Blind date strategy Increase the actual contact time and promote the relationship to warm up!

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-31

Many women said that as they grew older and were pressured to get rid of singles from family members, they were forced to choose to solve the problem of singleness through blind dates.

However, blind dates are not an easy task, and some people have even gone through multiple blind dates and still not made any progress. So, what methods should be taken to improve the success rate of blind dates and gradually warm up the relationship with the blind date?

1: Put aside your prejudices and try to get to know each other.

In the process of blind date, people often set various conditions and rules in their hearts, such as height, appearance, household registration, garage, etc. However, it is not wise to dismiss the other party on just a few conditions. Put aside your prejudices and get to know each other better so that you can get a more complete picture of their strengths and traits.

2: Increase time together and have more practical contact.

Regardless of the conversation on **, if you want to make progress, it is best to have more physical contact with the other person. Go on dates, drink tea, chat, watch movies, and give small gifts, such as handmade items, appropriately when you meet.

Actual contact can help you get to know each other on a deeper level, especially for those who are more focused on feelings, and shared experiences can help warm up the relationship.

3: Lower the threshold and learn to be grateful.

As we age, many people find it difficult to develop heart-pounding sensations. This may be due to the increasing demand for affection, and the perspective of looking at things becomes relatively numb.

In falling in love and blind dates, learn to look at people and things in the present, rather than past experiences. Keeping your mind soft and learning to be grateful will help you discover more beautiful things.

4: Discover common ground and do more related things.

The production of love often depends on the similarity of each other.

In blind dates, we should be good at discovering each other's commonalities, and common values, love and hobbies can become important conditions for attracting each other. Shared activities and topics help bring each other closer together and bring them closer together.

5: Rational view of blind date, two-way choice.

Blind date is a two-way choice, rather than a man unilaterally pursuing a woman. In blind dates, women should not expect men to unilaterally accommodate and pursue themselves. Blind date is a process in which both parties examine each other, and both parties have the right to choose.

Therefore, it is necessary to treat blind dates with a rational attitude and work together to build a relationship, rather than blindly expecting the other party to pay for themselves.

By adopting these methods, I believe that everyone can be more rational and open in the process of blind date, increase the chance of successful blind date, and finally achieve the goal of getting rid of singles.

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