Unexpectedly, Lei Dongbao and Wei Chunhong decided to divorce, and the two of them may not have been suitable from the beginning, and may not even have started. They are not in love with each other. The love between the two is based on each other's warmth, just simple like, for Wei Chunhong and Lei Dongbao, who have remarried, their love has disappeared without a trace.
Wei Chunhong's love for Lei Dongbao stems from Lei Dongbao's honesty and sense of responsibility, which can be clearly seen from Song Yunping's death.
When Wei Chunhong was looking for evidence that Lei Dongbao had been misunderstood, he accidentally found a box. After opening the box, it was full of Song Yunping's items. At this moment, Wei Chunhong realized that in Lei Dongbao's heart, Song Yunping's status was so lofty that no one could have it.
Lei Dongbao chose to marry Wei Chunhong only to get a loan, and frankly, he did so purely for personal gain. For Wei Chunhong, she and Lei Dongbao entered the palace of marriage, realized her long-standing wish, and finally got the due reward after years of hard work and dedication.
Whether in the original work or in movies and TV series, Wei Chunhong has always been a surprisingly winning character, and her life is all for Lei Dongbao. Her love is so simple and persistent, and her smile is so sweet and bitter. The love she longs for is very simple: she only wants to have a person's heart, and she is willing to grow old together.
Although the marriage that Wei Chunhong longed for seemed simple, it was a pity that Lei Dongbao finally betrayed her sincerity. Faced with the second divorce, Wei Chunhong also made concessions in her heart, even if Lei Dongbao didn't speak, she understood that it was because she couldn't give birth to a child for Lei Dongbao. Wei Chunhong felt deeply guilty and decided to terminate this heart-wrenching relationship.
In the depths of Lei Dongbao's heart, the child is not only the driving force for him to continue his life, but also the continuation of the life of the two together. Lei Dongbao's biggest regret is that only when he has a child can the whole family be considered complete. Wei Chunhong can't have offspring, and the divorce is just so that she can have offspring.
However, to truly understand this way of thinking of Lei Dongbao, he was essentially a machismo and hoped that his son would continue the bloodline of the Lei family, which was a generally accepted view of the people of that era.
Regarding Feng Xinxin's sudden appearance, this was a complete accident. As Lei Dongbao's third spouse, Feng Xinxin finally fulfilled Lei Dongbao's wish and gave birth to a boy for him.
Feng Xinxin is not as gentle as Song Yunping, nor is she as understanding as Wei Chunhong, she has the unique character of the eldest lady, a little pretentious and squeamish, but she succeeds in making Lei Dongbao very submissive.
In the original work, Lei Dongbao's wedding day was described as follows:
Lei Dongbao and Wei Chunhong quickly completed all the formalities for divorce and quickly began to prepare for his third wedding.
At his first wedding, due to a lack of funds, he asked his friends to organize a group activity, including drumming and flower passing, which was the end of the day after half a day of excitement. In the barnyard, people send blessings that even exceed the grains that are piled up in the summer. The year after he got married, he started fundraising for the wedding, saying that he would use his savings for the year to buy a house and then sell it to someone else so that he could make more money.
At his second wedding, he was bothered by the loan, no one remembered that it was a grand wedding reception, he only remembered to send a blessing at the end of the wedding;At the third wedding banquet, he prepared a grand banquet for his bride Feng Xinxin in the hotel.
She was wearing a white wedding dress, standing next to the plump Lei Dongbao, and her beauty was like a fairy descending to earth. The whole wedding was on a grand scale, with fifty tables set up, enough money to pay for the wedding banquet.
From this point of view, Lei Dongbao has been married three times, but only the second time is simple and unobtrusive. However, Wei Chunhong, the bride of the second wedding, was the happiest, but she was betrayed by Lei Dongbao.
Wei Chunhong, a person who has a deep understanding of things, also understands that fate cannot be forced, so Lei Dongbao has a clearer understanding of what he is really pursuing in his married life.
The four works of Big River show a multitude of practical issues, such as mutual calculations in careers, and ups and downs in love life. These are the real problems we have to face in the process of growing up, and they are also the real problems that every reader needs to think about and solve.
Through the characters in the story, we deeply understand the philosophy of life. The road of life is not always smooth, and it is only through all kinds of difficulties and blows that we can truly understand that everything we gain is so precious.
I believe that after experiencing three marriages, Lei Dongbao will deeply understand the hardships of marriage and learn to cherish the people around him.