In 2019, the delivery room of Zaozhuang Maternal and Child Health Hospital in Shandong Province was full of doctors from various departments and **"Hurry up, it's going to give birth".
It turned out that they were delivering a child for a 67-year-old "pregnant mother", and she became the oldest natural pregnancy and childbirth in China.
As soon as this news came out, it instantly aroused heated discussions in the society, and the children of the old couple fell out with their parents early.
According to common sense, a woman loses her fertility after menopause, so how did this 67-year-old woman conceive a child against the laws of nature?
In the face of social, children, and physical pressure, why did the old couple go out of their way to give birth to their children?
The shocking elderly woman, named Tian Xinju, supported her pregnancy from beginning to end and took care of the man she gave birth to, named Huang Weiping.
Before they were pregnant, Grandma Tian and Grandpa Huang were just a retired couple in Zaozhuang City, Shandong Province.
Although the old couple has passed the age of Ershun, both of them are very healthy, Aunt Tian was also a doctor in the maternal and child health hospital, so the couple usually pay attention to health, every day is not to see their granddaughter, or to climb the mountain to travel.
They also cultivated a piece of farmland in their yard, and every day they either planted and watered the land, or watched their granddaughter travel.
The life of the old couple is both comfortable and beautiful.
But there are unforeseen circumstances, in 2018, Grandma Tian suddenly felt tightness in her chest, couldn't breathe, and finally fainted with a burst of dizziness.
When he was sent to the hospital by his wife for a check, he learned that it was a slight cerebral infarction caused by qi stagnation and blood stasis, and then the hospital prescribed a few traditional Chinese medicines to Grandma Tian to go back for treatment.
In this way, Grandma Tian and Grandpa Huang left the hospital with the medicine, I don't know if the medicine worked, or if they ate the right thing, Grandma Tian's illness suddenly improved.
And her complexion was a lot ruddy, and Grandma Tian at this time didn't look like a person who was over six years old, but one thing didn't take a few days to shock everyone.
66-year-old Grandma Tian actually came to menstruation!This is a rare occurrence.
Anyone who understands physiology knows that women generally fall to the lowest level of estrogen around the age of 50, and then the ovarian function gradually shrinks, so amenorrhea, commonly known as menopause.
Now that I suddenly have a period, this can suddenly frighten the old couple, at this age, such a thing happened, what kind of serious illness did Bao Qi have, so the old couple hurriedly ran to the hospital to ask the doctor.
After some examination, the doctor told the couple that this was a normal reaction to the drug, because the Chinese medicine prescribed at that time contained ingredients that invigorate blood circulation and eliminate blood stasis, so there was no need to worry.
When Grandma Tian heard this, Grandma Huang put the hanging heart back into her stomach, but since the first menstrual holiday, Grandma Tian has come to her period almost every month.
And the time of coming is more regular than that of a young girl, and his wife Grandpa Huang often takes this matter and ridicules Grandma Tian and says: "You are a blessing in disguise, and you are happy to have the second spring of your life."
But the strange thing is that after Grandma Tian came for half a year in a row, it suddenly stopped in the seventh month, and Grandma Tian didn't think much about it, let alone care about it.
"At that time, I didn't even think about it, but I knew that it must have been over the medicine and returned to normal, so my wife and I didn't take it seriously," Grandma Tian said in a later interview.
In this way, the old couple continued to live a normal life in an oolong, but what they didn't expect was that behind the tranquility was a raging storm.
One day in 2019, Grandma Tian suddenly felt unwell, so she went to the hospital for an examination, I didn't know if I didn't check, I was shocked when I checked it, and the doctor said that she was four months pregnant!
The results of this examination not only stunned the old couple, but even the doctors in the hospital said that they had never seen it, because pregnancy is normal for young people, but it is unbelievable for an old man in his 60s.
The old couple wondered if it was misdiagnosed by the hospital, because there was often news in the past, saying that so-and-so was pregnant, but when I went to the hospital for an examination, I found out that it was a tumor, so would this be the case with Grandma Tian?
After repeated ultrasound examinations, the doctor confirmed that Grandma Tian was indeed a life "embryo" in her belly, and the doctor believed that Grandma Tian's ovarian function had long since deteriorated.
Even if you use high-quality drugs to recuperate, it is difficult to get pregnant again after 10 years of menopause, which is a medical "miracle" no matter how you look at it.
When everyone was immersed in this joy, the old couple fell into the choice of "to stay or not to stay", staying: what should the son and granddaughter think, not staying: this is their own flesh and blood after all.
Liu Chengwei, the chief physician of the Maternal and Child Health Hospital, once did a "pregnancy risk screening assessment" for Grandma Tian, but all indicators did not meet the standards, and Grandma Tian was 67 years old.
You must know that women over 35 years old are elderly mothers, and the complications of pregnant women after giving birth to a child are already much higher than those of young pregnant women, not to mention Grandma Tian, who suffers from high blood pressure and diabetes.
