Roland once said: If you want to win the love of others, you must first improve yourself, so that you are 100% worthy of the love of others now or in the future. As for whether he will love you or not, it's up to him to decide, and you can hope for it, but you don't have to force it.
Although love is a matter of two people, whether you can love each other depends not only on yourself, but also on each other. Only the love of the joint efforts of both parties is more valuable, if it is only your unilateral payment, then in love, it is like trying to hold the water of the sea, which is doomed to be in vain.
If a man loves you, you don't just meet his physical needs, he will take the initiative to do three things for you.
Once, my friend spent the night at my house. When she was taking a shower at night, the phone rang, and as soon as I saw that it was her boyfriend, I picked it up, and I was going to tell her boyfriend that she was not convenient to pick up **.
Unexpectedly, there was a voice from the other end: "Baby, I miss you." I couldn't hold back and laughed.
Later, a friend told me that they had not been together for a long time, and he always affectionately called her "little cutie", and his voice was full of love, as if calling his cherished baby.
1. When a man falls in love with someone, he will behave like this, he will take the initiative to think of a special name for the other party, in order to express his special feelings and love for the other party.
Second, the husband and wife duo of Zhou Yiwei and Zhu Dan reappeared on a variety show. In the show, Zhu Dan shared a past. When they first started their relationship, Zhu Dan unfortunately owed more than 10 million debts because he was deceived by his girlfriend.
Zhu Dan felt very helpless, but Zhou Yiwei took the initiative to stand up, bear the debt with her, and work hard to make money from filming until the debt was paid off. Zhu Dan has always remembered Zhou Yiwei's generosity and bravery.
A detail shared by Zhu Dan touched many people who cared about them, and also made everyone see Zhou Yiwei's personality charm and deep affection for Zhu Dan more clearly.
Staying together in love, life and death together, is not empty talk, but needs to be reflected in action. If a man loves you, he won't leave you when you need it most;I won't decide whether to spend the rest of my life with you because of various considerations.
3. You are unique in the eyes of the person who loves you, and no matter what life challenges you face together, he will not hesitate to choose to be on your side.
Last weekend, I had the pleasure of attending my brother's engagement ceremony, and I was very touched to see him and his beloved girl holding hands and taking care of each other. Especially in the photo session, my younger brother knelt down on one knee and took the initiative to propose to the girl, and I was deeply moved by that sincere emotion.
Marriage is the deepest commitment to love a person. Even though you know it can be a bondage, be willing to guard your freedom. However, for a man who truly loves you, facing the risk of losing you is far more unbearable than the fear of accepting marriage.
Such a man will plan for your future wholeheartedly and is willing to go through the ups and downs of life with you.
The power of love can make a man who disdain poetry and painting become a poet in an instant. When a man truly loves you, he will be willing to spend time with you, even if it will cause him some burden, he will be willing.
He will take the initiative to be nice to you and plan for your future, because he knows that you are worthy of him.