There are two babies in the family, and they are of the same age, and there are too many scenes of swords and swords.
You moved my pencil, I broke your toy, a nobody's omelette left over from the last meal, and the next meal was swallowed by the sharp-eyed baby... Any reason you can't think of can lead to a big war.
The situation in my family is that the second child is more "owed", and he often provokes his brother, provokes a handful, and does something sabotage. And my brother is more loyal, and he is often beaten up in anger. So it's the younger brother who often stirs up trouble, but it's the elder brother who fights.
In fact, your own baby fights are really easy to deal with, because unlike babies fighting outside, you will be mixed with a lot of distractions, worries and suspicions. No matter which baby has the upper hand, the heart is relatively open.
My general argument is, first, small fights do not matter.
In fact, the phenomenon of two babies fighting often occurs in families of the same age. If the eldest is much older than the second, the mode of getting along with each other will not be able to fight at all. You will enjoy the peace of the prosperous world under the suppression of pure blood.
So what does this mean?It shows that the two babies are of the same age, which is a unique resource advantage!"How did you acquire high emotional intelligence communication skills at the age of six?"There is no other hand to know ...
When children resolve disputes with each other, they are actually practicing how to get along better with others and thus better face social relationships. Therefore, it is very necessary to leave space for children to handle disputes on their own.
Second, we should fight hard to uphold justice and vent our anger for the wronged.
One thing that is resolutely not to do is to directly hit 50 boards to calm people, or reduce the dimensionality from the perspective of "hitting people is not right". The result of such a method can only be that a baby has been wronged for a long time.
Many times, I can feel that my younger brother is naughty because he doesn't know how to get along with people and how to attract people's attention. So, for my younger brother, I will give enough attention and intimacy. At the same time, he constantly emphasizes the rules and makes him bear the consequences, and guides him to get along with children in the right way. In the face of justice, the baby is often convinced.
For the elder brother who has always suffered losses, encourage him to express his emotions, and at the same time use "wisdom" to counter his younger brother's behavior. I will also support him in fighting back, but I will tell him which vital parts must not be hit;"* is absolutely unusable.
Of course, sometimes my brother will also be the "unreasonable" party, and he must point it out fairly and never tolerate it.
Third, brothers, friends, brothers, brothers
The fight here is like a cockfight, talking about courtesy, talking about love, not to say that it doesn't play any role, but it is easy to add fuel to the fire.
The two babies fight, in fact, there is really nothing to be afraid of. Especially the brothers and sisters, there is no overnight feud at all, just after the fight here, the tears have not been wiped away, and they have already played together over there.
As a parent, if you have experienced more, you will be desensitized, and you will just treat it with a normal heart.