If you give birth to a child, you will undoubtedly be hovering on the verge of death, so the doctor has repeatedly dissuaded Aunt Tian to terminate the pregnancy as soon as possible and kill the child for her own safety.
But the old couple seemed to be iron-hearted in many persuasions, and insisted on giving birth to this child, and the old couple said that since this child came to this world, it was a kind of fate with them.
In addition, Grandma Tian was originally a midwife, and the two of them couldn't bear it when they thought of the unborn child being brutally strangled in their stomachs.
So after careful consideration, they decided to take the risk of giving birth to this child, but when they told their children the news, they were also met with strong opposition.
Grandma Tian's son and daughter are almost 40 years old, and the eldest son has also been married twice, the sons of the first marriage are all adults, and the daughter of the second marriage is also five years old.
The youngest daughter is also married and has children, and the children are already in middle school, if the old couple gives birth to the child at this time, then the grandchildren will have an "elder" younger than their own age
This is not only difficult for children to accept, but also makes people gossip, leaving these aside, they are also very worried about their mother's aging health.
Everyone who has given birth knows that children are hungry very quickly after birth, accompanied by crying day and night, and being a parent can sleep well in the middle of the night, which can be regarded as burning incense.
What's more, this pair is an old couple who are already old, and raising a child needs to buy this and that, which is a lot of money.
After listening to the children's worries, the old couple was also very entangled, but they still wanted to give birth to this child in their hearts, so they were ready to go to the hospital for a comprehensive examination.
The old couple planned that if both the child and the adult were up to standard, they would insist on giving birth, and if one of the tests was not up to standard, they would not take any chances.
With this in mind, they did various examinations, and the results of the examination showed that the fetus in Grandma Tian's womb was very well developed, and Grandma Tian, as a pregnant mother, had all the indicators very normal.
Seeing this result, the old couple was relieved, not only that, but Grandma Tian never had any adverse reactions such as pregnancy reactions, morning sickness, and sleepiness during her pregnancy.
Even their own diabetes and high blood pressure are more normal than before during pregnancy, and the children at this time are five months old, so why should they not have children?
In this way, the old couple quietly left the child in the womb, and it was not until the pregnancy was about to give birth in October that the old couple was admitted to the maternal and child health hospital for delivery.
The hospital has also set up an expert group for this "special pregnant woman" to supervise the situation of the pregnant woman 24 hours a day, the purpose of which is to protect the safety of adults and children.
But the paper couldn't hold the fire, and the fact that they gave birth in the hospital was still known by their son and daughter, and they came to the hospital together to force Grandma Tian to terminate the pregnancy.
In the face of their parents who refused to give in, they even threatened the old couple with severing their relationship, which not only did not work, but angered Grandma Tian in the chattering quarrel.
Grandma Tian's son and daughter slammed the door and walked out, seeing that the attitude of the children was so resolute, gradually the old couple stopped contacting them, anyway, their retirement salary added up to more than 10,000 yuan, which was enough to support the child.
In October 2019, Grandma Tian, who was in labor, was pushed into the operating room and prepared to give birth by caesarean section.
They will all give birth for the first time, and pregnant women of such an age must ensure that nothing goes wrong, as a husband, Grandpa Huang, as a companion, has always been by his wife's side.
The child's head came out, and the nerves of all the staff fell into a high degree of tension, and Grandpa Huang's sweat had already wet the shirt under the protective clothing.
After the doctor's efforts, a loud cry resounded throughout the operating room, and when he heard the child's cry, Grandpa Huang's heart was melted, and it was finally determined that he was a 6-pound daughter.
Grandpa Huang, who was overflowing with joy, even named the child in his wife's womb Huang Tianci early, implying that this is a child given to them by God.
The birth of a daughter is undoubtedly the icing on the cake, whether it is a doctor or **, they have a special preference for this pink child, and the birth of a daughter is indeed busy with Grandpa Huang.
Because since the birth of this child, the decision of the old couple has still not been understood by the children, and it is impossible to come to the hospital to share the busyness for their parents.
Therefore, Grandpa Huang relies on Grandpa Huang to do all the big and small things himself, he has to take care of his wife in confinement on the one hand, and his daughter who is waiting to be fed on the other.
Not only that, there is a dog at home, which has been raised for many years, Grandpa Huang has almost no time to rest, but he is tired and happy, after all, the road is his own choice.
It can also be seen from this that as long as you are a mother and a father, no matter how old you are, you will naturally reveal a sense of responsibility as a parent!
In order to provide the child with a more comfortable living environment, Grandpa Huang came to the new home where they were reluctant to live before the child was discharged from the hospital.
This was the house assigned by Grandma Tian's unit at that time, which was not only close to the hospital, which could facilitate his wife to go to the hospital at any time if she had a problem, but also the new house was larger than the one they live in now.
Because the old couple had not given birth to children, they had been living in the old house when they got married, which was not only small but also very damp, even if the community was assigned later, the couple was reluctant to move out.
