traced, and the present should be cherished.

Gain and loss follow fate, act from the heart, do not regret the past, firmly believe in the choice of the present, and live every day without regrets and fear, this is the best explanation for your life.

Liang Xiaosheng once sent such an earnest message to young people:

The so-called positive and sober life is nothing more than to find the most suitable way of life for yourself. Once found, it is determined that there is no distraction.

Young students should be rooted in inner cultivation, self-consciousness without reminding, freedom premised on self-discipline, and kindness for the sake of others.

And Liang Xiaosheng has experienced too many joys and sorrows in the world, has a deep understanding of life, and can better understand the spiritual world of young people.

He weaved a piece of wisdom and experience that was close to common sense into "Human Prescription", providing a life guide for thousands of young people.

Life doesn't have to look around, you are your own answer.

The prescriptions full of warmth and strength have comforted everyone's soul, known themselves, how to face difficulties, how to understand others, and how to find the meaning and value of life.

The future starts now.

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