My life is sparkling
The pressure on people these days may really be too great. I often see such and such remarks: "There is no need to get married and have children, why suffer like this".
It seems that parents bring their children into this world to suffer.
Some people also say that it is better to live a good life in their own generation, and it is a hundred.
Is this really the case?If everybody thought that, we might not be there anymore. If a family has no children and grandchildren, will it really be very easy and happy?Why is the country's economic downturn, isn't there no demographic dividend?
The ancients said: "The plan of a year lies in spring, the plan of a life lies in diligence, and the plan of three lives lies in the son."
Regardless of the family situation, getting married and having children is a major life plan and a long-term plan.
1. When you're young, you probably don't feel it.
When you are young, you are full of energy and vitality, and when you are alive and kicking, you can't feel how bitter your old age is.
Because you are young, you can do whatever you want, you can do whatever you want, and it is relatively easy to make money, as long as you are motivated.
Many young people think that as long as they have money, they will have everything. I don't know at all that once people's spirits are empty and they have a lot of money in their hands, they won't feel happy.
During the New Year's holidays, the neighbors next door have their children coming home, and their daughters-in-law and sons-in-law come to the door, which is lively and lively. There are only two old people in your home, and it is deserted.
If the old couple leaves first, the remaining one, living alone, will be even more lonely.
Sanmao said: "I finally understand how important my life is in the eyes of those who love me, how long my love is, how long my concern and reluctance are."
There are many kinds of love in the world, among which there is one kind of concern, which is sometimes very beautiful and sometimes very bleak, but as long as there is something to worry about in the heart, it can fill the emptiness and blankness in people's spirit.
Some people say that when children grow up, they are not not around, and some children are not necessarily filial. But these are two different things.
Who said that if you have a child, you will be filial, and whether a child is filial or not is not something you can control, let alone something you can decide.
But when you have children, you will always have a part in your care, and your heart will have a place to rest.
There are also things worth waiting for during the New Year's holidays, and all the hard work is filled in my heart at the moment of waiting for the arrival.
The mother of the child is worried, and so is the father's love. This kind of affection is even stronger in the later years of life.
Some elderly people who have lived in their rural hometowns for most of their lives have left their hometown and come to the cities where their children live to help them take care of their children.
In fact, when they came to the city, they didn't Xi it at all, and they had to slowly Xi get used to it for the sake of their children. Because children are their lifelong concern, they can't rest assured at any time.
Of course, the pressure on young people to live in the city is also quite great, and when the children are small, they can have the help of the elderly, and the pressure on young people will be less.
The elderly help to take care of their grandchildren, although they are tired, but they will also have a sense of happiness. Since then, the old man has been able to experience another sense of value.
2. There are fireworks at home.
Living a difficult life and being poor is not a reason not to have children.
Families without children, and families with children, have more fireworks than families with children.
Families without children are more likely to be more relaxed, but they are also relatively lonely.
Nowadays, people are very busy and tired at work, and they are stressed. But when I got home from work in the evening, the child came up and called Mom and Dad, and suddenly all the busyness and tiredness disappeared, and all the hard work was worth it.
If anyone asks you to spend a lot of money on your children, do you sell them?No matter how much money you have, you won't sell.
There is a ** shot like this: "Having a child is equal to a listed company, if you are given a million to buy your child, will you sell it?".Not for sale;Ten million, sell?Not for sale;Do you sell it for 100 million?Are you still human after selling?”
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Home is not only childish, not only a wisp of cooking smoke, but more importantly, a fireworks, in order to thrive.
When the family eats, the children are noisy and noisy, and the adults are busy, and there are grievances and blessings.
3. The integrity and continuation of life.
Life is not perfect, but it can be complete.
At a certain point in life, the mission that should be completed at this node is completed. Follow the process, and life will be smooth.
If you don't find a partner when you're young, you don't have children when you're middle-aged, you don't have a wife when you're old, and your home isn't a home, you yourself will feel that everything is boring.
Everyone wants their lives to go well, and they all want their lives to be good.
If you don't even want to start a family and raise children, how can you have a good life?Every day, one person is fed, and the whole family is not hungry, is it good to tell fortunes like this?There is no motivation or support at all to be alive, so ask yourself.
Maybe we are all ordinary people and don't have a huge family business for our children to inherit, but we have a complete home, so that life can be continued, and children can feel the warmth and happiness of home.
In the structure of life, there must be children.
4. Conclusion. Why do people have children, you will understand sooner or later, and this is the answer to this article.
Emerson said, "The family is the kingdom of the father, the world of the mother, and the paradise of the child.""。
Goethe said: "Whether a king or a farmer, family harmony is the happiest".
Since ancient times, getting married and having children have been major life events, but in fact, they are indispensable.
From the time we give birth to our children, we ourselves are maturing and growing. Having children is also nurturing parents. If you don't raise children, you won't be kind to your parents. Life fulfills each other because of this.
Life in the world is a process, birth, old age, sickness and death, giving birth to children, filial piety to parents, making money to support the family, the cycle goes on and on, and the cycle is endless.