Lately I've been thinking about how we shouldn't be afraid to give when it comes to relationships, and we shouldn't blindly respond to others. If someone starts treating you like iron and no longer responds to your messages, you should realize that he may not be the type you like and you may not be his lover. Don't get caught up in endless self-consumption and torment because of fruitless feelings.
Obvious phenomenon. There was a time when I was immersed in the indifference and neglect of others. Countless ** and information disappeared into the black hole, and he seemed to have become the patron saint behind **. Although I was overwhelmed by this emotion, I learned important lessons about maintaining self-esteem and respecting the choices of others.
Self-defense and respect.
In relationships, self-preservation is the foundation for maintaining self-esteem. When he doesn't want to see you again or reply to your messages, it's a clear message: let it go. It's not disrespectful to you, but he has a choice. At this time, we must learn to have backbone, not to give up on ourselves because of his indifference, but to meet new possibilities with a better self.
The path to growth. The way to combat emotional troughs is not to find him, but to find a better version of yourself. Zhili famously said: "The sky is wide and the earth is wide, looking for a confidant in the lamplight." "In the journey of love, growth is the most important thing. Learn and become a better version of yourself, and only then will truly valuable people come to you.
Resolution. If he blocks you, he has made a choice. At this time, don't try to ask other channels why. When he blocks you, he's clearly expressing that he doesn't want to hear you anymore. A solid stop loss is the greatest kindness and respect for the future. Maybe he wasn't ruthless, but maybe he was afraid that if his heart softened a little more, he would be hurt again. Therefore, his ruthlessness is nothing more than forcing you to give up and do it for your own benefit.
Cherish the time and look forward to the future.
The rest of your life is too short to waste. Only by letting go at the right time can there be a new beginning, and only by parting can there be new hope. Only by no longer reaching out and passively waiting can we truly get out of the fog of emotions and find more suitable happiness.