During the winter break, I decided to go to my aunt's house to help out in order to earn some money to go home for the Chinese New Year. As soon as I arrived at my aunt's house, I really realized the heat and coldness of the world. My aunt's family has a cousin who is one year younger than me and a cousin who is more than three years old. My aunt's husband is a bold man who likes me as a niece. Since then, I have gradually developed a liking for my aunt's home.
Every morning at five o'clock, the three sisters and my aunt get up together and go out together. I often don't eatNoodles, always spit out, but my aunt told me,NoodlesYesNourish the stomach, Xi is good. Although I was not used to eating at first, my aunt's encouragement and persistence made me gradually Xi get used to itNoodles
After the stall was set up, my cousin would sometimes come over with my uncle for breakfast, while I would guard the shop. Sometimes, my uncle would buy me some biscuits to cushion my stomach when he was not busy. My cousin and I were the same age, and we occasionally played together. Once, my cousin accidentally stepped on a bowl, and I was afraid of being punished, but my sister took my hand and explained to my aunt, and my cousin didn't say a word. My aunt looked at me and said that I was in a hurry, so be careful, because bowls are very valuable. I wanted to argue, but the second sister took my hand and motioned for me not to say anything more.
Noon was the time to go home for dinner in shifts, and although I was with my sister, there was very little conversation at the dinner table. I always wanted to find my sister, but my sister always kept her distance from me and didn't let us play. As soon as lunch is over, I will be busy sweeping the floor, and if time permits, I will go back to my room and rest with my sister. In the evening, my uncle would come home and cook dinner, and I would feed my cousin. Sometimes, I would prepare dinner for my cousin in advance and start washing the dishes after eating with my sister.
During my time at my aunt's house, my cousin and I became acquainted with each other, and she told me that my uncle couldn't sleep all night after learning about my marriage. I believe her words, but human nature is complicated, and my opinion of my aunt cannot be changed.
After spending some time at my aunt's house, I realized that it wasn't that snacks were completely absent, but that I didn't deserve them. One morning, when I was picking up the goods with my aunt, I overheard my cousin eating cookies in the room. My aunt came into the room to let her do her homework and reminded her not to let me see it when she left, because I didn't deserve to enjoy the snack. This scene made me feel inferior, and I suddenly found myself an inconsequential existence in my aunt's house.
The experience of being at my aunt's house made me more aware of the hot and cold world, and also made me deeply appreciate the selfless love and warmth full of human feelings. Despite the hardships and unhappiness, I am still grateful to those who have helped me, and their presence has allowed me to find a sense of reliance and belonging in an unfamiliar environment.
In short, although my life at my aunt's house was not easy, I also learned from itSecondary schoolI learned a lot of life lessons. I am sincerely grateful to those who have helped me and made me stronger and more mature with their love and help. Every time I recall that experience, I am filled with emotion and grateful. thereasonwhymyfamilycalledme"threemany"wasbecausemyfamilyhadmanychildren.mymother'stwosistersalsohadtwodaughtersandonesoneach.sowhilemyfamilyhadthreedaughtersandoneson,theywouldteasemebycallingme"threemany."butonlywhenmygrandmothercalledme"threemany"wouldiobedientlyrunovertoher.onlyshewouldgivemeadifferentkindofnewyear'smoney.althoughitendedupbeingsnatchedandtornbymycousin,istillrememberitafteralltheseyears.
lookingback,thatyearmyyoungerbrothercamebackhomeafteralongtime.hewassmallandfrail,andhewasoftensick.mygrandmother,whowasold,wentbacktoherhometownaftermygrandfatherpassedaway.thefamily'sfinancialsituationbecamemoreandmoretight.iwasalreadytenyearsoldthatyear.duringwintervacation,myoldersisteralsocame.duringthenewyearperiod,myauntswerebusytakingcareoftheirshopsandwouldoftenhirepeopletohelpout.sinceihadabiggercourageandinheritedmyfather'seloquence,ithoughtofgoingtohelpoutfortwomonthstoearnsomemoneyandcomebackforthenewyear.soiwenttomyeldestaunt'shousewithmysecondsister,whilemyeldestsisterwenttomysecondaunt'shousetohelpout.
