I, a 33 year old Guangxi native, fell in love with a Vietnamese boy, but my friends didn t understan

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I am Ding Ding and Dangdang's mother, 33 years old this year, from Nanning, Guangxi.

While working, I met my husband in Vietnam. When the two were in love, they were opposed by their families. In their opinion, Vietnam is poor and far from home, and finding a Vietnamese husband is not a good choice.

In order to obtain the consent of my parents, my husband specially took my parents to Vietnam. Take us to get to know and get to know his family. After a few days, my husband pinched my parents, and half a year later, we registered our marriage.

But even if it is a two-way marriage, there are trivial things in life. Therefore, my husband and I are constantly in conflict.

Thankfully, thanks to our joint efforts, things are now back on track. Now, I am working as a teacher of Chinese as a foreign language in a training institution, and I am looking forward to my future life.

Love is a lifelong thing).

In 1990, I was born into an ordinary family with an older brother. Although my family background is ordinary, my parents have given me a lot of love.

Parents are not highly educated, but they know the importance of culture. Since I was a child, I have been taught that life is not easy to come by, and we must remember to be diligent and thrifty, and we must study hard to Xi, because learning Xi is the best way out in the future. At that time, when I was still young, I didn't seem to understand, and whenever I heard my parents' teachings, I would only nod obediently.

My mom was a seamstress. She is ingenious, patient and meticulous, and every ordinary piece of cloth will be transformed into beautiful clothes after being designed by her skillful hands, so almost all the clothes in my childhood were made by her.

The unique style, combined with the coordinated colors, makes my companions look at me with envy whenever I walk down the street. It was one of my fondest childhood memories.

Precious childhood memories).

As we all know, before making clothes, the tailor needs to draw the pattern on the cloth with painting powder first, and then start to pick up scissors and cut along the painted mold. Under my mother's influence, I gradually fell in love with drawing and crafting.

In the process of stitches and threads, I not only gained inner peace, but also unconsciously improved my hands-on ability.

Something that can be done with a touch of hands-on work is a piece of cake for me. With a look at your eyes and a movement of your hands, you can "copy" what you want to do。In addition to becoming more hands-on, my patient and careful character can be well cultivated, and I am strict with myself according to high standards in everything I do, and I do not allow myself to make the slightest mistake.

In the footsteps of time, I lived a step-by-step life from elementary school to junior high school and high school. During this period, ASEAN's economy has been developing at a rapid pace.

After graduating from the college entrance examination, I was admitted to a regular university. At that time, my dad thought that the development prospects of ASEAN were good and that it would be easier to find a job in the future, so he suggested that I learn Vietnamese. I thought it was a good suggestion and started ...... learning Xi Vietnamese

University of Hanoi, Vietnam).

In my junior year, I went to Hanoi University in Vietnam as an exchange student for Xi two years because of my excellent grades. At that time, I had no idea that I would be inseparable from the land of Vietnam for the rest of my life.

My time in Vietnam was a great time and an important memory in my life.

I remember one time, our school held a fashion show, and the teacher asked us to design our own clothes. Although I have never designed clothes, I have made more than a dozen beautiful outfits in one go with my super "copying power" and the "manual work" skills I have cultivated over the years. During the catwalk, my classmates and I appeared in our own costumes, which became a beautiful sight.

Happy times always fly by. In the blink of an eye, 2013 is coming, and the graduation bell has been ringing.

After graduating, I worked for an import and export company at the border.

Where I used to work).

The border of Guangxi, whether it is Dongfang City, Dongxing or Pingxiang Friendship Pass, is not far from our home, and it takes about two hours at most to drive back and forth, so I work at the border from Monday to Friday and go home on weekends.

At that time, like most ordinary young people, I had an ordinary education, an ordinary job, and lived my own life in ordinary days. If there's anything special, it's probably that I'm married to a Vietnamese husband and have a transnational marriage.

In the perception of ordinary people, Vietnam is a poor and backward country, so my friends around me can't understand why I want to marry Vietnam.

Actually, Vietnam is not as bad as everyone thinks, and it has good points. As the saying goes, no one is perfect. When it comes to my love, I think it was arranged by God a long time ago. Otherwise, how could he meet him in the vast sea of people?

The handsome lad of the year).

