Text: A flower demon.
Some people say that when you get married, you will have no freedom, and love will eventually become a bubble.
But if you think about it carefully, isn't it because of love that two people get married?
Although the reality is relatively boring and life is not ideal, the so-called love is separated by mountains and seas, and mountains and seas can also be flat, let alone living together.
In fact, people who really love each other have a happy marriage.
It's just that some men are not satisfied, and they don't understand the painstaking work of women.
If you want to know if your wife loves you to the core, you might as well see if she has the following performances.
1. Wash your hands and make soup for you
In most men's hearts, love is what it looks like to wake up every morning and see the breakfast she has prepared for you.
That hot meal is the best expression of her love for you.
She will make you a bowl of nourishing chicken soup when you are tired, so that you can find a touch of warmth in your busy life.
This is love, simple and deep, hidden everywhere in life.
But that's not what she's supposed to do, because life is for two people.
Her ability to take you into account and get up early to arrange food for you shows that you are important to her.
Your wife is your lover, not your free babysitter.
Second, accompany you through every moment
Every important moment in life, she is there for you.
Whether it's your birthday or your career promotion, she will be there for you, cheering you on and sharing your joy.
She will give you a warm hug when you are lost and let you know that you will not be alone no matter when and where you are.
This is love, selfless and firm.
She may not know what you need, but she knows that this is what she can give you.
She is using her small strength to give you spiritual support.
Her time is also time, but she gave her time to you and gave you the company of love, which is enough to prove that she loves you very much.
3. Pay silently for you
Love, sometimes silently.
She will do a lot of things for you when you are not looking.
For example, she will clean the house before you go homeShe will stay by your bedside and take care of you when you are sickShe will help you with some chores when you are busy at work.
These seemingly trivial things are all manifestations of her love for you.
This is love, obscure, but deeply imprinted in every part of life.
You think that what she does is ordinary and ordinary, but who can do such boring and tiring things without the support of love.
She just wants to help you share more, wants your life to be easier, and her starting point is you.
Fourth, understand that you change yourself
Love is a kind of understanding, but also a kind of change.
She will listen to every word you say with her heart and understand it with her heart.
What you think is bad, or what you don't want to do, she will keep it in mind and will change herself.
For example, if you like to stay at home on weekends, she will stay at home with you even if she wants to go out.
For example, if you don't like your wife to keep pushing you, then she won't do it in the future.
Her love for you is heartfelt.
She is willing to change herself and make your life happier.
Men may sometimes ignore their wives' dedication and emotions because they are busy.
But if you think about it, you will find that they really love you to the core.
Obviously, they have a lot of time, they can ask their sisters to go shopping, they can do what they want to do, but they are willing to sacrifice what they want to do for the sake of their family and for you.
They have you in their hearts, so they think about you all the time.
If your wife has the above performance, then you must cherish it, their love is hidden in life, falling on you everywhere, the warmth and relaxation you feel are because they are "carrying the weight forward".