After the "small composition" was fermented on the Internet, there was a stir for a while, and Dong Yuhui quietly returned to his hometown. In the face of various voices on the Internet, he quietly changed his signature.
Then, his account quickly increased his followers, and the speed of his followers was comparable to the speed at which his old club lost fans.
Then, netizens began to fish for him.
Then, the old club ** plummeted, the CEO stepped down, and the head apologized ......
Then, he was invited back and became a vice president ......
When you are strong, the whole world will open the way for you.
Why?With his knowledge and talent, with his elegance and cultivation. And these are hidden in his eight-character signature - 8 words: don't will, don't be, don't be solid, don't me.
This sentence is from the "Analects of Zihan": "Zi Jue Four: Don't Intention, Don't Must, Don't Fix, Don't Me".
Meaning: do not speculate in everything, do not want to take things for granted, do not be stubborn, and do not be self-respecting.
His "Don't Know" tells us that people are often influenced by their own subjective assumptions when thinking and acting, so we need to avoid random guesswork and presuppositions. It is only through objective and rational thinking that we can better recognize and understand things. This way of thinking can help us avoid making mistakes and also enable us to see ourselves and others more accurately.
His "don't be" tells us that people often over-affirm their own ideas and opinions and ignore the opinions and opinions of others. This attitude can prevent us from seeing things holistically, and it also makes it difficult for us to grow and develop. Therefore, avoid overly positive attitudes when thinking and acting, keep an open mind, and be open to new ideas and perspectives.
His "Don't Gu" tells us that people tend to stick to their ideas and practices and are reluctant to change. This attitude can lead us into a state of stubbornness, unable to adapt to new changes and challenges. Therefore, avoid being stubborn and have the courage to change your thinking and approach. This attitude allows us to adapt better to change and also allows us to grow and develop better.
His "don't me" tells us that people often focus too much on their own interests and feelings and ignore the needs and feelings of others. This attitude can prevent us from building good relationships and make it difficult for us to be truly good people. Therefore, avoid a self-centered attitude, be attentive to the needs and feelings of others, and learn to cooperate and share with others. This attitude allows us to understand others better and also allows us to grow and develop better.
These eight words are not his vassal elegance, let alone his trickery. It's his true state, his self-warning and persuasion. He has suffered so much grievance, and there is a lot of uproar on the Internet, but he still calms himself, persuades the audience, and even takes care of the face of his old club, which is not only talented, but the elegance and self-cultivation of a person's long-term reading and learning, and even more confidence!
Therefore, as ordinary people, the best way for us to improve our self-worth is to read and study. is not because of the utilitarianism of Yan Ruyu and ** house in the book, but because one day when we are facing a predicament, there is still a kind of calmness with poetry and books, so as not to be anxious and hysterical.