Men, women who are admired from the bottom of their hearts, embody obvious charm

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If, when you want to become an indispensable preference in a man's heart, you should not first ask the man how indispensable he is, but ask himself first:

What kind of charm do I have to be the only one in a man's heart?

There is no shortage of people and women in this world, what is lacking is a woman who has self-charm to create and recognize herself.

Men are not attracted by women who are trying to please them, nor are they attracted by women's efforts to cater to them, but in the creation of women's charming self-worth!

To please and cater to the people who come, you can only be by your side for a while, not for a lifetime!

Because, you are not the only one who knows how to please and cater to you, and even other people's ways and methods are more useful to men than yours!

Men who are attracted will keep the freshness because of the endless charm of women.

In the process of satisfying the freshness, the charm of women allows men to experience the meaning of value, and the preference for women has become an inevitability!

It was once said that if a man loves you, he will love you no matter what you become!

Suffice it to say that this is a very extreme fallacy!

Even if it's a pet, we have a plan, don't we?

A living person, you can't let a man realize your "value" and can't bring a man a good experience, why do you want people to love you unconditionally?

Unconditional love does not exist, and preference that is demanded from the outside does not exist!

You have to be yourself first, and then you will attract a close relationship!

Look through human nature and you will find:

Men, women who are admired from the bottom of their hearts, embody obvious charm

The charm of a woman who is admired by men is reflected in the following important aspects:

Fundamentally speaking, no one is born hypocritical and pretentious, and most of the women who are pretentious and pretentious are not confident, so they use a very clumsy acting skills to win the attention of men!

Such a woman is a typical "unconscious" woman!

In the early stages of hypocrisy and artificiality, it may stimulate a man's curiosity, but this curiosity must be fleeting!

Many women don't know that the obvious trait of human nature embodied in men is that all men don't like trouble!

If a woman always makes trouble for men, men will definitely be annoyed!

Hypocrisy and artificiality are to add emotions to men first and visual disgust to men.

The woman that men appreciate in their hearts does not lose the generosity and gentleness of women, but they are also very sober, not pretentious and pretentious.

Those women who don't have the life of a princess but are full of princess diseases will only become poor worms abandoned by men because of the strange to familiar process!

An attractive woman must be full of self-confidence, and she doesn't need any fake performances to add points to herself and clumsily does a trick of lowering her value!

In life, the most fearful thing is not that you are mediocre at this moment, but that you don't know what kind of attitude you should take to face your life management.

Blindly blooming his clumsy acting skills in the bored gaze of men, this is a funny performance, and the man who should cooperate with the performance must be blind to ......

When I mentioned the word independence, I instantly remembered the word "a bottle is less than half a bottle of shake".

Independence is a person's ability to survive and live independently, and to have the wisdom to solve problems and cope with changes.

A bottle less than half a bottle shakes, a person does not have self-awareness, and is unwilling to admit that he is mediocre when he uses conceit to attract people's attention when he is not confident!

Independence is a person's inner enrichment of self through continuous self-learning, improvement and transformation, and the way of living without dependence and attachment will not become a burden to anyone as a parasite.

If a bottle is less than half a bottle shaken, when the wind is calm, I still feel that I am very capable and worthy of someone else's "raising"!

When problems arise, two extreme modes of self-protection are activated:

It is unreasonable to insist on being "raised" and to carry out moral kidnapping

Humble pandering, all kinds of tricks are exhausted, just to meet the needs of those who are incapable of living independently and surviving.

But it turns out that a woman who is not independent and not strong enough in her heart will be rejected by men after all!

Those women who are admired by men even if they don't earn a penny are never as ordinary as you think.

As long as a woman does not stop her beauty and ability at all times, she will always be the "backbone" that men need at different levels.

If you want to be favored and seen as unique, you have to be different and irreplaceable!

It turns out:

Women who are admired and favored by men for a long time, the performance of charm comes from their sobriety in a state of sufficient self-awareness, not pretentious, not pretentious, never forgetting self-growth, independent and strong in heart!

There may be women who say, since I am so "capable", why do I need a man?I'll tell you:

Whether it is a man looking for a woman, or a woman looking for a man, it is all for each other to help each other, benefit each other, cooperate and win-win, and create a better life for each other in a state of equal strength.

No one should pay for whom, regardless of the return, and no one should carry the weight for whom!

Before you want to become someone in someone else's heart, you first ask yourself whether you have become a pronoun or a beautiful value relationship object?

Thinking about this question, in the face of any relationship, you will only win and not lose!

That's right, the establishment and management of any relationship is an investment in yourself!As long as you know enough about human nature, your life will not be too bad!

I'm a high-quality affective writer who has provided valuable and meaningful help to many counselors. I have rich experience in marriage, relationships, interpersonal relationships, etc., if you have any emotional confusion, please feel free to consult me.

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