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When lovers get along, they always want to take advantage of each other, always hope that the other party can give them something they want, if the other party doesn't give enough and doesn't satisfy themselves, they will complain to each other, and the result is endless quarrels.
Two people don't think about forever, only about the "present", they rarely think about the future, and they refuse to talk about these issues, often when they have disagreements in life, they rarely take the initiative to resolve them, but think about "finding a chance to separate". When two people approach a relationship with such an attitude, it is difficult for the relationship between them to develop further and it may happen sooner or later.
True love is not like this, real love is mutual love and mutual trust, and its performance also lies in the understanding and respect and acceptance of the other party. Between lovers, with these signs, they will not be easily separated, have you ever felt the same way?
1.Give a lot and love with all your heart.
When two people are together, they just want to ask each other, secretly compare their own efforts with their own contributions, if they are not equal, they will feel that the other party is giving less and taking more, their hearts will be unbalanced, they will complain about each other, and they will refuse to pay more for each other.
Both people want to take advantage of each other, but rarely want to do something for each other, which shows that they don't regard each other as their own people, and it is difficult for the relationship between two people to develop deeply.
What is the advent between love, straight teaching life and death. Two people who truly love each other will inevitably put each other first, they will consider doing more for each other and do their best to be good to each other, and when both people can do this, it means that the relationship between them is heating up.
2.When you're together, you feel grounded.
When two people are together, they feel that it is difficult for each other to give them a better life, and the other party is very insecure and has various concerns.
When one party proposes "further communication", the other party will feel anxious, always feel that it is difficult for two people to have a good result together, and it is easy to have the idea of breaking up.
On the contrary, when two people are together, they will treat each other as their own people, feel that they are really lucky to see each other, really feel that they are very practical to each other, they are willing to endure hardships, they are willing to hold hands for the rest of their lives, and the two feel that as long as they are with each other, they cannot cross the river without them, and they cannot cross without the mountains.
3.Both make a difference for the other.
When two people are together, they are based on themselves, hoping that the other party can accommodate themselves, do things according to their own ideas, and live according to their own lifestyle, if the other party does not do what they think, they will tear each other at will, blame each other at will, and the relationship between the two people will become more and more tense.
How can this relationship last for a long time if two people don't know how to empathize and don't cherish the time to love, but waste time to hurt each other?
On the contrary, when two people are together, they will think from each other's point of view, they will pay attention to each other, and both people will be willing to accommodate each other and make some changes for each other, because they will run in with each other and adapt to each other's lives, and two people will often be able to communicate for a long time.