At 7 o'clock in the morning, the alarm clock rang on time, and Ms. Hu got up on time to make breakfast for her son. 20 minutes later, everything was ready, and when I opened the bedroom door, I saw my son Yangyang turn off the alarm clock and still lie on the bed. Ms. Hu suddenly became angry and yelled at her son: "Look at what time it is, you can't get up yet!."Want to be late again today?Don't you feel ashamed?Then he slammed the door and walked out.
10 minutes later, Yang Yang was still undressed, and Ms. Hu had no choice but to help him make the bed while counting: "People like you will not be able to gain a foothold in society in the future, and if you can't support yourself, go and beg for food!"Yangyang pursed his lips and didn't speak, and when he got dressed and washed, he didn't have time to eat breakfast at all, so Yangyang went out with his schoolbag.
Hate to be dominated
The human heart always hates to be assigned tasks, especially children.
Like we said,After the age of two, children begin to develop a sense of self and always want to explore the world on their own and take the initiative over themselvesAt this time, they are very reluctant to be commanded by adults.
I believe that many parents have similar experiences, let their children go east, they go west, let them eat, they just want to play with toys,It's not that they don't like to clean up their toys, it's that they hate being instructed by their parents to clean up their toys。As a result, children tend to adopt".Non-violent non-cooperationThe way to resist is deeply rooted in the essence of Mahatma Gandhi's thoughts, and it is natural to procrastinate and grind when it comes to doing things.
The goal is unrealistic
Let's imagine a scenario where you're a person who doesn't have any fitness foundation, and you're in bed at night, and you set yourself a goal to have eight-pack abs by next month.
In the first few days, you were very motivated, and during this time, you had to lift your clothes every day when you passed by the mirror to see if there was any change in your abdomen. After holding on for a while, you become less and less motivated, because you can't possibly have eight firm "lumps of lump meat" in a month.
If you do it another way, the effect may be much better, for example, if you lose one kilogram of weight in a month, wouldn't it be more motivating to do so?That's whyProcrastination caused by a goal that is too far away
The following three methods are worth learning from.
If you leave the dishes and chopsticks in the sink after eating, leave them until the next day or even longerDirty laundry saved up for days before washing;The work plan that needs to be submitted needs to be urged by the leader again and again to complete the ......All of these behaviors will be seen by the child and used as his own standard of behavior. Therefore, when parents cure their own procrastination cancer, children may become a man of action.
Don't Xi used to giving orders at home and communicate with your child as if he were a friend. Sometimes it can even take the form of a competition, such as telling the child who is going to dress faster and who folds the quilt faster, and then giving the child a verbal or small material reward, which works better than a commanding tone.
Adversity quotient is the ability to react in the face of adversity and get out of trouble. When children procrastinate to avoid things, they are actually afraid of failure. Teach children to learn to face the unknown, learn to accept failure, children are not afraid to try, and "procrastination" will be self-defeating.
The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning Xi methods, the stronger the child's Xi in learning.
I would like to share with you a set of books that teach children to learn time management, "Watch at School" series.
This set of 8 books is suitable for children in the lower grades, and corresponds to the key issues in children's learning Xi, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
A set of 8 volumes, ** is not expensive, but it can cultivate children's time management skills and become excellent children.
Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.
While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......
This set of extracurricular reading materials imported from South Korea can help children quickly adapt to school life, cultivate good XiXi learning habits, and develop good time management Xi habits from an early age.
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