5 months, 154 days, more meaningful than I have lived in the past 30 years.
I, 30 years old, choose to lie flat in life, I can see through the end of life at a glance, no desire and no desire.
Until one day, I realized a problem:I want to be independent.
Because I don't want to be controlled by my family, I don't want to be spoiled by my parents, and I don't want my children to inherit my lying life, so I want to live my own life.
However, due to a lack of awareness, I don't know how to change it.
What suddenly made me eager to learn Xi?
There are two opportunities, one is to change the new environment at work, and the people around me have become excellent people and have entered an excellent circle of friends;The second is the introduction of a friend, which allowed me to meet Mr. Jiang Wumo.
Every time I needed Mr. Jiang Wumo, he appeared by my side in time and gave me the right guidance, he was my life coach and my bosom friend.
After studying with Mr. Jiang Wumo for half a year, Xi trajectory of my life finally changed. From being controlled to being independent, doing things that you dare not think or dare to do.
Learning Xi made me realize:As long as you are willing to change, your fate is under your control.
Xi it
Teacher Jiang Wumo said: "The old Xi habits cannot be eliminated, and the Xi old habits can only be replaced with new Xi habits. ”
I remember in the first month of Xi, I had various questions, such as: "Is it useful to read, listen to, and review every day?"”
The teacher would always say, "Just do what you are told." ”
I persevered with questions until the second month, and I actually fell in love with reading, what a magical thingA person who didn't like to read for 30 years fell in love with reading in a month.
In the third month, my biggest breakthrough was computer typing, because I rarely touched the computer and had never typed, Mr. Jiang Wumo asked me to use Kingsoft typing software to practice Xi typing.
From finding letters with one finger at the beginning, to now breaking through 100 words per minute.
This gave me a lot of encouragementAs long as you want to change, there is nothing you can't do. The second is listening to books, which has made me smarter, able to quickly understand the meaning of what others are saying, and make judgments.
It turns out that learning Xi self-discipline is not as difficult as imagined, as long as you are obedient and do what you say, and implement it according to the method, you can develop new Xi habits and good Xi habits.
Break through yourself
The first stage was just the cultivation of Xi, what really changed me was that Teacher Jiang Wumo came to Yongzhou to study abroad.
In my imagination, he was a strict mentor, but after this contact with the teacher, I found that he was a humorous, energetic, and relatable big boy in life, and he would take pictures, tell jokes, and talk about life when he traveled, which was completely different from when he was working.
After taking my teacher to see the ancient city of Lingling in Yongzhou, I drove to Starbucks in Wanda Plaza.
In those 2 hours, Mr. Jiang Wumo helped me sort out the current problems, bagIncluding family relationships, parenting concepts, colleague relationships, etcThen, according to my actual situation, I gave specific solutions and guided me on what I needed to do at the moment.
In the two weeks since my teacher left Yongzhou, I have plucked up the courage to do what I dare not do, maintained a physical distance from my family of origin, reorganized the small family relationship of the family of three, and then started a new journey with my partner by having a weekly family meeting.
It's a good feeling to be in charge of myself, and it's this independence that makes me feel confident.
Now that I think about it, at the beginning, I just wanted to learn to write materials and adapt to the new job with Mr. Jiang Wumo.
Now it seems that writing materials is only a part of the learning Xi, and the Xi tasks assigned to me by the teacher have opened up my Xi, work and life and other aspects of the two pulses of appointment and supervision, which has really achieved all-round self-improvement.
In less than half a year, I not only arranged my home properly, but also made a breakthrough in my work.
Now I am stable, as stable as Mount Tai.
Disrupt perception
Through Xi, I realized the importance of cognition, and a person's cognition determines the height of his thinking.
The previous cognition was that it was lying flat mode, and I never thought of being independent.
After 5 months of Xi, under the guidance of Mr. Jiang Wumo, I slowly transformed from a lying flat person to an independent person.
This is the first time in my lifeIt's a good feeling to be able to make your own decisions and arrange everything at home, no matter how big or small it is.
There are many difficulties in life, but with a high level of awareness, I can solve various problems smoothly, which is why I want to study Xi.
Acquire knowledge from learning Xi to improve cognition and thinking.
I am also trying to learn Xi third stage of learning Xi, because I know that learning to think logically at the fourth stage can make a leap in my cognition.
My friend completed all 4 stages of Jiang Wumo's personal brand course Xi in one year, and her change is really amazing, with her as a role model, I think it is difficult not to improve.
In less than half a year, I became calm and calm, 30 years old, with a 40-year-old thinking.
I didn't know what to do when I encountered something before, but now when I encounter something, I can quickly sort out a solution to the problem.
I remember Mr. Jiang Wumo telling me: "The essence of learning Xi is to solve problems. ”
Today, I have grasped this essence and made it my life goal to study Xi for life.
Author |Min Xiaoxi.
Edit |Jiang Wumo.