In "Hometown, Don't Come to Harm", the real appearance of the character Xie Yang is far from being as simple as it seems on the surface.
Xie Yang and Zhang Pei were classmates and went through the youthful campus years together. In that youthful time, the relationship between the two gradually warmed up. However, the conservatism of Zhang Pei's family and the strictness of her parents put her in a difficult situation. Xie Yang knew all this, but the young two could only choose to part ways under the pressure of their families. This young love has become an important clue that affects the fate of the two in the future.
After Zhang Pei left, Xie Yang did not choose to give up, but chose to wait. He knew that Zhang Pei was hiding from him, but he was willing to wait for her return in place. This kind of persistence and persistence has become a highlight of the whole story. In the years since he lost Zhang Pei, Xie Yang has continued to strive to grow in anticipation that one day, Zhang Pei will appear in his life again.
Xie Yang once told Zhang Pei that his greatest wish was to sell skewers. This seemingly simple dream has a close connection with Zhang Pei. In Zhang Pei's memory, kebabs are her favorite delicacy, and Xie Yang chose to integrate this memory into his dreams, trying to realize a small but warm dream for Zhang Pei. However, this is only part of Xie Yang's lies, and there are more intentions hidden.
Zhang Pei discovered the truth about Xie Yang's mansion during a chance dinner, revealing his ** for many years. It turns out that Xie Yang is not a simple skewer seller, he has a more complex background and purpose. This discovery made a fundamental change in Zhang Pei's view of Xie Yang, and also injected new energy into the development of the whole story.
The reason why Xie Yang chose to deceive Zhang Pei was not out of malice, but out of protection for her. He learned that Zhang Pei was working hard and life was not easy. In order to protect her self-esteem, he chose to hide his true situation, unwilling to let material conditions bind the relationship between the two. Xie Yang wanted Zhang Pei to accept him because of true love, not because of material things.
Zhang Pei's attitude towards Xie Yang has changed, and the relationship between the two has also been tested. This complicated emotional experience is destined to affect the future development of the two.
The story of Xie Yang deceiving Zhang Pei in "Hometown, Don't Come to Harm", although it is a fictional plot, the emotions and humanity contained in it make us learn a lot of inspiration in real life. This story teaches us that the road to love is not all smooth sailing, and that there is a delicate balance between lies and truth, and this balance often stems from a deep understanding and sincere protection of the other person.
First of all, we learned from Xie Yang's protection of Zhang Pei that we have a sincere adherence to love. Xie Yang did not mean to deceive, but out of affectionate care for Zhang Pei and respect for her self-esteem. He didn't want to put his material conditions in front of his feelings, but chose to hide the truth, so that Zhang Pei could accept him because of his true feelings. In reality, we may also reflect on whether love really needs to be swayed by material conditionsXie Yang's perseverance tells us that in the process of pursuing love, sincerity and firmness may be more precious than external conditions.
Secondly, Xie Yang's waiting and persistence in the story also give us inspiration. On the road of affection, many times what is needed is not only a momentary romance, but also the accumulation and persistence of time. Xie Yang has been waiting for Zhang Pei for many years, although such a wait may be rare in real life, but it makes us think: when we really cherish someone, can we give enough patience and time so that the relationship can slowly take root and thrive?Perhaps, for feelings, waiting is not a passivity, but an active giving.
Moreover, through a series of efforts and a small dream set for Zhang Pei, Xie Yang in the story makes us understand that in love, the key is not the success of the career, but whether you can manage your feelings with your heart. Xie Yang's attempt to realize Zhang Pei's nostalgia for fond memories by falsely selling kebabs may not be desirable in reality, but it reminds us that in a relationship, sometimes a heart and care can touch the other person's heart more than a gorgeous career achievement. In reality, we may be able to think: can we use some small actions in our busy lives to create some warm memories for each other and make the relationship deeper?
Finally, the ending of the story also brings us thoughts about love. Although Xie Yang's ** was finally exposed, this did not hinder the development of the relationship between the two. This may tell us that in love, it is inevitable to experience some twists and turns, but the important thing is whether both parties can understand and tolerate each other and face the difficulties in life together. The road of love may be full of twists and turns, but as long as the hearts are connected and each other is sincere, then even the lies of the past can become a part of the relationship and achieve a stronger foundation of love.
In this fictional love story, we may be able to find some emotional resonance that is connected to real life. Xie Yang's perseverance, waiting, intentions and understanding are all key elements needed in love. Through this story, perhaps we can be more clear about our attitude in the relationship and treat the people around us more attentively. In reality, everyone's love story is unique, and we can draw inspiration from other people's stories that are beneficial to ourselves, so that the flower of love can bloom in the soil of life.