The new trend of pseudo-compound surnames and names makes young parents proud, but students are distressed
We often say that education is the top priority of every family, but it is more accurate to say that everything about the student is the top priority of the family.
Student participation has always been a serious problem, and it has been serious since kindergarten, as most parents now pursue it"You can't lose at the starting line"Educational philosophy. Nowadays, the phenomenon of student participation goes even further, even starting from the naming stage.
If nothing else, the names given to elementary school students by their parents will stay with them for the rest of their lives. A good name makes a great impression, which is why many parents attach great importance to names. It's understandable that naming a student contains the good expectations of parents;After all, all parents want their children to have a bright future.
However, due to the limited number of Chinese characters and the large number of Chinese, no matter how you choose a name, you will change your name. Therefore, in order to ensure the uniqueness of the student's name, some parents will use some uncommon Chinese characters, which often annoys the teacher during the student's school day.
Nowadays,"Pseudo-compound surname"It has become a new naming trend. Each era has its own representative name, such as Jianguo, Lijuan, etc. The parents of the post-80s and post-85s generations were influenced by Qiong Yao's drama and gave their children names such as Zihan and Zixuan.
This kind of same name and surname means that the probability of having the same name and surname is very high, and there may be more than one student in a class with the same name and surname, which means that when the teacher asks a question, the student does not know who is asking.
In order to avoid these popular names, young parents are starting to look for new ways to name their children, and one of the new trends is to use them"False repetition of surnames"。
Compound surnames are very rare in "Hundred Family Names", such as Ouyang, Shangguan, Duanmu, etc., only one compound surname can be found among a hundred students. Therefore, use"Compound pseudonym"It will give people a sense of nobility, and the teachers have also noticed that there are more and more students with four-character names in the class.
This makes the parents happy, but the students are very distressed. Elementary school students can't write well when they learn to write, and four-character names are even more difficult to write, which makes many students stumble. In addition, exams require more time, and these names are often strange, and teachers are afraid of calling them wrong, so they would rather not call them, which affects the physical and mental health of students.
Some students mistakenly believe that teachers don't like them, don't want to go to school, and lose interest in learning. Instead of wasting energy on a student's name, focus on the student's development.
When it comes to naming students, parents have good expectations for them. A simple and easy-to-remember name is enough and doesn't require much effort. Too much effort can often backfire, especially elementary school students tend to associate many things together and sometimes even nickname each other, but due to their young age, it is difficult to keep up, and students who are nicknamed are greatly affected.
Parents are the first teachers of students, and their every move is imperceptibly influencing students. Therefore, parents should focus more on the education of their students and less on the name. Homeschooling is also very important for the growth of students.
Students may not realize the importance of learning and need the right guidance from their parents. First of all, parents should create an environment conducive to learning.
Parents can turn off the TV or mobile phone and bring a book to study when students are studying or doing homework, so that students can realize that learning is a part of daily life.
At the same time, parents should also cultivate good study habits in primary school students. In elementary school, in addition to mastering the basics, it is also very important to develop good study habits. If students develop good study habits, they will not have much difficulty in learning even when they reach middle school.
In general, parents should be simple and concise when choosing a name for their student, and not overly complicated. Instead of placing too much emphasis on the student's name, focus on the student's educational aspect.
Discussion: What pseudo-duplicate names have you seen?Feel free to share in the comments.