life, Shi Peng.
Feng Tang: A large part of the matter, in the final analysis, is two things: "what is my business" and "what is your business".
Life is your own, don't let others be disappointed.
Today, I heard my friend Brother Bing say something that made me cry and laugh.
Yesterday was his father-in-law's birthday, and as in previous years, he drove back with his wife and children to celebrate his father-in-law's birthday, which would have been a good thing.
As a result, the more he thought about it today, the more uncomfortable he became, he said, every year our family goes back, but my wife, her brother and sister-in-law, as well as her sister and brother-in-law, don't go back once in a few years, just send a red envelope in the air perfunctory.
In such a comparison, I feel that I am a little at a loss, spending a lot of money back and forth, and it also looks a little humble and flattering.
I said, you didn't want to go, did you?Brother Bing said, that's not it, it's just such a comparison, I feel uncomfortable.
I said, you bring your wife and children to celebrate the birthday of the elderly, the wife and children are happy, the old man is also happy, and you have also done what you should do, which is a very beautiful thing.
As a result, because you see that the other siblings are not going back, you think that the nature of the whole thing has changed, isn't that asking for trouble?
Life is your own, do what you should do, do what you want to do, that's fine, don't let others ruin your own fun.
The taste of life is your own, and there is no need for everyone to know it.
A company is a miniature society, colleagues are not close friends with each other, you just happen to work in the same place to meet, and that's it.
I remember that there was a little girl in our office before, we called her Xiaoliang, Xiaoliang was an innocent and lively girl who loved to talk.
She often takes the initiative to share her daily life with her colleagues, such as going to play with her boyfriend yesterday, what kind of meal her boyfriend is going to cook for me tonight, etc.
After a long time, there were all kinds of rumors about her in the company, and finally under pressure, she took the initiative to resign.
I really wanted to keep her, after all, her work attitude and ability were still good, but she still insisted on leaving.
She's too young to understand the sinister hearts of people!She didn't know that happiness was shared by the wrong person, and it became a show;Sadness is shared with the wrong person, and it becomes a joke.
You are sharing your happiness and experience, but not all colleagues will be happy for you, and not everyone will hope for you.
The ups and downs of life are all your own, except for the closest people, there is no need to share them with others.
Life is to live for yourself, don't care too much about other people's eyes.
Life is about experiencing and feeling, and the joys, sorrows, and sorrows in life need to be experienced and felt by yourself.
Only by oneself can one truly understand one's emotions and state of mind, and can one gain growth and understanding from it.
Other people's opinions and evaluations are just a kind of feedback from the outside world, just listen to it, don't take it all.
As the writer Su Qin said: "If you don't eat other people's food, don't take other people's words too seriously." ”
Happiness is to nourish one's own heart, not to nourish the eyes of others.
We should live according to our own needs and desires, not to cater to the expectations and requirements of others.
You are in charge of your own life, and your attitude towards the world determines what kind of world you will have.
Go your own way, let others say it, we have to be the protagonist in our own world, not a supporting role in someone else's world.
endAuthor|Boss Dragon.
Typography |Qing Yueyue.
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