The more the child manages, the more rebellious he becomesParents should stop "countering violence with violence", you might as well try the "fish tank rule".
In modern society, many parents are faced with a common problem, which is that their children are becoming more and more rebellious. In the face of their children's rebellion, many parents choose the method of "countering violence with violence", only to find that this method not only does not solve the problem, but may exacerbate the conflict. So, how should parents deal with their children's rebellion?The answer is the "fishbowl rule".
The "Fishbowl Rule" is an educational philosophy whose core idea is to allow children to grow themselves in a safe and free environment. This law emphasizes guidance rather than coercion, respect rather than suppression, understanding and acceptance rather than accusation and complaining.
First and foremost, parents need to provide a safe environment for their children. This environment must not only be materially safe, but also spiritually safe. Parents should respect their children's individuality and choices, and give them enough freedom to explore and experiment. At the same time, parents should also give their children enough love and support to make them feel accepted and understood.
Secondly, parents need to learn to guide their children correctly. Guidance does not mean that parents have to make decisions for their children, but that they are taught how to make decisions. Parents can help their children clarify their thoughts and goals by asking questions and discussing. At the same time, parents should also encourage their children to think independently and develop their judgment and decision-making skills.
Finally, parents need to learn to understand and accept their children. Every child is unique, and they have their own thoughts and feelings. Parents should respect these differences and not try to change them. When children make wrong decisions, parents should treat them with understanding and acceptance to help them learn and grow from their mistakes.
Overall, the "Fishbowl Rule" is a more humane way of education. It emphasizes guidance rather than coercion, respect rather than suppression, understanding and acceptance rather than accusation and complaining. Only in this way can the child grow up healthily in a loving environment and be truly free from rebellion.
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