It's a question worth thinking about whether you should reach out to your favorite ex or not.
Let's be clear, since we broke up, there must be a problem.
So, before we think about reaching out to our ex, we need to get to know these questions.
First, what is the current stage of your relationship?Are they friendly and peaceful, or do they look at each other unpleasantly?
Second, what was your reason for reaching out to your ex?
Thirdly, how do you feel yourself?Do you really still like your ex, or is it just lonely?Only when you are clear about these issues can you really reach out to him.
After clarifying these problems, you can really take the initiative to contact him
First of all, if there have been a lot of quarrels and injuries between you, then I advise you to hold back!Do you want to repeat the mistakes of the past again and speak ill of each other?After all, there was no need to touch those wounds again.
Second, if you intend to reach out to the other person, then your intentions must be very clear. You are reluctant to let go of this person, and you want to bring the other person back through your own efforts.
If you just want to have a chat and say hello, then you better not go to the scourge.
Finally, if you just want to contact your ex because you're lonely, then I advise you to think twice!Avoid getting stuck in a never-ending cycle.
But if you genuinely feel like you still like your ex and think you can fix the problems you had before, be brave!Pursuing one's own happiness is the true meaning of life!
How do I do to establish an active connection?
Here I divide it into two stages, the first thing to do is to show and attract the attention of the other party
The meaning of this is to make the other person refocus on your life and make him realize that you have really changed, that you are getting better and better.
1.There is an important thing to keep in mind that the presentation phase usually takes two to three months. If this time has passed, you should take the initiative to promote your relationship and speed things up.
It's not a good thing to drag on for too long, and if you don't act, it will make your ex think, well, maybe everyone is really just suitable to be friends.
2.Then after resuming contact later, be sure to make the other party aware of the purpose of your coming to him.
Let the other person know that you have always cared about him, that you have changed, and that you want him to come back to you. You can offer him out on a date and advance your relationship.
3.If you show 100% sincerity, I believe that your ex will be touched by you and will be willing to give you a chance.
In short, I still like that there is no absolute answer to the question of whether the ex should take the initiative to contact him. Each person and situation is different, so it needs to be judged on a case-by-case basis.
Remember, be clear about your motivations and feelings before making a decision, and be fully prepared for the possible outcome, and don't stretch the timeline too long, I hope you can find your own happiness!Come on!