There are three important factors for a marriage or relationship to survive: first, the economy. Second, the couple's life is not normal. Third, trust. A marriage that satisfies all three factors, whether it is a boy or a girl, will have a happy life. Normally, there must be at least two of the above three factors. If there is only one, this marriage will end sooner or later.
Editor: Normally, when a married girl cheats, either there is none of the above factors, or there is only one of the above factors. Only in such a situation will the girl take a huge risk and choose to betray her husband. Otherwise, no girl is willing to risk ruining her reputation and doing something sorry for her husband.
What I'm going to talk about today is how married girls cheat step by step. Some girls don't know what's going on, and they are inexplicably moved. At a certain time, the request of other boys to go to the hotel to play Tetris was granted.
The first step is contact. At first, the girls just talked to the boys about work. Talking about the content of the work, this gives the boy a chance. Boys with high emotional intelligence and understanding of girls can seize this opportunity. Especially boys who have ideas about girls may start to talk about the content of work, which is the conditions created by boys on purpose.
Editor: As the number of times the content of the work increases, especially after the girl troubles the boy, the girl will let down her vigilance against the boy in her heart and treat the boy as a friend. Girls regard boys as friends, and they will talk to boys about things outside of work, family children, and husbands who complain about their unsuccessful husbands.
The second step is to go deeper. The content of the conversation between two people has changed from work to life, and there will be more contact. The boy helps the girl solve the work matter, and the girl will invite the boy to drink milk tea. In turn, the girl helped the boy solve the problem, and the boy offered to have a meal. In the beginning, girls would refuse to invite boys to dinner. As the number of invitations from the boys increases, the girls will eventually agree to the boys' invitations to dinner.
As long as the girl and the boy agree to eat once, then there will be countless times later. As long as the girl puts aside the worries in her heart and enjoys the benefits brought by the boy, there will be countless times. At this point, in the hearts of girls, boys have become trustworthy and reliable friends. Two people "cross" together, just the right time.
The third step is that the time comes. The moment the girl treats the boy as a reliable friend, she has already fallen into it, and she is just one moment away from cheating. At this time, it can be that the girl's husband bullied the girl, or did something that made the girl feel cold. It can also be two people who go on a business trip together and have the opportunity to get along together.
As long as the above time comes, the boy will be able to take the girl with a little initiative. Some girls find out that they are wrong after being taken down and doing something sorry for their husbands, and then regret it.
The fourth step is to make a mistake. The girl did something sorry for her husband, and her heart was uneasy and full of guilt. In this state, the girl will suddenly be very good to her husband. When the girl's guilt period has passed, the girl has convinced herself in her heart, and most importantly, she has tried the fun it brings, and she will be wrong. Regardless of the family, when there is a chance, he will live a shameless life with his cheating partner.
The fifth step is the showdown. People like the new and hate the old, girls continue to focus on cheating objects in their hearts, and after a certain amount, girls will have a showdown with their husbands. Of course, there are also female husbands who find out that their wives are wrong, discover the truth, and choose to have a showdown with the girl. After the showdown, the girl naively thinks that the cheating partner will marry her. Normally, they wouldn't get married. Only a small percentage of boys marry girls.
Edit the sixth step, regret. After a girl chooses to cheat, she will regret it when she finds that her husband is still good. After the girl regrets it, in order to get back together, she will mobilize the seven aunts and eight aunts to blackmail her ex-husband for various reasons. A man with an inflexible brain will think that his ex-wife already knows that he is wrong and will agree to his ex-wife's request to get back together.
Step 7, repeat the cycle. It is difficult for a marriage or relationship to continue to run after a crisis of trust goes bankrupt. After the boy agrees to get his ex-wife back together, he can get better for a while. After this time, the girl will repeat the above cheating steps again.
Conclusion: Whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as you betray love, then don't believe in any prodigal son turning back, these are all false. They betrayed once, and there will be countless times to come. The reason why he is honest may be that the boy makes up for the three factors mentioned at the beginning, which makes the cheater feel that the effort and the gain are not proportional!
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