Parents have always regarded their children as the pearl of their palms, worrying that they will be wronged outside, but they always seem to ignore the most important point, that is, "marrying too far". They seem to forget that love is not limited by distance, and distance does not stop the development of love. Therefore, I want to appeal here, don't marry too far, I'm afraid that you won't be able to return home if you are wronged.
I remember once having a friend who was thousands of miles away from her boyfriend, one in the north and one in the south. Every time in the cold winter, my friends are thinking about the boyfriend who is far away in the south, will he be frozen by the cold wind?Does he bring an umbrella when it rains?What if you are wronged?In order not to let their daughter marry so far, parents often persuade her to break up, but friends insist on their choice. Eventually, she got her wish and married the man and lived happily ever after. Love knows no distance, as long as the two are happy.
However, can the distance really affect the relationship between two people?Not really. What really affects the relationship is that the problems and conflicts between two people cannot be solved in time, and it is difficult for one party to take into account the feelings of the other party when the distance is far away. After some girls marry in other places, they do not handle the relationship with their in-laws well, and they have nowhere to complain when they are wronged;Or work is not going well, and you can't go home to find someone to rely on;It's even hard to have a candlelit dinner with your husband sometimes. These are the inconveniences of being too far away.
A girl once said to me, "I love my boyfriend a lot, but I can't stand him not seeing me once a year." Distance can make people strange, many people think that love needs to be together to maintain, and ignoring the distance of time and space can also produce feelings. When two people are together, the deeper the relationship will be. On the other hand, if you are estranged because of distance, then the relationship will become fragile. So, don't let distance be a stumbling block in love.
In fact, distance is not a stumbling block to love, the real stumbling block is a lack of trust and communication. If there is enough trust and communication between two people, then no matter how far away they are, it will not affect their feelings. Just like those couples who are thousands of miles apart, they maintain their relationship through tools such as ** and WeChat. As long as there is love in the hearts of two people, then all difficulties can be overcome.
"Don't marry too far, I'm afraid you won't be able to go home if you are wronged."This quote is the best interpretation of the care and concern of parents. However, love is not limited by distance. As long as two people have enough trust and communication, no matter how far away they are, it will not affect their relationship. Instead, they will turn distance into a motivation that motivates them to cherish each other's feelings even more. So, let's not be bound by distance and time, and believe that the power of love can overcome everything.