In 2006, the famous writer Han Han published a remark on his blog, questioning whether it is reasonable for ordinary people to raise even a large dog indoors, but Sun Li can raise "wolves" in Shanghai
At first glance, people may mistakenly think that Han Han is holding Sun Li accountable, but in fact he is making fun of those college students who have received Sun Li's funding as "white-eyed wolves".
This incident also plunged Sun Li, who was on the rise in her career at the time, into a turmoil, and even almost ruined her acting career.
Sun Li was born in an ordinary Shanghai family, although she is not wealthy, her family is quite passable.
Her mother has been very fond of Sun Li since she was a child, and even though her family is poor, she still insists on sending Sun Li to dance training classes, because she found that Sun Li loves to dance.
Under the careful cultivation of her mother, Sun Li can be regarded as mastering a skill, and she cherishes this rare opportunity very much.
Sun Li is always very hard and serious when dancing in the Children's Palace, and has always been at the top of the class. His parents were ordinary workers, and they pinned all their hopes on him and brought them up carefully.
Because of his high talent, he began performing in the United States, Japan and other places at the age of 11, and although he was still young, it was really not easy for him to stand on the world stage with his excellent martial arts skills at that time.
However, Sun Li's childhood was spent in an environment where her parents were constantly arguing. As the relationship between her parents deteriorated, her father left Sun Li and her mother when she was 12 years old, leaving only 2,000 yuan for them to make ends meet.
The departure of her father made it more difficult for this family, which was not wealthy, and Sun Li had to be forced to withdraw from the dance training class in the face of life pressure.
In order to support her daughter to stick to her hobby, Sun Li's mother began to work three times a day, from morning to night.
In 1997, when Sun Li graduated from junior high school, with her excellent performance, she successfully entered the amateur theatrical performance team of soldiers in the Shanghai Garrison District for continued training. She stood out among many outstanding students, which fully proves that God will not fail a hard-working person.
Sun Li went to Singapore in 2001 to participate in the competition, and finally won the second place, and successfully signed a contract with Hairun Company.
She was 20 years old at the time, and after experiencing the difficult life of living in the basement and living by eating mustard, she finally ushered in the dawn of her acting career, which was in March 2002.
That year, Sun Li met Andy Lau in a competition, and was later recommended to join the crew of "Jade Guanyin".
When Sun Li followed the crew of "Jade Guanyin" to Kunming for filming, she happened to see a documentary on TV about poverty in mountainous areas. At that time, she was not a big star, but just a "working boy" who had just stepped into the entertainment industry.
She met a child named Xiang Haiqing here, but the kindness in her heart reminded him of his childhood when he watched Xiang Haiqing on TV.
Haiqing's family was in an extremely difficult situation at that time, and even could not afford the tuition, and Haiqing was facing the crisis of dropping out of school. When Sun Li saw this poor child, she couldn't bear to let him be bound in the mountains for the rest of her life, so she decided to lend a hand, pay his tuition, and support him to go to college.
Subsequently, Sun Li contacted the program team, asked her mother to get in touch with Xiang Haiqing's family, and promised to subsidize him with 500 yuan per month until he completed his college studies.
This money is really timely for Xiang Haiqing's family, and it can even be said that it changed the fate of Xiang Haiqing's life.
In the second half of 2002, Xiang Haiqing received the first aid fund of 500 yuan from Sun Li. Xiang Haiqing was grateful for the generosity of this stranger she had never met, and she also wrote a letter of thanks to Sun Li and her mother at that time.
When I received the 500 yuan donation from Aunt Deng, my hands trembled, and my tears almost fell. This was stated in a letter to a teacher.
We can clearly feel from the text sent to Qinghai that the recipient is deeply grateful and excited, and the people around him are sincerely happy for him.
After the broadcast of "Jade Guanyin", it won a hot response with its super high ratings and excellent interpretation, and became a popular drama. The starring Sun Li also became famous and became a household name.
She never forgot the child she was sponsoring, even when she was holding the trophy with a soft hand. She still insists on sending him 500 yuan every month.
In 2004, due to the lack of solid foundation, Xiang Haiqing failed in the first year of the college entrance examination. Faced with this situation, he decided to go out to work to support his family.
After learning the news, Sun Li took the initiative to contact Xiang Haiqing and encouraged him to repeat his studies for another year, strive to be admitted to the university, get out of the mountains, and finally sponsored him to continue his studies for another year.
Haiqing did not live up to Sun Li's expectations, and at the suggestion of Sun Li's mother, after a year of hard work, he was successfully admitted to Shanghai Fisheries University, which really changed his fate.
Xiang Haiqing wrote a thank you letter to Sun Li to express his gratitude to her, and referred to her as Sister Sun in the letter.
