Compared with other female characters in the original book, Wei Chunhong's fate does not seem to be satisfactory.
She went through three marriages, the first of which was the early death of her husband, leaving behind a son, so she could barely make ends meet, running a restaurant business to support the family's expenses;
Lei Dongbao looked around for investment opportunities for the second time on the grounds of marriage, and his real purpose was to save Xiao Lei's family, but his sincerity was not strong;
This is the third time that Lei Dongbao has returned, he brought back a child who has nothing to do with him and made her an emotional candidate for many years, and finally she is on the right path. Her son is a smart and sensible child. His body had become as weak as his fists - due to the long period of impatience and casual eating of the hazed, he had suffered a stroke and was lying in bed and could no longer move freely.
This sentence sounds very pleasant, describing two couples sharing joys and sorrows and spending quality time together in difficult situations;
Although his words were harsh, Lei Dongbao could no longer muster up the courage, and he finally stayed in Wei Chunhong's palm.
When Wei Chunhong made her debut, she was the head of Chunhong Hotel, and she was honest and decent.
Her shop was packed, partly because of her excellent cooking skills, and partly because she was a widow that anyone could hold her hand while drunk, and engage in a slightly ambiguous adult interaction. She is a very intelligent woman and very assertive. However, this intelligent woman was able to skillfully avoid all the guests, neither making them angry nor disappointing herself.
Many people affectionately call her Xiao Aqing, she is a master at home and outside the home, and her life is like a fish in water. But she always felt that she was a weak woman, and she always looked weak in front of outsiders. To her surprise, she developed a strong interest in Lei Dongbao, who had lost his wife, because he had never behaved inappropriately towards her.
There must have been affectionate eye contact. What exactly does her "romance" come from?However, Lei Dongbao expressed strong dissatisfaction with this: how innocent is a hotel proprietress who wanders among men?Gossip also has its merits.
If there is a need, go for it, this is Chunhong's consistent style. After a social event, Wei Chunhong returned to her home with the drunk Lei Dongbao, she carefully looked at the expressionless man, and then walked into the quilt as soon as the light was turned off.
In the hotel's interactions, Wei Chunhong may not value Lei Dongbao's identity as the "secretary of the Lei family", but she is sure that Lei Dongbao does not regard her as a frivolous communicator.
It's a pity that after so many years of hurrying, Lei Dongbao has become the one who hurt her the most.
After having a relationship with Wei Chunhong, Dongbao didn't pay too much special attention to her. When needed, he went straight to her, and even waited days in the elevator to see her. If needed, a familiar person will say hello first and then go upstairs to wait;Which sentence was wrong, it didn't appear for ten days and half a month. When Chunhong is angry, her emotions are often as violent as a tsunami, but when she sees Toho's strong arms, her heart immediately softens.
The accident at Xiao Lei's copper factory caused them not only to lose control in their relationship, but even when they got married, they only made a superficial promise. To help revitalize the village's businesses, they decided to get loans indirectly by hosting weddings and banquets. Toho is keen on that "one-knife-kill" style of communication, while Chunhong is close behind, trying to lighten the mood. Both of them are farmers and have a common goal - to run their factories well, so that the villagers can become rich and well-off. They sang and harmonized, and unexpectedly won millions in emergency funding to revitalize the factory.
Despite this, Toho doesn't actually really plan to get married. Whether it was because of his mother's opposition or because he was busy with work, he found 10,000 reasons, which caused the registration of the two to be delayed for more than a year.
Chunhong has not really experienced her husband's deep affection, and Dongbao has the misfortune of being imprisoned. The husband is an authentic farmer, and his wife is a cultured and skilled female college student. While she was making various preparations, including getting her husband out for medical treatment, she herself fell ill.
It's not a fatal disease, but it's very deadly:
They both aspire to have a child, Toho wants to fulfill his wishes, and Chunhong wants to further cement his social status. This time, they're going to live in a strange city. What kind of trouble will they have?However, not experiencing menstruation is not limited to pregnancy.
Chunhong went for a check-up with a heart full of joy and was told that she had uterine fibroids. Diagnosed as benign in the hospital, this was the first time she had heard of the disease as uterine fibroids. Although the parts of her body were properly preserved after countless treatments, the doctor tactfully told her that due to her age, the chances of having children were not high.
