My name is Li Yun, 45 years old this year, I work as a sales manager in a foreign company, with an annual salary of 600,000 yuan. Both of my parents have passed away, and now I am still single, living with my niece Li Xiao.
Li Xiao is the daughter of my half-brother, her mother passed away a long time ago, and she grew up with me since she was a child. Now Li Xiao is a fourth-year college student, a very beautiful girl who is excellent in her studies. I have always treated and cared for her as my own daughter.
I am introverted, very conscientious and responsible in my work, and my life is relatively simple. Li Xiao is completely different, she has a lively and cheerful personality, she is very popular in school, and her grades have always been among the best. Over the years, I have had a very good relationship with Li Xiao, I have tried my best to give her the best life, and she has always listened to me, which makes me very happy.
Just last week, I came home from work as usual, and as soon as I entered the door, I saw Li Xiao sitting on the sofa, looking at me excitedly: "Uncle, I have big news to tell you, you will be very happy!".”
I smiled and said, "What good news, tell my uncle about it." ”
Li Xiao lowered his head shyly, his face flushed: "I have a boyfriend!."His name is Wang Jun, he is from the School of Information Engineering, he is very handsome, and he is also very good. ”
I was surprised and said, "Really?".My Xiaoxiao has grown up, and she will fall in love. Quick, show my uncle**!
Li Xiao handed me the phone, and inside was a photo of her and a tall and handsome young man. I took a closer look and felt that this young man was really good-looking and looked very stable, so I said, "Not bad, uncle is very satisfied!".Later, I will have time to bring him to the house to sit down. ”
Li Xiao said happily: "Surely!."I've already told him that he would love to meet his uncle too. ”
I smiled and nodded: "That's good, you found someone you like, and my uncle is very happy for you." ”
A few days later, I suddenly received a message from a strange girl who introduced herself as Zeng Mei and a new employee of our company. She said that she had been paying attention to me for a long time, wanted to pursue me, and wanted me to give the relationship a chance.
I was very surprised when I saw the message because I had always been single and had hardly any contact with the opposite sex. Receiving the confession of a beautiful girl was like a dream for me at the age of 45.
I took a closer look at the ** she sent, Zeng Mei is very beautiful, has a good figure, and looks very temperamental. Occur.
In the evening, I truthfully told Li Xiao about it. Unexpectedly, her face immediately changed, and she said to me very seriously: "Uncle, you can't be with other women, let alone get married and have children, I don't agree!."”
Surprised, I retorted, "Why?"My uncle also wants to start a family and have a partner, which is normal. ”
Li Xiao said excitedly: "I can't accept the life of having a stepmother!."My uncle and I get along very well now, and if you get married, it's bound to get a lot of trouble. ”
I comforted her and said, "Xiaoxiao, my uncle and Zeng Mei have just started to get in touch, and now we can't talk about getting married, so don't think about it." Even if we do get together in the future, Uncle will take care of you and won't change your mind. ”
Li Xiao said with red eyes: "No!."I disagree!If you have to be with someone else, I'll move out and I won't pay attention to you in the future!”
I saw that she was so decisive, and I was a little anxious: "Xiaoxiao, calm down." You have your own life, and I can have my own life. You can't deprive me of my right to pursue happiness for my own reasons. ”
I don't care about your right to happiness, I don't agree anyway!After Li Xiao finished speaking, he ran back to the room and slammed the door slammed.
I sighed, thinking it wouldn't be so easy.
In the days that followed, Li Xiao and I quarreled many times about this matter. I tried my best to explain to her patiently, but she still strongly opposed me and Zeng Mei being together, and even said that she would not accept me getting married and having children.
One day, Li Xiao argued with me about this issue again, I couldn't bear it anymore, and said something heavy: "Li Xiao, you don't have the power to control my life. I raised you **, but you are so unreasonable, I am disappointed!”
Li Xiao also replied to me: "I just won't accept the life of having a stepmother!."If you have to be with someone else, don't worry about me!”
In the next few days, Li Xiao was very cold to me, and I also felt sad. Although her attitude made it difficult for me to accept, after all, I had treated her like my own daughter for so many years, and I was really reluctant to cut off the relationship like this.
After careful consideration, I decided to continue to develop this relationship with Zeng Mei. I understand Li Xiao's thoughts, but I also have the right to pursue my own happiness. I believe that as long as I guide slowly, she will eventually accept that I have a new family.
