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When the opposite sex is together, they can be spoiled and charming if they feel that the relationship is good. If they feel that their feelings are harmonious, they can do whatever they want. They always feel that the other party will tolerate them and regard their feelings for themselves as "capital" that they can ask for at will. When two people show such signs, they are clearly not respecting love or each other enough. The relationship between two people tends to slowly become stranger, and in the end, the relationship tends to get weaker and weaker.
Smart people, when they get along with the opposite sex, will respect each other, respect love, abide by the basic bottom line, and will not say anything or do anything. Because of his persistence, the relationship between the two will continue to develop healthily and get better and better. You must know that no matter how good the relationship between men and women is, don't do these three things. It's easy to get rid of them. Do you know everything?
1.Demand perfection in the name of love.
When two people are together, they always feel that the other party is "taking advantage of themselves", and they always feel that the other party should do things according to themselves and their own wishes. So they will ask each other in the name of love, ask each other to accommodate themselves, tolerate themselves, and make some concessions to themselves.
They don't respect each other and don't know how to think about each other. In this way, it is conceivable that the other party will feel that they are not respected and valued, and they will feel tired from the bottom of their hearts.
Over time, the other party will definitely be unbearable and may eventually choose to leave. If you don't want to see such a result, when you decide to hold hands with the opposite sex, you have to have a long-term plan, know how to respect each other, allow each other to live according to their own wishes, accept each other's shortcomings, and let the other person get along with you happily and calmly, so that the other party will feel relaxed and the relationship between the two people will get better and better.
2.Indulge yourself and let the other person tolerate you.
When two people are together, they only pay attention to their own feelings, feel that happiness is the most important thing, often indulge themselves, talk casually, and do things at will.
In order to make themselves happy, they squeeze each other wantonly, and often make all kinds of demands on each other, so that the other party can accommodate themselves and accept themselves. Sometimes, they do something wrong and don't take the initiative to apologize to each other, which often makes the relationship between the two people more and more strained.
If you don't want to see such a result, the opposite sex should think more about each other when getting along, be self-disciplined, don't indulge yourself, take the initiative to apologize to each other when you do something wrong, correct your mistakes, make up for your shortcomings, and strive to satisfy each other. Only in this way can the relationship between two people be maintained for a long time.
3.Don't explain the misunderstanding and go with the flow.
Between the opposite sex, they always overestimate each other's feelings, always feel that the other party will definitely be with them, "but I feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn", and always feel that the other party will understand themselves and understand themselves. When two people have a disagreement, they always think that the other person must be able to put themselves in their shoes and not misinterpret themselves.
But many times, many things may not be really understood by the other party, and even if they do, they are not comprehensive enough. Finally, "misunderstandings" often arise. At this time, you are in dire need of explanation, but instead of opening your heart to explain, you are conniving at the development of events. The original small misunderstanding often leads to a big conflict in the end, which makes both parties sad.
If you don't want to see such a result, when two people misunderstand, you must not indulge, you must take the initiative to explain to the other party, and make it clear, and many problems will be easily solved.