Recently, a woman in Xigang hanged herself in a rental house and left three children, while her Chinese husband was in China, and this news made many people angry.
These three children who were brought into the world not only did not enjoy the love from their parents, but even witnessed the tragedy of losing their mothers, and they did not know where to go in the future.
As the exchanges between China and Cambodia become closer and closer, more and more Chinese go to Cambodia to work hard. Considering various factors such as marriageability, old age, and the high bride price of Chinese daughters-in-law, many Chinese men choose to fall in love, get married and have children with local Cambodian women or Vietnamese women, and Sino-Cambodian transnational marriage is gradually normalized.
However, some Sino-Cambodian lovers have failed because of each other's lack of emotional foundation and core support, and even brewed life tragedy, which is embarrassing. So, if you lack these 3 things, please mess with Cambodian girls! Don't even have a baby with her!
1. There is no emotional foundation
Any relationship between a man and a woman needs an emotional foundation to continue. In transnational love, it is even more important.
In Cambodia, it is not uncommon for Chinese and Cambodian men and women to have romantic relationships and marriages based on physiological impulses. Some people, forced to get older or feel that it is difficult to find a wife in China, so they find Cambodian girls to live and live.
However, romantic relationships and marriages without an emotional foundation are like a bowl of rice without salt, which can fill the stomach but has no taste; It's more like a house without a foundation, precarious, and ready to collapse at any moment.
When the enthusiasm of the two fades, they will become bored and even disgusted with each other, and the relationship will naturally not be happy. And blindly using dollars to maintain ethereal and unhealthy "emotional relationships" is also destined to not last long.
Therefore, if you don't have a sincere understanding of each other and you don't have an emotional foundation, don't mess with Cambodian girls!
2. No sense of responsibility and no responsibility
It's easy to get married and have children, but it's not easy to maintain a marriage because there's the word "responsibility" in it.
In transnational love marriages, there is always a need for one party to give up something that is difficult to give up, especially if you need to be away from your family back home. If you have the mentality of running back to China if you can't get along with the other party, be a coward who evades responsibility and abandons his wife and children. Then I advise you not to provoke!
Once you enter the marriage, all the problems encountered in the marriage will be faced by both parties, if you can't bear the responsibility of love, can't give the Cambodian girl a sense of security, please don't provoke her, let alone marry her and have children!
Because, marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also a matter of the family behind two people. Without a sense of responsibility, the result will only be bitter for the family and children!
Just like the sad and angry news above, a relationship lacks responsibility and responsibility, and it is often easy to create tragedy. If there are still children, it can even lead to innocent children becoming the biggest victims of disputes and failed marriages.
What's even more odious is that some people have families, wives and children in China, but they still start a new business in Cambodia, and even give birth to children, causing harm at both ends.
3. Lack of ability and determination to break cultural barriers
There are huge cultural differences between China and Cambodia, and two people who originally lived and grew up in different environments came together, and behind them were hidden different perceptions of the world. different understandings of belonging to self-worth; There are many things that are planned for life and have different perspectives.
What's even more terrifying! If you don't understand each other's language, you may not even be able to quarrel together. How far can such two people go after being married for a lifetime?
Therefore, if you lack the ability and determination to break down cultural barriers, do not learn Xi local Cambodian language, do not go deep into the local culture, do not respect the other party's life Xi customs, and never stand in the other party's environment and position to look at and solve problems, please do not provoke Cambodian girls.
All in all, Sino-Cambodian love and marriage are not easy to maintain, but in Cambodia, there are many beautiful love stories between China and Cambodia, because they all have a strong emotional core and a high sense of responsibility, a determination to break cultural barriers, and a sense of tolerance and loyalty to protect love.
If you lack these 3 things, don't mess with a Cambodian girl, let alone have a baby with her!