Sex is an important part of married life. However, some couples face the dilemma of "sexless marriage". So, what do women do when they are faced with this situation?Today, we will invite six brave women to share their real-life experiences and thoughts, and take us to uncover the truth behind "sexless marriage".
Xiao Min has been married to her husband for five years and has been living an ordinary life. However, in recent years, the husband has lost interest in sex due to work pressure and health reasons. Min tried to communicate with her husband to find a solution, but each time she failed. In the face of such a marriage, Xiao Sensitive to confusion and helplessness.
1. Endure in silence.
I felt that our marriage was dead in name, but I didn't want to get divorced, so I had to choose to endure it in silence. —Xiaoling.
Xiaoling has been married for ten years and has always had a good relationship with her husband. However, in recent years, her husband has been unable to have a normal sex life with her due to physical reasons. Xiaoling felt sorry for her husband and didn't want to put pressure on him, so she chose to endure it in silence. She believes that as long as there is love in the hearts of the two, sex is not the whole of marriage.
2. Take the initiative to communicate.
I tried to communicate with my husband in the hope that he would understand my feelings, but each time it ended in an argument. —Xiao Fang.
Xiaofang has been married to her husband for three years, and soon after her marriage, she discovers that her husband has no interest in sex. Xiaofang tried to communicate with her husband and express her needs and feelings, but was met with indifference and rejection from her husband every time. Despite this, Xiaofang still did not give up, and she firmly believed that as long as the two sides were honest with each other, the problem would be solved one day.
3. Seek professional help.
We've tried a lot of things, but nothing worked. Later, at the suggestion of a friend, we sought professional help. —Xiaoyan.
Xiaoyan has been married to her husband for seven years and has been facing the dilemma of "sexless marriage". They tried a variety of methods to solve the problem, but none of them achieved significant results. Later, on the advice of a friend, they found a professional marriage counselor. With the help of a counselor, they gradually get to the root of the problem and learn how to improve their relationship with each other.
Fourth, rediscover the passion.
I think sex is part of marriage and we can't ignore it. I try to make myself more charismatic and hopefully rekindle the passion between us. —Xiaoli.
Xiaoli has been married to her husband for five years, and she believes that sex is essential to maintaining a marital relationship. Therefore, in the face of the dilemma of "sexless marriage", she decided to start from herself and strive to improve her charm. She began to learn Xi skills in cooking, dressing up and fitness, hoping that these changes would bring her husband back to her interest.
5. Choose divorce.
I don't think there is any meaning in such a marriage. I've tried to communicate with him countless times, but he never understands my feelings. —Xiaomei.
Xiaomei and her husband have been married for ten years, and during this marriage, they have been lacking a normal sex life. Mei believes that sex is an important part of marriage and cannot tolerate this sexless state of life. After communicating with her husband many times to no avail, she finally chose to divorce.
Love requires a combination of body and mind, and when one partner is unable to meet the needs of the other, love is put to the test. "Women make different choices when faced with sexless marriage, but they deserve our respect and understanding regardless of the outcome. Because everyone has the right to pursue happiness and meet their needs, the understanding and support of both parties in a marriage is crucial. When faced with a difficult situation, you may wish to try to understand and tolerate it from a different perspective, and perhaps there will be unexpected gains.