I wrote some articles about "older leftover women" in a row, and I feel that if I don't write about "older leftover men", it seems to be a bit "favoritism".
Therefore, this article plans to talk to you about older leftover men, and it happens that there are a few ...... around me
Whenever they talk about why older leftover women are single, many people will say that they are too demanding, so they pick and choose the rest.
What about the older leftover men?Why is there still left?What are they thinking?
With these questions, I asked a few buddies around me who were about to run for four, but were still single.
Interestingly, the answers they gave were quite different.
1.Mr. Z: I don't mix well, I don't have a house, and very few girls are willing to marry.
Mr. Z is a colleague I know in Shenzhen, in fact, he is okay and has good ability, but his job is not stable enough.
Although when he goes to work, his monthly salary can go up to 20k, but he often changes jobs and is not very stable, so there is not much surplus food.
In addition, the conditions at home are relatively average, and they are mixed in Shenzhen, so the pressure is really great, so they didn't buy a house in Bensi.
Yes, in his opinion, without a house, no matter how well the girlfriend talks, the girlfriend's parents will not agree to the marriage.
Therefore, several relationships he has talked about in the past ten years have finally lost to reality.
Of course, with my understanding of him, in fact, half of the reason why he is not married is that he is too picky, and he says that he is not demanding, but in fact, when he wants to introduce him, there are all kinds of rules and regulations.
Therefore, reality, may be realistic, but if you learn to bow your head, you may not become an older leftover man.
2.Mr. H: I want to get married, but I can't find a suitable one.
Mr. H is a relative of mine, and the conditions of the family can only be said to be ordinary, but he is quite handsome, so when he was young, there were many girls chasing him.
It's more talkative, so it's favored by many aunts, and they all want to introduce him to someone.
He has been doing blind date for the past ten years, but unfortunately none of them have come to fruition, and every time he doesn't look down on each other.
To be honest, he also knows that his requirements are relatively high, but he doesn't want to compromise, so he would rather be single than find someone to marry.
Objectively speaking, it is not difficult to find a girl who is gentle and knows how to run a house, but the difficult thing is that he sets the standard of "virtuous and virtuous" too high, so it is really difficult to find.
Therefore, most of the reasons why there are old people left are because of the high requirements.
3.Mr. W: It's good to be alone, why do you want to get married?
Mr. W is a good friend I have known for many years, and his family conditions can be regarded as relatively good, at least he has a house, a car and surplus food in his hometown, and he can live without working.
For him, marriage is not a must, because if a bad choice becomes "poverty alleviation" in minutes, there is really no need for that.
Moreover, his own conditions are good, his requirements are naturally higher, he is about to run four, and he still wants to find someone who is about 25 years old, and he has to feel in love, in that case, he will consider getting married.
It is said that men are more realistic, and this friend is both real and romantic, obviously on a blind date, and also pursues love in various ways.
Of course, fate is hard to say, maybe one day he really bumped into it.
In fact, with the development of the times, there will be more and more older leftover men, and the situation of these three men is just a microcosm.
It can only be said that everyone has their own experience and will definitely have their own pursuits.
As an outsider, you can persuade appropriately and occasionally introduce some objects, but there is no need to be too serious.
After all, the road is all on its own.
Finally, I want to say that,Not compromised, is a choice
Not particular, and not wrong......
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