My husband and I met at work. At that time, I was the only employee who could speak Vietnamese in the ** company, and the leader arranged for me to be in charge of procurement and translation.

My husband's company at the time belonged to a family company, and when they were doing business, they needed someone to connect with the business, so they found our company.

In this way, I was the first choice to speak Vietnamese. In the beginning, I was in business with their boss, and later it was my husband.

In the beginning, there was no in-depth communication between me and him other than work.

But as the number of contacts increased, I found that he had a good character, was honest and reliable, so I became a friend. As the relationship deepened, an inexplicable affection grew between us. In 2014, he asked me to be his girlfriend, and I blushed and agreed, and everything seemed to fall into place.

We are in love).

Outside of work, we eat together, watch movies together......After the holiday, he took me to fly, either to Vietnam or China. We feel happy and happy together.

Maybe my parents didn't want me to marry far away and didn't approve of us being together after knowing that I had a Vietnamese boyfriend. It's a bit of a pity, but neither of us wants to give up on each other.

In order to deepen my parents' understanding of him, my husband invited my parents to Vietnam in early 2015.

At that time, he took my parents to visit the museum in Hanoi, the capital of Vietnam, and experienced the three-wheeled sightseeing car, and enjoyed all the beautiful scenery of Hanoi. After about a week of playing, he took us back to his hometown.

My husband invited my parents to Vietnam to play).

His hometown is in Ha Long Bay, which is a very beautiful place. There we were warmly welcomed by his family. There is a sea in Halong Bay, and my husband took us out to see the sea, went out to sea on a yacht, and also took a boat into the cave together to experience a different scenery ......

In addition to the view, we also walked with his relatives. I knew he was doing it so that my parents could be reassured. From the words and deeds of my parents, I can see the loosening of their attitudes.

Sure enough, after my parents came back from Vietnam, they said to me: "You can decide for yourself, if you think you will live well, just do it." Because whether life is good or not is your own business, and your parents can't help it. ”

Go to sea on a yacht).

After thinking about it for a long time, I finally chose to live with him for the rest of my life. Soon after, my mother-in-law came from Vietnam to visit us, and it was clear that my mother-in-law was very satisfied with me. Half a year later, we went back to Vietnam to register our marriage.

Because it is a transnational marriage, the marriage procedures are very complicated, and it took three or four months to get the marriage certificate.

During that time, we went to Sanya, Hainan Province to take wedding photos. The process of taking pictures is tedious and tiring, but it is worth it to think about it once in a lifetime.

Take wedding photos in Sanya).

Sanya is a beautiful, relaxing coastal city. We went to the night market, ate the famous local food, and felt the local folk customs. In addition, we not only went to see the statue of Guanyin in the South China Sea, but also took a sightseeing bus to see the Nepal Museum and visited the ...... of the Longevity Manor

Even on the last day of the return trip, we went to Sanya Water Park despite the scorching sun. Although we were sunburned and peeling, we enjoyed it.

There, we ate, drank and had fun to our heart's content, blowing the sea breeze, smelling the flowers, and feeling the strong love between each other. And the crystallization of love is met unexpectedly in our deep affection.

Therefore, although we got the marriage certificate, we did not set up a wedding banquet immediately, until our daughter Ding Ding was born for 100 days, and then planned a "double happiness coming", that is, "wedding banquet" and "100-day banquet", to officially announce the establishment of our new home.

Double Happiness Comes to the Door").

At that time, we arranged this banquet in the Nanning Hotel. The feast was simple and grand, full of auspiciousness and happiness. After we got married, we have been living in Nanning, in fact, we have always had plans to come back to Vietnam to develop, but the plans can't catch up with the changes.

When my daughter was half a year old, we took her back to her hometown in Vietnam, and it was always a happy scene for relatives to meet, especially when my mother-in-law saw her granddaughter, she was so happy that she burst ......into tears

The arrival of my daughter has added a lot of joy to the family, and at the same time, I have gradually felt the pressure of life, and my life has begun to become stretched.

In order to find a new way out of life, my husband and I decided to quit our job and open our own breakfast restaurant.

However, the ideal is plump, and the reality is skinny.

