Since ancient times, there has been a saying in China that "those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black", which is intended to warn people to carefully choose their partners in interpersonal communication. It is true that interpersonal communication is an indispensable part of everyone's life, however, how to interact with and with whom is a profound science. In my opinion, arguing more with gentlemen and less with villains is an important principle that we should follow in our interpersonal interactions.
First of all, being more with gentlemen** means that we should take the initiative to get to know those who are moral, talented, and responsible, and exchange ideas and opinions with them. The friendship of gentlemen, such as drinking alcohol, the longer it lasts, the more mellow it becomes. Being in the company of a gentleman can allow us to be nurtured by good conduct and improve our moral cultivation. In addition, gentlemen often have rich life experience and extensive knowledge, and asking questions with them can allow us to gain more knowledge and insight and broaden our horizons. As Confucius said, "If you are a threesome, you must have my teacher." "We must be good at learning from the gentlemen around us Xi improve our conduct and talents.
Second, less arguing with villains means that we should try to avoid arguing with people who are of poor moral character and narrow-minded. There is nothing wrong with debating in itself, but debating with villains is often prone to pointless disputes and quarrels. Villains are often narrow-minded and like to play with right and wrong, and debating with them not only makes it difficult to reach a consensus, but also easily puts themselves in trouble and trouble. As the ancients said: "It is better to compete with a gentleman for the length of a day than to discuss the length of a day with a villain." "We must learn to distinguish between gentlemen and villains, and try to avoid those with negative energy, so as not to affect our emotions and mentality.
However, in real life, we can't completely avoid contact with villains. In this case, we have to learn how to get along with the villain. On the one hand, we must maintain our own conduct and principles, and not change our values because of the villain's **. On the other hand, we must learn to be tolerant and understanding, and try not to deal with the little people. As the ancients said: "Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky." "We must learn to treat villains with a tolerant attitude, so that we can maintain peace of mind in interpersonal interactions.
In short, in interpersonal communication, we should follow the principle of "more with gentlemen, less debate with villains". Keeping company with a gentleman allows us to keep improving and become better people;Debating with villains often only leads us to pointless disputes. Let's keep this principle in mind and choose friends carefully in our interpersonal interactions to promote our own growth and progress.