TVB, which has been "silent" for many years, made this effort at the end of the year, as if it was desperate to rush to KPIs.
Charmaine Sheh + Ma Guoming's double trump card, cooperate"Queen of Strength Cause".vs"Three escort soft rice men".The character of the sex turn.
and 1% of the content of love scenes, and it really played a lot of king bombs.
And when Ma Guoming played Liang Jingren, with contempt in his eyes, he calmly said this sentence to his female subordinates who had no use value:
Find a man to marry! 」
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The audience, who was completely refreshed, almost collectively took this sentence as a wholeThe most "dirty" words to swear this year.
Why? 
Because he used an ordinary tone, a condescending attitude, and the ridicule of those with vested interests.
Completely deny the whole of this woman's existence in society as an independent "person".
To put it simply, there is no put"She".Treat yourself as a single person.
After examining and measuring her state at this time, she will give an "identity" that is suitable for her at the moment and continues to live in society.
said to her when she was a child, if you want to eat, drink and be well raised, you have to be a good daughter;
She said to her when she was a teenager that in order to get good conditions for men to look up to in the future, you have to be a good student;
To the adult her, you should give yourself the characteristics and skills to be a good wife, so that you can marry an excellent, rich, and honest man in the future.
Also. In thousands of years of patriarchal society, women have always been Zhang San's daughter, Li Si's wife, and Wang Wu's mother from ancient times to the present"Who's so-and-so".identity exists.
The surname is inherited from the father's family, and the name is known only to oneself and one's mother.
The opportunity to work and earn money to support oneself is a right that has only been available for the past hundred years.
Once upon a time, women have always been taken as"Essentials".exists.
Whether it is used to decorate the façade, or to give birth to heirs, take care of the house and educate children, it is a measurable business.
The right door is the unspoken rule that the Chinese people have accumulated experience for thousands of years and practiced with blood and tears.
Even this "dang" only considers the social status at this moment, completely ignoring the inner truth of the many differences between the two sides;
Even if this "right" only measures the conditions of the entire family of the two parties, it does not involve love and affection at all.
Therefore, the blind marriage and dumb marriage of the parents' order and the words of the matchmaker are the best way to match everything after objectification.
The man uses power and money to ensure the material things that keep the family alive, while the woman provides appearance, physique, and character ability in exchange for the opportunity to continue to survive.
It is normal for the powerful, the rich, and the virtuous to marry a good-looking and virtuous person.
But the problem is that people are alive, with feelings, needs, and ideas, not dead things without desires.
Therefore, Ban Zhao, who was ordered to repair the "Female Ring", will write a special book out of survival pressure:
"Women have four elements, one is women's morality, two is women's words, three is women's appearance, and four is women's merit. ”On the other hand, you can live as wanton as you want.
And the reason why she can be so yang and yin is precisely because she has a "job".
With the irreplaceable value that belonged to her at that time, she was able to choose how she wanted to live.
Pulling back to the present, for example, in "Rural China", Fei Xiaotong mentioned that China's family is a public institution, and efficiency is the priority.
In fact, it is also the same set of values from ancient times to the present, and if we say that the point of progress is to allow a certain range, the two sides can refer to the social needs of the time to carry out a more efficient combination.
In addition to the male protagonist, the female protagonist has more special options to meet the needs.
But in essence, the value system of women as accessories remains the same.
Once upon a time, the highest praise for women in society was actually a curse"Fit to be a wife".
This vicious versionFind a man to marry! Behind it is the biggest denial of a series of "human rights" such as her survivability, ideological value, and meaning of life.
It's like treating her like a pig that can be fried, roasted, and stewed.
A person would not ask a pig's opinion, and when he said this, he had already tacitly assumed that he was superior.
He has been like this for thousands of years, and he feels that he was born with the right to dominate the pigs.
You may even feel that you are extremely high praise for saying this to her, which is a very high position.
But the reality is that she is not a pig, she is a human.
The people who said these things to her were actually subconsciously treating her as a pig.
I don't think about it, the pig has also galloped freely between the mountains, forests and grasses, and has fought bravely with hungry wolves, tigers and leopards.
If she hadn't been trapped by countless disciplines, methods, concepts, cognitions, etc., she wouldn't want to live like this.
You see, how clearly Woolf said it back thenA woman should earn 500 pounds a year and have a locked room of her own.
"500 pounds a year".It is an affirmation of a woman's ability to live in society, her personal ability and her freedom of life.
And "a room that belongs to oneself and locks" is a measure of the value of a woman's ability to control her own life.
Find a man to marry! The reason why it is this node this year is that it is felt by many viewers to be the most "dirty" words of scolding.
That's why.
How can we, who have just survived the "three years of disaster", not know that no one can be relied on, and we are our own dependence, and we can be responsible for ourselves?
Only by seeing ourselves as human beings and taking human rights into our own hands can we get the freedom, respect and everything we want.
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