In order to maintain the rent of the shop, we had to open the shop and work at the same time. Run our breakfast shop in the morning before heading to work. Every day is busy, and I feel like I'm on Hot Wheels. At the end of the day, I felt like my body was falling apart, my breath was weak, and my temper began to irritable ...... unconsciously

Because of all the trivial things in life, I began to quarrel with my husband, and my life became more and more depressing.

It is said that children are the angels of their parents, and they deeply believe it. The arrival of my son in July 2019 made me feel that my life was starting to renew and I was full of expectations for my future life.

The son returned to his hometown in Vietnam for the first time).

During the Spring Festival of 2020, our family of four went back to Vietnam to reunite with our families, and we all gathered together to chat, take family photos, etc., and had a very happy Spring Festival.

Unexpectedly, the pleasant atmosphere was quickly broken by a sudden epidemic.

The outbreak of the epidemic has caused everyone to talk about the epidemic and stay at home, and the economy of all walks of life has been impacted, and our breakfast restaurant naturally cannot escape the doom, and finally has to close its doors.

If you lose, you will gain, because if you don't open a store, you will naturally spend more time with your children. With us by our side, the children's smiles are getting bigger and bigger.

Because of the epidemic, we stayed in Nanning until the end of the epidemic this year, and we returned to Vietnam in February. After we got married, we lived in Nanning for eight years.

After coming to Vietnam, I worked as a teacher in a Chinese as a foreign language institution, teaching Vietnamese people to speak Chinese. My husband also went out to work, and we fought side by side, and our lives gradually got on the right track.

Colleagues from the agency celebrated my birthday).

I speak Vietnamese fluently. When they usually communicate with the locals in Vietnamese, they are surprised and ask, "You speak Vietnamese so well, are you Vietnamese?""When they knew I was a native Chinese, they couldn't help but give me a thumbs up. My students, in particular, adore me and motivate them to learn Mandarin Xi.

Students who wish they could speak Chinese fluently will find another time for me to make up for them.

If they don't want to go to the central institution for classes, they will also come to me in a group. I was deeply touched by their studious attitude, and I taught them well.

We have flexible times and locations for our classes. Sometimes I give them online lessons, sometimes I take offline classes at home, and everything is student-oriented.

Happy family).

Because of the opening of the class with students, I didn't have much time to do housework, so my mother-in-law came to help. She knew that I was busy with work, lacked skills, always worked hard, and silently managed the house, and I was often secretly glad that I had met a good mother-in-law.

However, as soon as I had time, I gave my mother-in-law a hand and took the initiative to take on some household chores. After all, people's hearts are flesh and blood, and helping each other and understanding each other is the foundation of a family harmony.

For children's education, our family attaches great importance to it, and we want to work hard to make money as education** to ensure that children get enough education in the future.

At present, both of us are busy taking care of our baby, going to work, making money, and at the same time trying to find a right direction, and then do a career in Vietnam, so that our economy can be guaranteed.

As a teacher, my biggest lesson is to teach children according to their aptitude, and as parents, we also need to teach our children according to their aptitude, in addition, we must be patient.

I plan to let Tintin and Dangdang master the languages of the two countries, receive education in the two countries, and understand the culture, customs and Xi of the two countries.

Like now they are learning Vietnamese, but when they go home, they learn to speak Chinese, learn Chinese knowledge, and do some synchronous homework so that they can maintain their Chinese level.

In the future, they have a better chance of developing in Vietnam, so I want to let them specialize in Vietnamese when they are a little older.

Now the children are all Chinese nationals, and I hope that when they go to university, they can be admitted back to our Chinese university as international students. By the age of 18, they will have another chance to choose their nationality, and when the time comes, we will consider which nationality will help them in their studies or work.

A sweet world for two).

Nowadays, the children are slowly growing up, and we will watch movies, travel, and taste food together when we have time, and we will begin to relive the world that belongs to us.

On my birthday, my husband gave me a pair of comfortable shoes, saying that I could only wear the shoes he bought for ...... rest of my lifeAt that time, I felt like the happiest woman in the world.

Looking back on the ups and downs of these years, I am full of emotion, and I also understand that marriage is nothing more than the husband and wife on the road together, even if they encounter potholes, rugged and bumpy, they are unwilling to let go of each other's hands full of wind and frost, and continue to move towards happiness.

Dictation: Ding Dang].

Editor: Cather Blue].

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