The truth is revealed!
Song Xiao planned to burn down the computer room, and used the burned hard disk design to frame He Jiaru for misappropriation**, and Song Xiao and his secretary Lisa were arrested and brought to justice.
He Jiaru returned to his old club, Dingming Company, was promoted and raised, and obtained the long-awaited three-bedroom school district house, not only that, He Jiaru was also pregnant with a second child.
For Ye Yifan, his life is complete. He is just a scumbag who graduated from the University of Grain, and his family has no background, he has no car, no house, and no local hukou, so he is very satisfied with such a life.
What's more, he also married He Jiaru, the school flower of the university next door. At that time, He Jiaru, with thick eyebrows and big eyes, was innocent, and was the object of countless boys' pursuit, and was the "white moonlight" in the mind of Fang Wenbin, who was known as a talented man at that time.
Fang Wenbin had been preparing for a long time to confess to He Jiaru. Unexpectedly, Ye Yifan took the lead. And Ye Yifan relied on a flowering bun to impress He Jiaru.
Fang Wenbin, who has never smoked, bought a pack of cigarettes and smoked it, he really couldn't understand why he lost to the poor boy Ye Yifan?
Actually, the reason is very simple, but Fang Wenbin will never see through.
1. Ye Yifan is emotionally stable and good at providing emotional value
Ye Yifan rarely complains and loses his temper, no matter how he treats his old and small-minded father, or his stubborn mother-in-law, he can lower his posture and coax the two old people to be happy.
Good friend Chen Li always disappears for no reason, leaving the mess to Ye Yifan to solve, but he has no complaints, he can help.
In the face of his wife He Jiaru, he is even more careful, no matter what happens to He Jiaru, he will find a way to share it, and if he can't share it, he will find a way to comfort him.
Sometimes, he is even more like He Jiaru's best friend, accompanying her to scold the leader and share her thoughts. In his place, He Jiaru can always say what is in his heart without fear.
He is emotionally stable, he is the Dinghai Shenshen needle in the family, with him, his wife and children, including the elderly, can be closely united.
2. Know how to respect He Jiaru
When Fang Wenbin was about to confess to He Jiaru, he encountered a thorny problem: he had to marry Director Liu's daughter in order to have a chance to embark on a career in office.
Fang Wenbin didn't hesitate, and chose to accept this arrangement as soon as possible, and asked He Jiaru to wait for him.
This decision, whether it is He Jiaru, who had nothing decades ago, or He Jiaru, who is now married and happy, will not accept it.
Fang Wenbin is indeed very good, so in his opinion, He Jiaru should make concessions for his career. He never thought that this would make He Jiaru so sad and wronged.
He didn't really respect He Jiaru, nor did he think about why he let a girl give up the best years of her youth and accompany him to endure the long time of grievances and unknowns.
But Ye Yifan is different, he focuses on He Jiaru in everything, and he understands He Jiaru better, and supports He Jiaru's every decision.
Ye Yifan's biggest wish is to buy a three-bedroom school district house, so that his son Lele can go to a good school, his father doesn't have to squeeze the bunk beds, and when his mother-in-law comes, he doesn't have to sleep on the sofa anymore.
However, when this wish conflicts with He Jiaru's career, he will give priority to He Jiaru's career and leave the matter of changing houses behind.
He Jiaru can marry such a person, and he will not lose at all!
3, he and He Jiaru's personalities are more complementary
There is a law in psychology called the "law of complementarity", which refers to the fact that emotionally, two people with complementary personalities are more likely to attract each other.
Ye Yifan and He Jiaru are typical complementary personalities. One is like fire, enthusiastic and unrestrained, and the other is like water, low-key and introverted. They can do things that the other doesn't want to do, support each other, and grow together.
When He Jiaru was hesitant, Ye Yifan could always make a quick decision with appropriate methods, and he was able to lift He Jiaru upwards and make her more and more decisive.
And when Ye Yifan was impulsive and reckless, He Jiaru could also hold him in time so that he could face it calmly.
He Jiaru is a smart and sober girl, she knows what she lacks, what kind of person she should find, and what kind of life she should live.
Ye Yifan, the poor boy at the beginning, just gave He Jiaru a few flowering buns, and he often appeared in front of He Jiaru, which made He Jiaru understand his mind and moved his heart.
But when Song Xiao told her that the person Fang Wenbin had a crush on for many years was her, He Jiaru looked surprised and completely unexpected, which was enough to show that Fang Wenbin had never been the type He Jiaru would consider.
Fang Wenbin is indeed very good, but He Jiaru has never been a "Mu Qiang" person. She is satisfied with her life, content with the current day, becoming stronger and better has never been her pursuit, she just seriously does herself, enjoys doing everything she likes, and everything does not have to be too perfect.
This also corresponds to the theme of this TV series - there is no perfect life, contentment can achieve happiness.
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