Ho Yan-sze recently released a new song, and also revealed that her 18-month-old son is suspected of having developmental delays, and he has not been able to determine whether he is a SEN (Special Educational Needs) child due to his young age. However, He Yanshi and Zheng Junhong are husband and wife, and they agree that the most important thing is that their son is happy. After becoming a mother, she deeply felt the hard work of being a parent, and said bluntly: I feel the hard work of my parents!」
The 31-year-old is a singer and golfer who gave birth to her husband, Cheng Junhong, and her son, Asher, in June last year. After concentrating on taking care of her son for a while, she made a comeback to the music scene this year, signed a contract with her friend Zhang Zifeng's ** label Moving Pictures, and launched two songs that she composed and supervised within half a year, and the second new song "Tiger in You" was released earlier.
This song was written last year when I was still pregnant with Asher, and I was thinking about what Asher's life was going to be like. Because the road of life will not be completely smooth and smooth, I originally wanted to use this song to cheer up Xiao Hu's asher and encourage him to be strong in his heart even if he encounters setbacks;Later, considering that the audience may not all have children, it was changed to give it to the other half. In fact, both are very suitable, whether it is for my husband or son, I will be by their side, both like a cheerleader shouting slogans, and like sleeping next to them and whispering softly cheering them on. In particular, men are always expected to be upset and not weak in everything, but I hope to use this song to tell the other half that it is okay to be weak, but that men are willing to show their weak side, which is also a kind of confidence in the people around them. 」
Talking about her son, she revealed that Asher is still talking baby and does not know how to walk, and is suspected of being slower than children of the same age. Due to her young age, although she does not know if it is a SEN child, she has begun to pay attention to the relevant information, and she and her husband are working hard to help their son catch up on his progress, hoping to be able to attend classes and study with children of the same age, and have a happier school life. She and her husband will also adjust their mentality, adopt an optimistic attitude, will not be overly worried, will cheer for their son, and most importantly, he will be happy.
Asked if you have become strong after becoming a mother?He Yanshi thought about it for a while and said: I believe that I am strong and mature in my problem-solving ability, because now everything will be put first by my son. But at the same time, I also believe that I need to have a job, because being a stay-at-home mother should put a lot of pressure on my son, and my own psychological state may not be the best. Of course, as a working mother, you have to take care of your children and work, and it is difficult to allocate timeWhen taking care of children at home, you will feel that there are a lot of work you haven't done yet, and it is difficult to strike a balance between the two, just like being a parent, you are always learning. 」
He Yanshi admits that after becoming a mother, she is more considerate of her parents' feelings, I am an only daughter, and I have an impulsive personality, especially when I was a child, I thought of the type that I had to do immediately, and I tried to buy a plane ticket immediately if I suddenly wanted to travel, and only notified my parents after I flew away. But being young is like this, so it's very hard for my parents, first of all, it's hard to be pregnant for 10 months, and then it's even harder to raise **. Now that I'm 31 years old, I'm sure they're still worried about me. Looking back, I am also grateful for this willfulness when I was young, which brought me a lot of good memories and experiences, so if Asher inherits my willfulness gene in the future, I don't mind, but his personality is more like my husband for the time being, and he prefers to be relaxed and not reluctant. As for the desire for her son to inherit her ** and golf talent?She said that Asher is clearly interested in musical instruments, and will also introduce her son to golf, because it is also the interest of his parents, and hopes to one day have three generations of the same family to play the sport together.