After a long time, Li Xiao replied to me: "Uncle, in fact, I have been thinking about our previous quarrel these days. I reflected on my attitude and felt that you were right. You have raised me for so many years, and I have no power to control your life. You have the right to choose your own happiness, and I shouldn't be against you like that. After I figured this out, I will no longer strongly object to you being with Zeng Mei, and I will try to learn to accept it in the future. But now that I think about it, I still feel a little sad in my heart. It takes a little getting used to. ”
It's okay Xiaoxiao, you are also impulsive, uncle won't mind. Emotional matters are inherently complex and require us to understand each other. I comforted her.
In this way, the relationship between me and Li Xiao finally returned to harmony. The development of this matter was indeed beyond my expectations, but what made me happy was that Li Xiao finally accepted the reality maturely.
I started dating Zeng Mei, she is a very beautiful and understanding girl, and I like her more and more. One day, I invited her to my house for dinner, wanting to meet Li Xiao officially.
Before Zeng Mei came, I talked to Li Xiao first. Li Xiao said: "Uncle, after thinking about it, I still hope that you don't let Zeng Mei come to the house too soon." I need more time to get used to your relationship, and it's going to be hard for me to meet all of a sudden. ”
I understood Li Xiao's thoughts, so I said, "Okay, then let's not be in a hurry for now, and when you are really ready, we will let you meet Zeng Mei." I'm not going to force you. ”
Thank you uncle for your understanding. I'll try to get used to it as soon as possible and give me some time. Li Xiao said gratefully.
So I didn't take her home when I was dating Zeng Mei, and the two of us often went to the park for walks, movies, and shopping. As the days passed, I could see that Li Xiao's mentality was slowly getting better, and he no longer resisted me and Zeng Mei as before.
Two months later, Li Xiao took the initiative to say to me: "Uncle, I have thought about it, you can take Zeng Mei home for a meal and let me meet her." ”
I happily said, "Really?".That's great!I'll ask Zeng Mei to come to the house on the weekend, I'll cook a few of your favorite dishes, and we'll have a family dinner together!”
Okay, okay!Li Xiao also smiled.
On the weekend, Zeng Mei came to my house on time. Li Xiao was a little restrained, but said hello to Zeng Mei calmly. I warmly entertained Zeng Mei to dinner and opened a bottle of red wine.
The atmosphere at dinner was very harmonious, and Li Xiao gradually opened her heart and chatted with Zeng Mei about her college life. I saw that they were getting along well, so I took the opportunity to say, "Xiaoxiao, what do you think of Zeng Mei, the future aunt?"”
Li Xiao smiled and said, "She's very good." As long as you're happy, uncle. ”
I said happily, "Then we will come to the house often for dinner and chatter from now on." ”
Okay!Li Xiao also smiled and nodded.
That night, Li Xiao took the initiative to chat with Zeng Mei very happily, and I was really relieved to see it in my eyes.
Later, Zeng Mei often came to my house as a guest and got along well with me and Li Xiao. I feel that Li Xiao has fully accepted the fact that I am with Zeng Mei.
One day after dinner, Zeng Mei and I were sitting on the balcony watching the night view, Li Xiao came in and brought us fruit, and then said to me, "Uncle, can I say a few words to you alone?"”
I was a little surprised, but I still said hello to Zeng Mei and went to another room with Li Xiao.
I happily shook Li Xiao's hand and said, "Really?."Xiaoxiao, you have finally fully accepted it, which means a lot to me. Do you know that I've been cautious all this time, for fear that you still won't be able to adapt. I'm so happy to hear you say that now!”
Li Xiao smiled and nodded: "Well, it's really okay." At first, I really couldn't accept it, but then I realized that you also have the right to live the life you want and pursue your own happiness. I can't take away your rights because of my willfulness. Now I sincerely hope that you and Zeng Mei can be happy. ”
I hugged Li Xiao excitedly: "Xiaoxiao, you are so gratifying to me." You can be so open-minded, my uncle is so touched beyond words. I will definitely live happily with Zeng Mei, and you will always be my most important family. ”
Well, uncle, I love you the most. Li Xiao's eyes were a little red.
At this moment, I felt like the happiest person in the world. Because not only did I find a life partner, but my Li Xiao finally fully accepted our relationship, which means a lot to me.
Since then, my relationship with Zeng Mei has become more and more stable, and Li Xiao has also been very supportive of us. During the Chinese New Year, Li Xiao also took the initiative to invite Zeng Mei to go home for the New Year, and we were as happy as a big family.
I am full of emotion, every stage of life has its own difficulties, but as long as we face them with love and understanding, we will definitely be able to overcome them and usher in a better future.