After becoming a parent, I deeply realized that the most terrible thing in a family is not poverty, but a person who is good at creating internal friction. Such people often make a big fuss about small things, which makes the family atmosphere very tense.
In my opinion, this internal friction is an invisible killer that inadvertently erodes the harmony and happiness of the family little by little. This internal friction can stem from some trivial things.
They may be furious at seemingly trivial things like a few dollars bowl being broken, vegetables not being bought fresh, shoes being placed incorrectly, and cooking with too much water. In their eyes, these seem to have become a big crisis, leaving family members in a constant state of tension and no sense of ease.
This kind of behavior is extremely secretive and terrifyingly contagious, gradually turning the home into a mental cage. Family members are full of grievances, accusations and mutual complaints, and lose the love and vitality they should have. People who grow up in this environment are often insecure, extremely sensitive, and cautious in their work, and may even spend their entire lives in conflict.
Family internal friction is a very terrible phenomenon, which is different from family conflict. Family conflicts arise on the basis of mutual respect and understanding, and can be resolved through communication, consultation, etc.;And family internal friction is an endless dispute with no solution.
Household exhaustion depletes family members' energy and makes them tired. In a family that has been in this state for a long time, it is easy for members to be estranged from each other, and even lead to emotional breakdown. Such a family atmosphere can make people feel depressed, helpless, and hopeless.
If you have someone in your family who is good at creating internal friction, then you must seriously think about the seriousness of this problem. Such a person will not only disrupt the family atmosphere, but also affect the physical and mental health of family members. If you don't want your home to become a mental cage, then you have to take steps to stop it.
First of all, you need to communicate with such people. Try to understand the reason behind their behavior and whether there is some stress or dissatisfaction that is causing them to lose control of their emotions. At the same time, it is also important to make them aware of the impact of this behavior on the family and make them aware of their problems.
Second, you can try to ease the tension by organizing family activities. For example, cooking a meal together, watching a movie, or participating in outdoor sports. These activities can enhance the bond between family members and alleviate the negative effects of internal friction.
Finally, if you feel that such an approach will not solve the problem, then you may want to consider seeking professional help. A psychologist or counselor can provide effective advice and help to help families get out of their difficult situation.
In short, household internal friction is a very serious problem. If you have someone in your family who is good at creating internal friction, you must take this issue seriously. Only by taking steps to stop this behavior can you make your family more harmonious, happy, and healthy.
Topic discussion: Do you have people around you who are good at creating internal friction?】