On a quiet summer evening, the sun shines through the heavy foliage on the cobblestone pavement of the alley. With a loving smile on his face, Father Li sat on the balcony, watching his daughter Xiaoya immersed in the sea of books, and her thoughts wandered. He suddenly felt an inexplicable worry and decided to remind his daughter of something important.
Father Li cleared his throat and whispered to Xiaoya, "My dear, I want to talk to you about your marriage in the future. ”
Xiaoya raised her head, her eyes full of curiosity: "Dad, what's wrong with you?"Is there anything you want to tell me?”
Father Li patted his daughter's hand lightly and said gently: "Daughter, I know that you are still young, but I hope you can remember that not all men are worthy of your love." There are some bad Xi and behaviors that can bring harm and pain to your life. ”
Xiaoya asked with some confusion: "Dad, can you tell us exactly what kind of Xi it is?"”
Father Li sighed slightly and began to tell the story of a friend.
In the story, a friend's daughter falls in love with a man, and they decide to get married after a period of love. However, the man had a serious gambling addiction. He was addicted to gambling and not only lost all his savings, but also incurred huge debts. In the end, the young couple tragically divorced due to financial difficulties and family strife.
Xiaoya listened attentively, and she began to understand her father's intentions. Father Li continued: "Daughter, it's better not to love such a man. Gambling addiction is just one of them, there are other Xi that need to be your watchful eye. ”
He goes on to tell a story about the tragedy of a family that is torn apart because of a husband's addiction to alcoholism. The husband's alcohol problems caused him to be unable to keep his job, his family life was in trouble, and the wife eventually chose to divorce.
After listening to her father's advice, Xiaoya couldn't help but fall into deep thought. She began to reflect on her expectations for marriage and the criteria for choosing a man. She understands that a good man should not only be responsible, kind and considerate, but also stay away from some harmful Xi.
After the story ended, Xiaoya was full of emotion. She quietly looked at her father's face, her heart filled with gratitude. She understood that her father's counsel was for her happiness and future.
From that day on, Xiaoya began to be more cautious about her love life. She understood the qualities and Xi that a good man should have, and also understood some red flags to be wary of.
So, on the road of growing up, Xiaoya met a gentle, considerate, responsible, and family-loving man. They walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand and built a happy family together.