Middle age seems to be a turning point in life, and the winding river quietly divides into two tributaries. Some people choose to sprint hard and be unstoppable;And others have learned to hide in this moment. Today, we don't talk about counterattacks, we don't talk about boldness, we only talk about life-saving wisdom - hiding.
When I reach middle age, we are always busy with work, family, and socializing, but we often neglect the most important thing – saving our lives. This refers not only to the health of the body, but also to the protection of life as a whole. So, what can be done to save our lives?
ii.Zang Feng: Be a low-key person and protect yourself.
Stories are always the best revelations. Li Cunxiao's experience tells us that being sharp is like attracting an undercurrent. In middle age, if you want to save your life, you must learn to keep a low profile, like a cunning fox, dexterous and not easy to detect. Don't pierce the clouds for the sake of a momentary view, otherwise, like Lee, he may be feared by those around him and end up discredited.
The five birds are exhausted, and once you realize that, you become a Buddha. "The higher the achievement, the more you want to hide your strengths. In this way, both humans and animals are harmless and calm. This does not mean giving up the pursuit, but learning to be humble while succeeding, so that your light is less dazzling, but easier to illuminate others.
Three. Love: Husband and wife accompany each other and protect the family.
Feelings are the most vulnerable part of middle age. At this complicated stage, how to deal with the relationship between husband and wife is particularly important. Taking the story of Zhang Dun and Qian Ying as an example, we can see the ups and downs of the relationship, and how the beautiful relationship between husband and wife is ruthlessly destroyed.
In middle age, people's emotions are more fragile, like a glass of water, which will be spilled all over the floor if you are not careful. At this time, the feelings of the Tibetan people are particularly precious. Don't let your family relationships break up on the spur of the moment. Knowing that "friendship between gentlemen is as light as water", indifferent and deep affection, is the best state of middle-aged emotions.
iv.Hiding money: Living a humble and wealthy life.
Money has always played an important role in our lives. But in middle age, we should learn to hide money, not luxury. Pensions, life plans, and rational spending are all ways to hide money.
As the saying goes, "If you are not afraid of poverty, you are afraid of not being frugal." "In middle age, you should not become penniless, but look at money rationally. Money is like running water. If it can be cleverly hidden in the sea, it will not evaporate easily. With more financial planning and less extravagant spending, you may be able to enjoy family happiness in old age.
v.Save your life and change your destiny positively.
Man can control his own destiny", this is the most precious sentence that Shakespeare left us. Saving lives is not only about protecting lives, it's about making a positive difference in life. Life is like a drop of water, and the wisdom of the Tibetan sea lies in the courage to run to the sea.
In middle age, we have to do more than just save our lives, but also make our destiny better and better. Whether it's good health, wealth accumulation, or family harmony, we need to be positive. It's a journey of constant struggle, and every effort is for a better future.
Middle age is the long march of life. On this path, we need to learn to hide. Hiding facades, feelings and money is not only a kind of wisdom, but also a state of life. In a bustling market, learning to converge is sometimes more atmospheric than propaganda. Lifesaving is not only about protecting lives, but also about making life more colorful. In the process, you will find that dripping water can also hide the sea.