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Once a girl reaches the age of talking about marriage, she will be forced to marry by her parents, and some parents even prepare the bride price in advance when their daughter gets married, and leave whatever the bride price is for the daughter.
And girls have their own ideas, and they don't listen to what their parents do.
They will feel that they are old enough to marry and that they should find a good person to marry them. If their parents don't agree, they will argue with them or even run away from home.
While many girls are now more independent, some still listen to their parents.
In their eyes, what their parents say is what they say, and they have no problem with their parents. But some girls are different, they think everything their parents say is wrong.
That's what forward-thinking parents often do:
Nowadays, many young people like to pursue thrills, so they will have some romantic behaviors such as drinking, smoking, playing games, and so on.
While these actions can bring them stimulation, they can also cause a lot of damage to their bodies, especially those girls who, if married to such a man, will turn into a yellow-faced woman.
Because these men prefer to play games, if you marry them, then you have to take care of their emotions every day and also play games with them.
And those men with bad character tend to be more selfish, and if you marry such a man, then you will live in a fight every day.
If you don't know how to back down, then there will be a big conflict between you. So far-sighted parents will not let their daughter marry a man with a bad character. Because these people may ruin the rest of your lives.
Some men don't want to fight for themselves, they just want to create a better life for their wives and children.
So in their subconscious, they will not work hard, but will choose the easiest way, which is to ask their wives for money.
But the way he asks for money is often different from the way his wife asks for it. He might say to his wife, "I can't give you a better life right now, I hope you can understand me." ”
Some men will say that, but some men won't, and they will say, "I'm fighting hard for you right now." ”
Am I working so hard for you?After that, they would promise their wives that they would work hard to earn money, but when they actually got paid, they would continue to say that they couldn't do it, and so on.
There are also men who say to their wives, "I struggle every day, but I struggle, I don't get anything." "You should understand me. ”
This kind of person often does not know how to be grateful, he will feel that everyone should help him, and he does not need to pay for himself.
It is said that marriage is the grave of love, so many people will quarrel with their other half after getting married, and even beat each other.
This is mainly because they are not able to understand each other, which is why such a thing happens.
Men who do not understand family responsibilities, they only know that they are happy, and never think about their wives and children at home. Such a man is not worthy of a woman to marry him.
Because he didn't know how to take care of the family after marriage, he only knew that he was handsome outside, and never knew that he still had a wife and children to take care of at home. If a woman marries such a man who does not care about her family, her life will be miserable.
In fact, both men and women should have a correct understanding of their other half before marriage.
After all, there is no perfect person in this world, and if you can't find that right person for you, then you can't live a happy and fulfilling life.
Therefore, you must think about these three questions clearly before marriage, and don't wait until you get married to know that you are wrong. By then it will be too late.