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Answer: Kindly satisfy the person who opens the mouth to borrow money, but the lender has gone through the vicissitudes of life) You are not wrong. Not only can you not lend it to her in the future, even if you lend it to others, you must see people clearly!
Someone once borrowed 6,000 money from me, and when he borrowed it, he said that he would repay me with interest when it was due, and I said on the spot that I didn't want the interest.
Later, he didn't pay it back for more than a year, and he asked for the first time, and he paid back more than 900, and he donated 800 to him before!After that, you will ask for it and ignore me at all!The more you ask for it, the more angry it becomes, the more unpleasant the words become, and the more frequent the begging!
An acquaintance asked me if I had lent him any moneyI hatefully told my acquaintances what had happened!Later, I called an acquaintance to go to the door to collect it, and the borrower coldly blamed me, saying that he borrowed money from me, why am I talking about it!I replied, you don't pay it back when it's due, and you don't pay attention to begging for money!He replied, "Blame me for what I said to him?"The implication is that I have a bad word. I replied, you ignore me, and you don't pay back the money, so I can't talk badly!And said to him, I'm not a bully!He said, who bullied you?So, let's think about it, for me, the fact that he owes money and doesn't pay it back, isn't he bullying me?
The person who helped me in debt collection seemed to be experienced and experienced, and took 500 yuan from his store to repay me on the spot, and urged him to write an IOU, and the person promised to pay off the balance of 4,600 yuan at the end of this year's solar calendar!As for the 800 yuan I donated to him, I will never take it back, but I said that I would lend him the money, and I was angry with him, and I planned to give it to !! not a cent
Seeing that there are still four days left in the appointment time, it is estimated that it is impossible for him to pay me back, so he still plans to concoct the same method, go to the door to recover, and think about it, and then take back 500 or something on the spot, and ask him to rewrite the IOU!Nothing polite!Kindly lent him money, and in the end, he was full of anger and suffered !!I've been borrowing !! for almost six yearsA lot of people don't think it's worth it!
Looking at this matter, there is a sentence throughout the whole process: ""Standing to lend money, kneeling to collect debts"!I hope that when you lend money to others, or before doing other good deeds, you must not be kind to the wrong place......
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