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Under the influence of traditional concepts, many people firmly believe that the ultimate meaning of raising children is to continue the family incense and provide support for their old age. This belief is deeply ingrained in our culture, and as the times have changed, it has gradually exposed anachronistic contradictions.
In this era of intertwined reality and ideals, we find an interesting and ironic phenomenon: those children who are the most promising and can change their own destiny are often the primary factor in the severance of family incense. This article will try to solve the complex mystery behind this phenomenon by focusing on the reasons, current situation and far-reaching impact of this phenomenon.
In traditional families, children's growth and education are often seen as the key to the rise and fall of the family. Especially those children with excellent grades, they are not only the pride of their parents, but also carry the burden of family expectations. The hard study of the ten-year cold window is not only for the change of personal destiny, but also for the continuation of the glory of the family.
When these children get their diplomas from colleges and universities, their parents' hearts are naturally full of pride and expectation. They envision their children to continue the traditional family line: to start a family and have offspring.
However, as these children enter society, their concepts of life and ideology begin to deviate significantly from those of their parents. Under the pressure of competition and survival in the big city, they must completely change themselves to adapt to the new living environment. This change is not only about improving vocational skills, but also about a fundamental change in lifestyle and values. In the face of fierce competition in the workplace, they put almost all their time and energy into work, and have no time to take care of family and childbirth.
In the process of working hard in the workplace, these promising young people not only face the pressure of work, but also have to deal with complex relationships with colleagues and leaders. For men, although there is a clear career path, the path is equally difficult and competitive. For women, the challenges in the workplace are even more numerous, as they pursue professional success while facing society's traditional expectations of "female roles". This double pressure has led many capable women to make difficult trade-offs between career and family.
In fact, whether male or female, excellent people tend to have higher requirements in life. They do not allow themselves to slack off in the slightest in their professional and personal achievements. In this context, childbearing implies not only the potential impact on a career, but also the potential for sacrifices in personal pursuits. As a result, many promising young people choose to postpone or even forgo childbearing in order to devote themselves to their careers.
Over time, the life choices of these young people have gradually become a common phenomenon. Under the influence of cultural influence and personal experience, they have formed an independent consciousness and values for society. In the process, they begin to re-evaluate the meaning of fertility. For them, procreation is a choice, not an obligation. They are more inclined to decide whether or not to have children based on their circumstances and desires, rather than being bound by traditional ideas.
Although this change in concept has led to the severance of family incense to a certain extent, it also reflects the progress of society and the awakening of individual consciousness. Younger generations are beginning to place more emphasis on self-fulfillment and personal well-being, rather than blindly following traditional family models.
Observing this social phenomenon, it is not difficult for us to find that with the development of the times, individual choices and values are undergoing profound changes. Traditional notions of family and fertility are being challenged. This change is not only a manifestation of social progress, but also a sign of the awakening of individual consciousness. In this age of pluralism, everyone has the right to plan their own life according to their own judgments and desires. As for the continuation of family incense, it should perhaps become more inclusive and diverse, no longer a single reproductive task, but a comprehensive embodiment of the emotional connection and cultural inheritance between family members.
As society continues to evolve, we have come to realize that the true meaning of family inheritance lies not only in the continuation of blood, but also in the transmission of culture and values. With this in mind, those promising children who choose not to have children or delay childbearing are actually contributing to society in their own way. Through the transmission of their knowledge, experience and values, they achieve a family and cultural inheritance that is different from the tradition.