In love, we are often faced with various choices and confusions. Sometimes, we may have distrust or suspicion of our boyfriend for some reason, and we often want to reach out to him to confirm that everything is going as we want. However, what I'm going to tell you is not to reach out to the male lover.
First of all, reaching out to a male lover will give him the impression that you are too dependent on him. When you always reach out to him and ask him about his whereabouts and all the details, he may feel that you have no trust in him, or even feel constrained and stressed. Such behavior may cause him to become tired of you and eventually lose interest in you.
Secondly, reaching out to a male lover can also make you lose your independence and self-esteem. When you're always around him and can't help but check his social networks, record or ask about his whereabouts, you become too dependent on him. Such behavior not only consumes your own energy and time, but may also make you appear lacking in confidence and charisma in front of him.
Also, don't take the initiative to contact your male lover to give him a little space and time. Everyone needs their own personal space and time to do personal things, think about problems, or catch up with friends. If you always take the initiative to contact him and don't give him enough space and time, he may feel suffocated and constrained and eventually choose to leave you.
Most importantly, don't forget your worth and dignity. Don't lose yourself for the sake of a man, and don't give up your principles and bottom line for the sake of a man. If he truly loves you, he will cherish you, trust you, and respect your choices and decisions. If he can't meet these basic needs, then there's no need to dwell on it.
In love, we should learn to maintain a moderate distance and independence. Don't rely too much on one person, and don't put your happiness entirely on others. Trust your instincts and judgment and believe that you can live a better and happier life.