When she was young** "Deep Love and Rain", Yiping felt aggrieved by her father's indifference and her mother's weakness deep down. After being evicted from her home, she had no choice but to sing in the bustling "Greater Shanghai" dance hall to earn a living.
The stills from the TV series "Love is Deep and Rainy" are displayed.
Yiping's half-siblings live in luxurious homes, where they have a worry-free life, a high-quality education, and access to the latest things that are beyond Yiping's reach.
Although they are both Lu Zhenhua's children, Yiping's "downfall" and Ruping's "wealth" are actually the products of the "game" between their respective mothers. Because Fu Wenpei was easily bullied, Yiping had to be kicked out of the house with her;Wang Xueqin is good at winning Lu Zhenhua's affection, and Ruping also enjoys food and wine.
I used to think that Fu Wenpei was an incompetent, old-fashioned and overly narcissistic person;When we ** the TV series "Deep Love and Rain" again, we will realize that Fu Wenpei is a real "ruthless character", and her lifestyle is more in-depth and transparent than Wang Xueqin.
Yiping was interested in working in the ballroom, but when Fu Wenpei learned about this, she strongly objected and expressed her opinion to Yiping like this:
People shouldn't easily lower their ranks, because once you go in the wrong direction, you're going to be stuck in a constant rut and never get a chance to get back on your feet. If there's one thing you can find in yourself, it's to dance and sing. Dancing and singing aren't really the scariest thing, it's the brightly lit atmosphere that can affect your temperament over time and make you gradually indulge in alcohol.
Yiping repeatedly assured Fu Wenpei that she would not go down the path of depravity, but Fu Wenpei still insisted: If you want to live with dignity, you can't go into that kind of place. You still talk about self-esteem in front of your father, how can a child like you not understand that as long as you walk into that kind of place, you have no self-esteem.
In addition, Fu Wenpei also cited the examples of those White Russian girls from her time in the Northeast to oppose Yiping's work in the dance hall.
In the past, I always thought that Fu Wenpei's way of thinking was outdated and not avant-garde enough, but now I suddenly realized that the reason why Fu Wenpei was able to educate her daughter so clearly is not surprising that under her guidance, Yiping was able to learn independence and self-love.
Yiping's success in the "Greater Shanghai" dance hall is largely due to her luck. She was sheltered by He Shuhuan and others, appreciated by her boss Qin Wuye, and tolerated by her colleague Red Peony. For most girls in Yiping's predicament, they may not be forever pure white roses. Therefore, Fu Wenpei's "vigilance" is particularly important.
Fu Wenpei's temperament and insight far surpass Wang Xueqin, Fu Wenpei was born in a family full of books, and Wang Xueqin is just an actor. In this fierce "house fight", although Fu Wenpei lost badly on the surface, Fu Wenpei actually did not want to clash with Wang Xueqin.
Fu Wenpei has a very indifferent attitude towards the relationship between men and women, she will not deliberately cater to others, nor will she win the hearts of men through flattery, let alone lose the meaning of life because she is with men.
After leaving the Lu family, Fu Wenpei and her daughter lived very poorly, mainly because Fu Wenpei funded Adjutant Li's family, who had been hurt by the Lu family, behind her back, otherwise Yiping would have no reason to go to the Lu family to ask for living expenses.
Although Fu Wenpei was abandoned by Lu Zhenhua, she has always been committed to doing good deeds for the Lu family and atoning for the Lu family's sins. She has always maintained the noble demeanor of the lady of the Lu family, not just a flattering aunt.
Therefore, Adjutant Li's family was grateful to her, Wang Xueqin's children also showed respect for her, and Lu Zhenhua also re-accepted her in his old age.
In Qiong Yao's original work**, Fu Wenpei had already noticed that Wang Xueqin was having an affair with other men, but she did not use this to fight Wang Xueqin, but told Yiping:
How many women did your father have contact with in his lifetime!Does he have anything to ask her women to do?Has he ever been loyal to any woman?Your father is a good father, and he is loyal to all women. Why, then, should his partner remain loyal to him?His man, are you really such a person?In this society, people often do not blame unfaithful men, but instead blame unfaithful women, which is unjust!Why would your father love you so much, but not her son?Yiping, is your way of thinking also such a worldly concept?Why does Xueqin have to be loyal to your father?
Fu Wenpei said that she is different from Wang Xueqin and does not particularly care about the relationship between men and women. She further added: "In a relationship between a man and a woman, there is affection and loyalty on both sides, and it is right. However, if one of the parties is disloyal in the first place, then you can no longer blame the other. Xueqin has her own predicament, she is the kind of woman who has no spiritual support at all except for men. Actually, she's not 'bad', she's just ignorant and superficial, which has a lot to do with her origin and education".
Although Fu Wenpei appears weak on the surface, she is actually transparent and firm on the inside. Even in the past society, she did not lose her emotional support because of the lack of men, and her spiritual world was always rich and fulfilling.
In the work "Deep Love and Rain", the real "ruthless character" is not Wang Xueqin's sharpness and pungency, but Fu Wenpei's character who does not fight or grab, and laughs to the end.