After all, there are memories of their youth here, and neighbors who have known each other for many years, and it is not until they have this child that the couple is willing to move to a new home.
Grandpa Huang was alone, and found a moving company to tidy up the empty room before his wife was discharged from the hospital, and finally waited for the news that his wife could be discharged from the hospital.
On this day, when Grandpa Huang came to pick up his wife and daughter home, he also specially brought a red scarf, and before he was discharged from the hospital, he gently covered the red scarf on the child's body, which meant to drive away evil spirits for the child.
Not only these, Grandpa Huang also deliberately took a peach branch, the branch was full of red ropes, and the rope was full of red dates and red shell peanuts, which meant beauty.
These objects brought by Grandpa Huang made the entire delivery room look jubilant at that time.
After returning home, the family of three officially started a normal life, Grandpa Huang would brew milk powder every morning, and use the technique of taking care of his grandchildren for many years to feed his daughter slowly.
After feeding his daughter, he had to cook for his confinement wife and himself, and before he could eat a few bites, he led the dog downstairs to walk the dog.
This dog is Teddy raised by Grandpa Huang for 2 years, and the master and servant have a very deep affection, and in the past, Grandpa Huang would always take the dog and wander around until lunch.
But now that there are children at home, Grandpa Huang has also accelerated the pace of walking the dog, often slipping around or twice, and he has to hurry home, and the dog will sometimes not leave without being happy.
Occasionally, when an old man in the garden stopped him, Grandpa Huang would always say, "I have to go home, daughter-in-law and children, still waiting for me at home".
Soon after, this family of three, which seems to be common, but not ordinary, was suddenly accused of "putting on a show" and "wanting to go crazy" and so on, what happened again?
It turned out that the 67-year-old grandmother Tian's birth of a child went viral on the Internet and quickly attracted widespread attention from people from all walks of life.
All localities and local ** rushed to Zaozhuang Maternal and Child Health Hospital to interview this rare childbirth incident, and for a while, almost all the people in the country knew about Grandma Tian's birth.
Even the vendors who set up stalls to sell fruits at the gate of Grandma Tian's community have a lot of discussions about this matter, but most of them are bad remarks.
For a while, whether it was on the Internet or in real life, there was a state of polarization, one side expressed support for this matter, and the other side spat on the old couple.
They think that the behavior of the old couple is very selfish, not only do they not take into account the thoughts of their children, but they are so old, if they die one day, who should raise the children?
But some people say that it is already a "miracle" that Grandma Tian can give birth to a child at such an age, why should we deprive them of their right to be parents because of their age?
In the face of everyone's heated discussion on this matter, whether positive or negative, the couple did not make any response and continued to live their own little lives.
Regarding the reason, a year later, we found the answer on Grandpa Huang's short**, platform, and the old couple responded positively to this matter for the first time in front of the camera.
Grandma Tian said: "At that time, my husband and I chose not to listen to or watch the bad remarks, after all, the life is our own, and there is no need to care too much about other people's opinions."
"Yes, the road is our own choice, and now we are in good physical condition, I believe that my family and I can live to be 100 years old is not a problem, hahaha" Grandpa Huang on the side was half-serious and half-joking.
When the old couple was holding such a positive and optimistic idea, they could still be so frank in the face of society, fortunately.
Under the careful care of the old couple, Xiao Tianci slept every day without crying or making trouble, and looked particularly well-behaved.
When the eldest daughter saw in front of her, this pink sister smiled at her, her heart melted, and since then she has been out of control and has become a "pet sister madman".
often either buy this for Xiao Tianci, or buy that, and the family also returns to the original state of mother and son filial piety in its happy relationship.
It's just that later under the influence of the Internet, the Tian family often comes to some strange netizens one after another to ask them about the "secret recipe" for getting a child
Faced with this funny motive, the old couple not only did not refuse at first, but received every visitor very warmly, but it was not a matter of all the time.
In desperation, Grandpa Huang had to discuss with the community security guards, and as time went by, the public's attention to this matter gradually became less high.
2 years later, the short ** platform quickly exploded, and Grandpa Huang also took a lot of short ** photos for Tianci on the short ** platform, and he had millions of fans for a while.
At this time, some people said that children have become a "tool" for the old couple to earn traffic.
For this reason, Grandpa Huang specially clarified that he didn't want to win the public's attention with this, but simply wanted to record the child's growth process in this way.
**At the end, Grandpa Huang said sincerely: "We are just an ordinary person, but also an ordinary family, giving birth to an ordinary child, there is nothing worthy of everyone's criticism".
Now the old couple is living a nourishing life, and their eldest daughter and son also love this sister, and said that they will take on the responsibility of taking care of their sister after the death of their parents.
While blessing the family, we also want to remind everyone that it is the best choice to give birth at the right age if you want a child.
After all, older mothers, not everyone is like Grandma Tian, if you get pregnant unexpectedly, you should also give birth under the premise of complying with the doctor's instructions, so as to ensure the common safety of adults and children!