The attitude of the seniors in parenting is that they are willing to suffer themselves but also ensure that their children get the best, and strive to let them grow up in a superior educational environment and have access to better educational resources.
Especially those parents who were born in the 70s and 80s, no matter what problems they face, they will put their children first and themselves second. But that changed dramatically as some people in the 90s became parents, willing to endure all kinds of hardships as long as they could ensure their children's well-being. This phenomenon is sometimes ironic.
And now the post-90s parents are more inclined to pursue the concept of "being safe with the situation and bringing the baby by the way", which seems to be more rebellious than their children. Because they grew up in a modern education model, they pay more attention to personal feelings than to compromise for the sake of their children. Such parents are also more articulate, and when communicating with young college students, they are often unresponsive in conversations.
This generation of parents is really hard to fathom", the transcript of the conversation between the college student and the parent is full of energy and laughter. Young parents are even better at entertaining on the Internet than students, and all kinds of memes are clear to themselves. For example, the following mother was concerned about whether the student ate at first, but the student replied no, she didn't know what to eat, and she was worried about the choice every day. Then my mother humorously suggested: "I'm a Libra and I also have a choice disorder, so let's give you some advice." ”
The student was expecting her mother to give her advice on food, but she didn't expect to find that the student didn't know what to eat, which made her mother feel quite speechless, so she replied with an emoji. It is undeniable that this mother is obviously 5G online, and the emoji used conveys a rebellious atmosphere, and students can only ask questions after seeing it.
When college students enter college, they spend a lot of time immersed in colorful learning and activities, and have relatively little contact with their families. Every time a parent is contacted, it is usually for living expenses or a special request.
This time, a college student is about to celebrate her birthday, and she wants to ask her father to give her a gift in advance, so she asks, "My birthday is coming, can you give me a gift in advance?"Unexpectedly, Dad replied, "Why Earlier?".Will you survive until then?This dad is simply the king of rebellious parents, and such an answer instantly leaves the student speechless.
With the rapid development of Internet technology, many students may not know much about the buzzwords on the Internet, and young parents who often surf the Internet are often more familiar with these trendy terms than college students.
The college student asked his mother, "Mom, where is my father?"After seeing the message, my mother replied: "Your father's Puxin man, the turtle he raised died, and he is emo in the aspect." It seems that this mother is very familiar with Internet hot words, and she uses two popular words in one sentence, showing that she is quite enthusiastic in the online world.
Seeing this, the student said, "Mom, you better don't brush so much." I didn't expect my mother to reply: "It's really funny for you to say this kind of thing, and you don't have to worry about beautiful girls." "This mom is really cute, she knows a lot of internet memes, and she adds a sense of humor when it comes to bothering about beautiful girls.
There are no communication barriers with parents, and younger parents adopt an educational approach that is more in line with the needs of today's children. When raising and educating children, the older generation always puts the needs of their children first, and even if they are financially constrained, they will not hesitate to wronged themselves to ensure that their children can enjoy the best to the fullest.
Unlike this approach, modern young parents are more balance-oriented, they take into account their own feelings and do not easily wronged themselves. This approach to education has been praised by many students, as some parents have given in to their children, but this approach does not ensure their children's mental health, but may make them feel guilty.
Continued adoption of this approach has no positive impact on student growth. On the contrary, young parents have a parenting style that is more suitable for their children today. Even if you don't get more support in terms of material resources, maintaining an equal relationship with your parents will help your child grow up happily without feeling guilty.
Although some people often ridicule the Internet that this generation of parents is difficult to handle, in reality, the communication between students and parents is unimpeded. Parents will also put themselves in the shoes of their students, which will have a positive impact on their future growth and learning.
College students should learn to be truly independent and not overly dependent on their parents. Today's young parents pay more attention to individual self-development, and at the same time give their children more room for growth, and do not interfere too much in the future development of students, as long as the students themselves are interested.
In this context, students should develop independence as early as possible, avoid over-reliance on their parents, and plan for their future. During their time at university, students need to focus on improving their overall literacy.
This includes not only academic performance, but also other important credentials, developing social skills, and actively participating in activities to achieve a postgraduate qualification. In this way, when they graduate from college, students will not feel lost, and their future will be a wonderful picture that will gradually unfold.
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