This incident had made her feel very depressed again when she thought she could stand next to Toho confidently. However, Toho reassured her that the two had also had a common hardship experience, and that not having children was just an arrangement of fate, and that it was part of destiny to worship God more.
The dispute in the middle is too complicated, let's press the "shortcut key". It is likely that Lei Dongbao had an improper relationship with the little secretary in the name of "Guanguan Class Qing", and he asked Chunhong for a divorce for the sake of the children. After the divorce, San'er became the main room, and the original main room became San'er.
If Chunhong hadn't taken away his wife's residence in a rage, Lei Dongbao might have been immersed in the happiness of Qi people forever.
Chunhong's fate is really not smooth.
Could it be that she is too timid and afraid?
Not really.
On the day of Lei Dongbao's misfortune, she first prepared a variety of meat for her husband to soothe his stomach and inner turmoilThen, with the "help" of her husband, she found a new job. After that, they mercilessly changed to a new place of work and resumed their previous work - although life in the prefecture was already difficult, there was still a way for the city to survive.
When she pleaded with Song Yunhui, she said firmly, "I understand that you don't want to meet me, and if Dongbo appears, I will end my marriage with him".
When she learned that Xiao Ran was deliberately setting up obstacles, she didn't show any emotion, and directly found someone to smash his car.
This woman is not only brave but also full of self-esteem, her intelligence and abilities are by no means pretend.
But why does she rely so much on Lei Dongbao?
There is a category of women who, no matter how successful they are, always place their value on men, such as washing their hands and making soup are natural, and having children is a fidelity to women's behavior, and the husband's expectations are also due. There was a woman who fell in love with a man but never had a chance to say goodbye to him. They mistakenly believe that sooner or later their efforts will impress this old boy who knows nothing about emotions.
Sorry, that's not what marriage really looks like.
Marriage is not just a spring, nor is it when you keep pressing on it, the other person will suddenly realize it and give it back accordingly.
Marriage is like a dough that is constantly expanding, no matter how much you knead it, most of the time, you just need to push it a little, and even if you punch it hard out of anger, it will only hit the cotton.
Since Chunhong has placed her expectations and shortcomings on the eighteenth basement level in the process of establishing a marriage relationship, Toho naturally takes everything for granted.
Frankly, strong on the outside but tough on the inside, she may be a kind woman, but definitely not a smart woman. In this world, no man will lose his strength and wisdom because of a woman's weakness. Wise women know how to show themselves in the midst of vulnerability, and understand the true meaning of the triumph of softness over strength.
Although Chunhong has shown amazing abilities, her deep feelings and longing for marriage have never been reconciled.
I have a soft spot for Chunhong's fate, it's not that Lei Dongbao can't become a monster anymore, but she really entrusts her life to herself from that moment on:
Xiao Lei's family is facing a crisis again, and Dongbao is once again considering putting his own funds into it. But Dongbao wants to go to the bank to withdraw money, but he doesn't know that he should take it from **. Despite his tight hand, Chunhong's abundant wealth came to his mind.
He urged Chunhong to withdraw the funds from the fold, and quickly put in several high-quality real estate stores**. He also said that he would give her a house to live in. Faced with such unreasonable demands, he was not afraid that Chunhong would not act according to instructions, because Chunhong had never really felt angry because of her ridiculous behavior over the years.
However, our heroine finally comes to her senses, she first takes out the money to stabilize her husband's mood, then quietly replaces the property with her own name, and leaves with the child.
Despite Lei Dongbao's loud shouting in **, she is still firmly determined not to use her hard-earned money to fill Lei Dongbao's financial gap.
Reading this, I really couldn't help but want to laugh out loud.
No one can be completely devoured by another, only she is willing to be devoured completely.
Why pursue personal value from your partner?
I calculated in my heart that if you have the ability, I hope everyone can live well, otherwise I may leave you. You're my sweetheart!Its taste is so refreshing, pungent and refreshing, isn't it very fragrant?
In this world, the real challenge is not to take responsibility for others, but to oneself.
Although Chunhong's enlightenment came a little later, she could at least enjoy the good times for the rest of her life.
There is no need to endure silently to highlight Shude's qualities, and there is no need to please anyone without a bottom line, it is really relaxing.