Sun Li and her mother greeted Xiang Haiqing at the station in person, and they helped him complete the enrollment procedures and pay the tuition fees for a whole year.
After entering the university, Sun Li always kept her promises. Although she is busy filming, she still gives Xiang Haiqing 500 yuan every month, and she has not forgotten this promise. Sometimes he even gave extra money to buy clothes, shoes and daily necessities for Xiang Haiqing, and told him to study hard and honor his mother after graduation.
However, Sun Li never imagined that she would personally experience the real-life version of the "Feeding the Snake" story, and the children who had been sponsored by her would betray her soon after.
Xiang Haiqing gradually realized that the person who had been supporting her turned out to be the big star Sun Li, and as Sun Li's fame grew, it made her heart change.
More than 10 years ago, 500 yuan was quite generous for the daily expenses of college students. However, when Xiang Haiqing saw that his classmates around him were wearing famous brands and eating big meals, his attitude towards money began to change. Not only did he start squandering his money, but he even made all kinds of excuses to borrow money from Sun Li's mother.
Sun Li's mother used to call Xiang Haiqing frequently when he was penniless, but now Xiang Haiqing no longer seems to be the obedient child, but a person who always needs money, his requests are becoming more and more frequent, and even a small amount of money cannot satisfy him.
In fact, Xiang Haiqing hid a lot of things from Sun Li's mother and daughter. He not only successfully applied for a scholarship of 6,000 yuan a year, but also worked as a part-time assistant to the teacher, earning 300 yuan a month, in addition to accepting financial support from others.
What is even more unacceptable is that Xiang Haiqing did not use the money funded by Sun Li for his studies, but squandered it on buying luxury goods and dating his girlfriend, and even spent more than 5,000 yuan on a trip.
In order to avoid Xiang Haiqing developing the habit of being spoiled, Sun Li decided to limit his spending and no longer send him money at will. However, this kind of kindness has had a negative impact in Xiang Haiqing's view.
He thinks that Sun Li is a big star and celebrity, and looks down on people like me who are born in the mountains. She earns enough money every day for me to spend half a year, so why can't she give me more?
Xiang Haiqing wrote a 6,000-word long article and sent it to reporters, mainly describing Sun Li's unwillingness to give him money, as well as the difficulties and difficulties of his life. He even thinks that it is easy for celebrities to make money, and they should give themselves more use. It's as the proverb says"The human heart is not enough to swallow the elephant"。
What's even more infuriating is that he even threatened to "destroy" Sun Li. In the letter, Xiang Haiqing pointed out the various "crimes" of Sun Li's mother and daughter, believing that they were just spending a little money to earn fame.
Sun Li was heartbroken by Xiang Haixin's behavior, she had treated Xiang Haiqing sincerely, but she didn't expect to get such a reward. Therefore, she decided to unilaterally terminate her funding for Xiang Haiqing.
For a while, the spearheads of ** gathered on Sun Li's side, and people didn't know anything about Xiang Haiqing's behavior, only that Sun Li had violated his original promise, so they accused Sun Li of being a hypocritical philanthropist.
It wasn't until Xiang Haiqing's classmates couldn't bear it anymore that Xiang Haiqing's extravagant behavior at school was revealed, and the truth was revealed.
Although Xiang Haiqing had graduated from college, he was spurned by many companies because of his treacherous behavior, and finally had to return to his hometown to find an ordinary job to make a living. This is also the terrible price he paid for his actions.
Guo Hongtao's family was poor since he was a child, and because his family was too poor, his elder brother dropped out of school very early. My mother was weak and often sick, and my father had to do odd jobs to help cook after work.
He has been diligent and studious since he was a child, and his grades have always been at the top of his list. However, because his family's income could not meet his tuition expenses, Guo Hongtao had to face the risk of dropping out of school, which made him feel extremely helpless.
When he was at risk of not being able to continue his education, the local government provided help, allowing Guo Hongtao to waive all tuition and fees and receive a monthly subsidy of 500 yuan.
Guo Hongtao was successfully admitted to North China Electric Power University with a score of 600 points in the college entrance examination, living up to expectations. After graduating from university, he actively participated in public welfare and showed his strength by sponsoring a poor student in his hometown.
Thanks to Guo Hongtao's support and encouragement, Liu Shuhan was successfully admitted to university. In celebrating the good news, Liu Shuhan said that he will study hard in the university and promised to use his ability to help poor students and make more contributions to society in the future.
We have learned the traditional virtue of repaying gratitude since childhood, and the story of "knotting grass and rings" is also a well-known story of repaying gratitude.
We should be grateful and sincerely repay those who have helped us, just as a spring repays the grace of a drop of water.
Reaching out to them when they need help, giving them a gift and saying thank you, and helping them in any way you can, are all ways to reciprocate, and don't chill the do-gooders or lose the will!