thehouseofmysecondauntwasnearby,sowecouldcomebackhomeeveryday.whenmyeldestsistercame,ifoundoutthatgrandmahadspreadthenewsthatmymotherhadgivenbirthtoafoolishchildwhohadtopourwateronthefloorbeforedrinkingitbylickingitwithhermouth.iwasfuriouswheniheardthis,butmysisterdidnotunderstandthesituationatthetimeandbrusheditoffbecauseshewasraisedbygrandma.thismademedislikegrandmaevenmore.wasn'titbecauseshedidn'tlikemymotherfornoth**ingason?whydidshestilldislikeherevenafterh**ingason?everytimeiwenthome,ipreferredtosleepnexttograndpainsteadofgrandma.grandpawasamanoffewwordsathomeanddidn'ttakecareofthingsmuch,butilikedhimmorethangrandma.
aftermysecondsisterandiwenttomyeldestaunt'shouse,itrulyexperiencedtheharshrealityoflife.andmyeldestsisterneverwentthereafterthatyear.myeldestaunthadacousinwhowasoneyearyoungerthanmeandacousinwhowasthreeyearsoldatthattime.myunclewasagenerouspersonandhadadifferentaccentfromussincehewasfromthecity.myunclelikedmealot,iknewthat.lateron,mycousintoldmethatwhenmyunclefoundoutaboutmyengagement,hecouldn'tsleepthewholenight.ibelieveherwords,buthumannatureiscomplex,anditdoesn'tchangemyperceptionofmyeldestaunt.
everyday,wewouldwakeupat5o'clockinthemorningandgoouttosetupthestallwithmyeldestaunt.ioftencouldn'teatthenoodlesbecauseitmademewanttovomit,butmyaunttoldmethatnoodlesweregoodforthestomachandijustneededtogetusedtoit.althoughitwasdifficultatfirst,withmyaunt'sencouragementandpersistence,igraduallygotusedtoeatingnoodles.
aftersettingupthestall,sometimesmycousinandmyunclewouldcomeovertoh**ebreakfasttogether,whileistayedbehindtotakecareofthestall.sometimes,myunclewouldbuymesomebiscuitstofillmystomachwhenthereweren'tmanycustomers.mycousinandiwerethesameage,andwewouldoccasionallyplaytogether.onetime,mycousinaccidentallybrokeabowlandiwasafraidofgettingblamed,butmyeldestsisterheldmyhandandexplainedtomyauntthatitwasmyfaultforbeinginahurry.myauntlookedatmeandsaidthatishouldbemorecarefulbecausethebowlswereexpensive.iwantedtoargue,butmysisterpulledmyhandtosignalmetostoptalking.
atlunchtime,wewouldtaketurnsgoinghometoeat.althoughiwaswithmysisters,therewouldbeverylittleconversationatthedinnertable.iwouldalwaystrytofindmyeldestsister,butshewouldalwayskeepherdistancefrommeandnotletusindulgeinplayingaround.afterlunch,iwouldbebusysweepingthefloor,andiftherewastime,iwouldgobacktotheroomtorestwithmysister.intheevening,myunclewouldcomehometocookdinner,andiwouldbeinchargeoffeedingmylittlecousin.sometimes,iwouldpreparedinnerformycousininadvance,andtheneatdinnerwithmysisterbeforestartingtowashthedishes.
duringmytimeatmyeldestaunt'shouse,igraduallybondedwithmycousinandshetoldmethatmyunclecouldn'tsleepthewholenightafterfindingoutaboutmyengagement.ibelievedherwords,buthumannatureiscomplexanditdidn'tchangemyperceptionofmyaunt.
inmyexperienceatmyeldestaunt'shouse,ilearnedalotabouttheharshnessoftheworld,butialsoexperiencedselflessloveandwarmth.althoughtherewerehardshipsandunpleasantexperiences,iamgratefultothosewhohelpedme.theircareandsupportmademefeelasenseofbelonginginastrangeenvironment.
inconclusion,mytimeatmyeldestaunt'shousewasnoteasy,butilearnedmanyimportantlifelessons.iamgenuinelygratefultothosewhohelpedme,astheirloveandsupportmademestrongerandmoremature.wheneverilookbackonthatexperience,ifeelgratefulanddeeplymoved.