Chenqian Li (Zhengzhou University).
Recently, Peking University math genius Liu Zhiyu's new book "Every Step of Life Counts" was released, and he mentioned in a conversation with Yu Minhong that he was married. Liu Zhiyu was once a mathematical genius at Peking University, winning a gold medal in the International Mathematical Olympiad and a full scholarship to the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. However, at the age of 24, he chose to become a monk. In the Spring Festival of 2022, Liu Zhiyu returned to the world, and then worked in a psychological consulting company, leading a team of more than ten people to develop psychology courses. In December 2022, Yoo Ji-woo announced the news of his love on his account. (December 22, Pengbai News).
This is a life experience of a former proud son of the sky, but whether it is the pride of the sky, or an ordinary person like you and me, everyone comes to this world uniquely, and everyone has the right to choose the path they want to take.
The debate about how to choose a lifestyle never stops. One side believes that life should be more struggled, and young people should take advantage of their youth to give full play to their own advantages and create their own value. Those who hold this view think that Liu Zhiyu's move is really a waste of his talent, and he obviously has a bright future, but he does not take the "broad road", and prefers to become a monk. Even after 8 years, aren't you still married?The other side believes that everyone has the right to choose the life they want, and every choice of Liu Zhiyu has its own basis. Whether it is a monk or a return to the world and marriage after 8 years, it is a decision made after following one's heart and respecting one's own wishes.
In fact, everyone has their own considerations in life choices, which may be based on various factors such as personal hobbies, family environment, social background, etc. Liu Zhiyu's choice is based on his thinking about life and a deep understanding of his inner pursuit, he chose to become a monk, is the pursuit of inner peace and practice, and later found that his heart wants to be closer to the public, and he chose to return to the world. He thinks that he and his girlfriend have similar personalities and match the three views, so he will confess to each other. Although Liu Zhiyu's choices may seem "deviant" to others, we should respect everyone's life choices and lifestyles, and there are no universal rules and clear rules in this society. And different choices and experiences will bring you different gains and growth. After all, life is a wilderness, not a track, and there is no need to follow the established path prescribed by the world.
The controversy over the matter also focuses on the fact that some people believe that Yoo Ji-woo's choice is worthless, and he has given up on the path he may have succeeded. But the criterion for judging success, the quality of the work?How much is the wealth?Or is it the level of social status?So, measured by this system, how good is the work is success?How much wealth is success?How high is social status to be successful?Once what you get cannot satisfy your desires, when others think that you are successful in life, will you think that what you do is successful?In fact, the standard for measuring success is not only that system, but also to obtain your own satisfaction and recognition.
The world is diverse, so some people choose to be stable and follow the rulesSomeone chooses to experience and break the conventional ......Not all multiple-choice questions have the right answer, as long as you want to, listen to your own ideas, and choose one.